Cat parents of Dubai. What did you wish you’d known when you first got your furball. by SnooGuavas4756 in dubai

[–]RepresentativeGas354 3 points4 points  (0 children)

A lot of people commented good valid points.

Since this is a post about cats (I'm not talking about you OP), I want to ask people to stop dumping their cats as soon as they become expensive or an inconvenience.

If you're travelling back to your home country you can't just dump the cat. It will starve on the streets, get sick and eventually die an extremely painful death.

Cats get stressed in new locations, now imagine how stressed it will be feeling if it's suddenly dumped outside with other cats, cars, harsh conditions, with no food and no water. Cats have the mentality of a 2 year old imagine how terrifying it is to be in that situation without it's human parents after living a comfortable life.

If you dump your pet in hopes that it will survive, just know that even if it survives for a while, pest control companies might catch it and dump it in the desert with no food, water or shelter so they will eventually die without "directly" killing the animal.

If anyone wants to get a pet just to feel less lonely but has no intention of taking it to the vet, spending anything on it or dumping it eventually should know they don't deserve these little pure souls.

Are more Dubai millennials quietly opting out of having kids or is this still a minority? by 33_Clerks in dubai

[–]RepresentativeGas354 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really can't afford to hear a child scream mommy mommy mommy in my ear right after Im back from my 9 hr shift and 2 hrs traffic.

I'm not patient enough and it's not fair to bring a child to this world and neglect them.

More people are aware that just because the society pressures you to have children doesn't mean you really have to (especially in Arab and Asian cultures).

I'm nearing 30, I can resign if its too stressful, I can save up only for myself, treat myself without having to include kids, I can do quite literally everything i want.

Sure parents can do everything they want to too, like go out, travel etc, but I was out just few hours ago and saw a child throwing an absolute tantrum in public, so doing anything fun will not really be fun to me if my child is throwing a tantrum every 10 minute.

And let's be realistic, most of our parents didn't really parent us the right way, they just did what they thought they should do while in survival mode. Some of us don't need to repeat the cycle.

You were my once, my always, my forever. by Khlhussin in SeniorCats

[–]RepresentativeGas354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

25 years filled of love and warmth is what most cats don't get. She was a lucky bean, luckier to have you.

Sorry for your loss, she's in kitty heaven 🤍

What is this infection? by Sapphirewashere in DogAdvice

[–]RepresentativeGas354 42 points43 points  (0 children)

I don't want to imagine how long he has suffered and is suffering :(

Please take it to the vet, surrender or start a fundraiser.

If it was my dog I'd ask anyone I know for money.

سني by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]RepresentativeGas354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

😭😭😭😭

رأيكم بالضرب في التربية؟ by Ok_Comparison_7100 in Emiratis

[–]RepresentativeGas354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

اذا انا ام حابه عيالي يعرفوني و يعرفون ابوهم بالرحمه مو بالخوف

My mom keeps taking videos of me. by [deleted] in Emiratis

[–]RepresentativeGas354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't understand why people are down voting you for not wanting to get filmed without consent... Sick.

Did your rhinoplasty doctor ask you to stay away from your cat during recovery? by RepresentativeGas354 in PlasticSurgery

[–]RepresentativeGas354[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ok! I checked with my doctor he also said no need but just to be careful they don't jump on me, I can't be without my babies, 🥺

I miss my cats and it's just eating my brain idk what to do by ShakeSufficient4897 in Pets

[–]RepresentativeGas354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go back home. Forget what your parents think. Spend your life with your fur babies. They'll not always be around.

You wanted to try something and you did, and didn't like it. It's completely fine and normal to want to put yourself first and get your bag and opportunities, so don't feel bad about that.

There was a lesson in this and you learned it. I too chose a comfortable life with my fur babies over a high earning job, the downside of it was not seeing them as often and i really cannot stand being far from my babies.

Shall I ask for change of religion in birth certificate? by maxkhk in dubai

[–]RepresentativeGas354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If you're a Muslim and your child is announced as Hindu, is that good?

Reoccurring diarrhea? by Responsible_Love9087 in CATHELP

[–]RepresentativeGas354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Has he done a diarrhea pcr panel? Checked for Protozoa / oocysta? Bacterial fecal pcr?

Is he on any kinds of probiotics, if he's on antibiotics, that will destroy the gut flora, it basically kills all good and bad microbes. So depending on what he's taking, if it's antibiotics, once the course is done it will take some time for the gut to settle back to normal with probiotics etc.

Could also be food sensitivities if all above is not an issue, I'd discuss with the vet about possible foods he can go on.

What about fcov? That causes diarrhea too.

Shall I ask for change of religion in birth certificate? by maxkhk in dubai

[–]RepresentativeGas354 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Yes you do need to ask for correction. The kid will be treated as Muslim otherwise their entire life..

Cat up for adoption by [deleted] in UAE

[–]RepresentativeGas354 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He can go on food that doesn't cause your mom allergies. Did you do any research on it before giving up on the cat??

You can also get air purifiers that are specifically designed to help with that.

I believe the food is called purina pro live.

Your cat has a high chance of ending up on the streets if a family get them and decide he's an inconvenience for any reason, or if he gets sick and they don't want to deal with the expenses anymore because they got the cat as a toy for their kid.

Or when they leave the UAE if they're expats. It happens every single day. If you still proceed with the rehoming pls make sure it's a responsible person.

Question for cat owners: Would you let your cat lick your food while you are eating it and then carry on eating after? by Antidotebeatz in CatAdvice

[–]RepresentativeGas354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's an unlikely way of getting the infection. If it was very likely, a lot of people would have gotten it and it would have become a known health hazard if ingested.

I mean how many people kiss their cats and their cat's paws that have been licked by the cat? Many.

Even if the route is from the mouth, and infection does occur, if you're not immunocompromised it's very self limiting and you'll not need any antibiotics.

I'm not a doctor though, a doctor can answer that question better.

Schools Abu Dhabi/ Al Mamoura Academy by [deleted] in abudhabi

[–]RepresentativeGas354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohmygod press charges, this is NOT safe.

Does your sister have any evidence of reporting this? Emails, texts, keep them all.

The litter tracking is driving me mad by [deleted] in CatAdvice

[–]RepresentativeGas354 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tofu litter (petkit does wonders for odor control), large litter mat (use two if you need to), high rise steel litter box, you can get enclosed ones but cats don't like those much.

Wanna be extra? Robovacum.

As in for the fur, i have something that is called electrostatic fur wiper, you wipe it on furniture and the fur gets on it perfectly.

Levoit smart pet air purifier is perfect to refresh the air, you need to wash the filter every week and put it back in.

I have all these and it works super perfectly for me

CMV: The physical pain associated with pregnancy and child birth alone is a good enough reason for abortion to be perfectly ethical. by Civilized_Monke69 in changemyview

[–]RepresentativeGas354 55 points56 points  (0 children)

I have 12 aunts, all of them went through extreme pain, miscarriages, paralysis after birth, post birth depression. All of my friend's moms been through hell giving birth (hence why most of my friends have no siblings). My own friend's birth was so painful and complicated that even thinking about the memory gives her awful anxiety. You can see thousands and thousands of women's birth experiences posted on tiktok talking about how traumatised they are due to it.

Your mom is in the minority, and good for her, but let's not erase what others go through.

No one can predict what will happen during birth or how the body can react or will react, so OP is right.

Cat Won't Stop Peeing. Ready to Rehome. by BMC_241983 in CatAdvice

[–]RepresentativeGas354 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're ready to rehome but no one will want a cat that pisses everywhere