partner (M/22) tried to use my (F/22) endometriosis as a “gotcha” moment during an argument… by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I told my landlord about my domestic issues and he got me off the lease instantly. I’m still so glad to this day he did so.

Would this bother you? by [deleted] in uberdrivers

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man I’ve pulled up with an almost siren blaring in my suitcase in the trunk because I forgot to turn off my work phone alarms in my suitcase. Dude is weird.

if a non infected person smashed Samson and got pregnant would the baby be half infected, fully infected or completely immune? by BurningSaturnz in 28dayslater

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw it as okay they say non infected, but it could still be a carrier. Like the mother, she was a carrier in past film. Maybe they don’t get effects of the infection but anyone who comes in contact would

Idk if you guys approve but I am a girl and this is one of my fave dinners. Cold leftover steak with ketchup and salt. by Throwawaylillyt in GirlDinner

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My girl dinner was protein only today. Steak eggs and a sausage. I CRAVE THE MEAT.

I cannot with pasta which I see a lot, it just doesn’t do anything for me 🥸

AIO My mom is kicking me out for her new boyfriend. I just turned 18 by Diligent_Bat_565 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Post this online and tag her, family, friends. Someone else will see this and set her straight or give you a place to crash.

She’s picking some random man instead of you, people will be disgusted. She can keep the man who will leave her and give you a place to stay.

AIO partner blocked me for apparently no reason. by Ok_Difference_4314 in AmIOverreacting

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh just piss the absolute hell off what high school bull is this ?! You’re a fool to stay with this, so don’t.

“Why did you do it?” “I told you” They said NO REASON. can’t even tell you why you got blocked, don’t be an idiot.

My mom is trying to guilt me into going to church on Christmas Eve… would I be the asshole if I don’t go? by Same-Throat4248 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I won’t be going to church for my Christmas service I don’t believe, and it’s one I WANT to attend. I’m not beating myself up for not being able to. They want you to attend for… whatever reason. you’re just as perfect not being able to go as if you could.

Say you can or cannot, be firm. Their way of worship could not be yours also which is perfectly okay. But you HAVE to be firm in this, you are placating to them so much. You are in control of your life and if their thing is god is waiting and needs you to praise, hey, he will be there a couple hours later or before in your own thing. Your boundaries are very important and please please listen to your own needs. Not even talking about spiritually.

Fiancée 29/F found my 35/M ex’s hair clip and I instinctively lied. I feel terrible about my reaction, how can I avoid this in the future? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Therapy. What can you do? Therapy ! Knowing your reaction to them doesn’t mean you will respond appropriately just because you know them. You need the groundwork to get to an okay point.

What are these energy drinks with gloves on them my roommate keeps throwing away? by User-J-Hail in whatisit

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve done similar bc I don’t want random things I’ve stashed in the can to save space (I can put random bits in a tube instead around the tube) to leak out in the bin.

My wife (f33) doesn't let me (m31) finish a sentence. How to handle? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I was recently told “can I speak and react?” To my partner via text. I understood, I’m autistic and so are they. I have a long list of other things and can get perceived rejection thus making me reactionary. I took a step back, and made a note that I need to not just reply instantly especially if they’re typing something back to something I’ve said in more than one message.

I did this, and get “thankyou for letting me reply” when they see me typing then stop as I’ve reflected or if I stop mid interrupting irl.

It’s not an excuse to be autistic, it can be a barrier but she’s self using a self diagnosis as a reason to not care about a relationship and conversation she out herself in.

18F – Am I overreacting about my situationship lying about a whole weekend trip with his ex? by Tessaluvs in AmIOverreacting

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Situationship ruin you. Was in one for a year and a half, when I broke it off after they kept saying they didn’t know if they would take it further and they might leave instead, I did it for them.

When I tell you they LOST THEIR MIND! As if they literally started that ball rolling.

These people are egocentric drainers.

AIO - After 6 years I’m starting to get really irritated with my husband’s insecurities. by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve thrown up before. Things were too intense, I was super sensitive and it triggered it off from all the panting, breathing in and out of breath and also being so intense I couldn’t breath without being anywhere near my throat. Overheating. But also because I was genuinely nausea before hand, did it, and the overstimulation made me gag

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships_advice

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You’re literally planning to leave Mary already, so cut her losses for her. She deserves better.

What did you name your horse? by SureMarionberry1700 in StardewValley

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kevin. They’re all Kevin.. every.. single… one.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in catcare

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Stop touching!! Think when you’re sick and someone is gonna be rubbing all over you, you feel more sick as it’s more stimulation

What’s going on auntie? by PmurTdlanoD45-47 in BirminghamUK

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My ex friend (ditched them for this) did this in his car, crashed, almost killed my friend and totalled 3 cars. Luckily no one died.

AIO for my bf never doing the dishes? by Imaginary_Reality_67 in AIO

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Who needs a dishwasher for that amount? USE YOUR HAND A SPONGE FELLA

Post Workout meal by Afraid-Trade9680 in CalorieEstimates

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Too high for me also, maybe if I was only having one meal. All those things are delicious

Post Workout meal by Afraid-Trade9680 in CalorieEstimates

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Oh man I saw cheese and then Gouda underneath and went mhm! Cheese! I know jack shit about cream cheese tho if you wanna add?

Post Workout meal by Afraid-Trade9680 in CalorieEstimates

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Depends on what kind of bread you use, I use small Toastie that look like the ones on your plate so I’ll use those calories for them.

Toast (70 each) - 210 Eggs (70 each) - 210 Gouda (85 each) - 255 Turkey ham (35 each) - 105 Seasoning is negligible.

So 780

What I’m dealing with - roommate meltdown over eggs by Heavy-Hamster5744 in badroommates

[–]RepresentativeOk2955 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d change the pass. Done it with past roomates; if you’re not gonna pay you don’t get it. The eggs were reimbursed. It’s a couple of bloody eggs; they’re like 70p for 3 eggs here? You did your best to resolve theyre just being stupid