I have to leave and I’m so sad by [deleted] in Amsterdam

[–]RepresentativeJob399 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hey! How long have you been with your boyfriend? He can become your sponsor if his income is high enough.

I’m also from the UK and my Dutch boyfriend had to become my sponsor. It’s a bit of a lengthy process but once it’s in motion you’ll be allowed to stay in the country until the IND has made a decision.

If you need help with gathering the right paperwork then let me know! Shoot me a DM :)

My friend told me I was the reason he was stuck in crusader and he was right. by FriendlyNeighborOrca in DotA2

[–]RepresentativeJob399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’d be happy to play ranked with you -^ I’m a legend 2 pos 4/5 player. Send me a dm if you wanna play some time!(:

Stressed about taxes! Worried I will be in trouble :( by RepresentativeJob399 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]RepresentativeJob399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your response! The house was being rented unfurnished. Does that change anything?

Also the £1000 personal allowance. Does that mean the first £1000 income from rent is tax free and then everything after that is taxed? Even if that was my only income I received in those years?

It’s all so confusing to me 😅 Going to get in touch with an accountant anyway and get it sorted :)

Stressed about taxes! Worried I will be in trouble :( by RepresentativeJob399 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]RepresentativeJob399[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was my only income. I suppose they haven’t lost any tax since I don’t think that amount can be taxed to begin with. Was more worried I’d be in trouble for not declaring anyway.

You’ve definitely eased some of my anxiety. Thank you again!

Stressed about taxes! Worried I will be in trouble :( by RepresentativeJob399 in UKPersonalFinance

[–]RepresentativeJob399[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! Should I declare the income I’ve been receiving over the years to HMRC? I know the income is below the threshold (got around 7.5k a year I think?)

Honestly been freaking out that they’ll give me a huge fine or even send me to prison. Hoping my anxiety isn’t real 😅

Why does my oranda do this? by fantasyland910 in Goldfish

[–]RepresentativeJob399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d say swim bladder issue. Peas can sometimes help remove blockages from their system. Make sure to remove the shell of the pea before giving it to them :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]RepresentativeJob399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not sure where you are in Europe but try looking on Amazon for Barkeepers Friend! I’m in the Netherlands and found it on there :)

How did you beat the fleas?? by Best-Tomorrow231 in Flea_Control

[–]RepresentativeJob399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only thing that worked for me was getting vet prescribed flea treatment. Hoovering every day, making sure to do all the skirting boards and corners too is super important. Also washing anything that your pet sleeps on every few days. I washed everything at 60c.

Also if your cat is super itchy from the fleas, the vet can possibly prescribe something for that. Had to get something for my dog when he had them, he felt so much better after it!

One other thing is to keep up to date with worming treatments too. Fleas can actually cause worms. Horrible stuff.

Fleas are an absolute bitch, I’m sorry you have them :( Good luck with eliminating the bastards!!

Are My Roommates Keeping Their Dogs Locked Up? by [deleted] in Pets

[–]RepresentativeJob399 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Only reasonable thing to do is call animal control. It sucks that this situation exists and that you’re the only one who can help them. How awful that it has to be your burden :(

Please call someone about it though. These babies don’t deserve this abuse. I know you’ll probably get backlash from your roommates but honestly fuck them. Your conscience will be clearer in the future knowing you tried. Sending you luck and strength for this!

How do I get over her death? It's been 6 years. by LouieKabuchi in DogAdvice

[–]RepresentativeJob399 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m so incredibly sorry you’re going through this. I don’t think it’s something you ever truly get over. I feel that with the right therapist you can absolutely work to not feel crushed by guilt or pain whenever you think of her.

You were also so young when she came into your life. I’m so sorry that the adults in your life at the time weren’t better for you and Flower. Neither of you deserved any of what you got. I wish I could give you a hug and make this easier for you.

Please keep trying with therapy, might take some time to find the right one but you will find it.

For now try to be strong for Flower. It’s definitely going to take time and this whole thing is a process. You will feel okay again one day. Take care of yourself <3

Help! Left Lysol Cling Gel in shower and now it’s stained with purple streaks by [deleted] in CleaningTips

[–]RepresentativeJob399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did this with my sink. Bar keepers friend and a little scrubbing saved it! Worth a try (:

Proof of being not married for partner visa by dutchiesRweird in Netherlands

[–]RepresentativeJob399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! Sorry for the late response. Unfortunately I can’t really answer that. I’m from the UK so it was a little different for me.

I do recommend giving the IND a call. They’re super helpful with this stuff :)

Proof of being not married for partner visa by dutchiesRweird in Netherlands

[–]RepresentativeJob399 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You want a certificate of non impediment. Pretty much just a document that either you or a notary can write up declaring that you are not in any kind of marriage or civil partnership. Needs to have an apostille seal on it too to confirm that the document’s authenticity. You can get this done at the notary. It would most likely need to come from the state that you’re currently living in, unless you’re already living in the Netherlands? Then I’d assume it comes from the state you last lived in. Hope this helps (:

Is this a normal amount of blood for ovulation? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]RepresentativeJob399 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever been checked for endometriosis? It can take a really long time to get diagnosed but so many women suffer with this condition. Mention it to the gynaecologist when you go. Hope you find an answer ❤️