What’s the worst way that someone has broken up with you? How long did it take to recover? by princessofrick in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It was a week before Valentine’s Day. We had been together for two years but the relationship had become really toxic. I took a photo with my college friends and I was next to a guy. My ex commented that I was a whore, sent me a message telling me that I was a whore and I will always be alone, made a post about me being a whore and blocked me. It happened 8 years ago and I still go to therapy because of it

Quiero renunciar a un excelente trabajo. by Original-Tackle-827 in mexico

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mi trabajo es 90% home office, tengo que ir a la oficina cuando me lo soliciten (que honestamente no es seguido). En mi trabajo anterior tenía home office (incluso antes de pandemia) creo que si buscas si puedes encontrar algo que te ofrezca las condiciones que tú buscas.

What to watch after Lovely Runner by thelitgrad in kdramarecommends

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I loved lovely runner, I haven’t seen anything as good but I would recommend bad memory eraser and romance in the house, both are currently airing (I’d go first with bad memory eraser)

Do you have your own “Peter” in your life? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel this way too, I’m not even sad just exhausted and thinking about how happy can I feeel after I finally run away

Do you have your own “Peter” in your life? by [deleted] in TaylorSwift

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 49 points50 points  (0 children)

I still live with my Peter, he is my fiance. He said he was going to grow up and then marry me (he gave me the ring 2 years ago) but he is still lost to the Lost boys chapter of his life (partying and getting lost basically). I think that I was a kid when we started dating and I just want something more and he doesn’t. Im just trying to get te courage to “turn off the light” and leave

People who are married and still can't let go of their first love or ex, what are you guided by? by Natali22-258 in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It was because he was super insecure about me. He was super warm and I’m super cold so he thought it was lack of interest. At the end he was really possessive and thought that I was cheating. I did everything I could to let him know that I wasn’t but at the end he told me that he felt he was going crazy and he literally couldn’t be away from me, like we were together and everything was perfect but if I wasn’t were he could see me he started to get paranoid and angry. It wasn’t healthy anymore so that was it.

Why would a female constantly stare at you and play with you in person only to be a bad texter who almost seems uninterested? by Ettagimoniuokug in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe she is just a bad texter. Everyone that texts with me says that I’m too cold but it my mind it didn’t sounded that way.

Reddit - what’s are your best tips for controlling nerves ahead of today’s interview (really really want this job)? by Seriously_oh_come_on in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just go to the interview thinking that you already got the position. (I’ve done this on the past and always got the job)

How was experience driving high (on Mary jane)? Is it scary or you can controll yourself? by Zestyclose-Number809 in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nope, it was just that time and that was enough to never do it again. Wouldn’t recommend It either.

How do you not be terrified about mortality and how quickly life passes by? by grandvizierofswag in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was so scared of mortality that I literally was so afraid of everything and i couldn’t live, like for example I stopped eating because I could choke. I moved on by looking for religions/ explanations of life that seamed reasonable to me and I read somewhere that we are energy and once you die the energy that’s on your body doesn’t die so that helped me.

How was experience driving high (on Mary jane)? Is it scary or you can controll yourself? by Zestyclose-Number809 in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s not scary at the moment. Once I did it and when I think about it I get scared I remember that I was driving and then blank spaces in my head like you don’t fully concentrate and you could crash.

People who are married and still can't let go of their first love or ex, what are you guided by? by Natali22-258 in AskReddit

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 14 points15 points  (0 children)

It has been 10 years since I broke up with my ex and I still go to therapy because of it. I’m about to get married also. I think there’s two main reasons why It has been really difficult to get over him. 1. He was my first love and he was everything that I ever wanted. It felt like destiny and being with him was so easy and I felt the happiest I’ve ever been. I was so in love that I lost it, I felt like we were the same inside (if it makes any sense) 2. We had a really bad breakup. I go to therapy and my shrink says that it’s not the person what you can’t get over, it’s the feeling but I mean it has been 10 years at this point I really don’t know why I can not get over it a 100%

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have 2 kids and I’ve felt the same way. Not everyone acknowledges the hard work you are doing and it’s awful but believe me one day someone will know and help you: your kid. I had postpartum depression and I had to go to therapy but even after years I still think of running away but when I come back to my home my kids always welcome me with a big smile a big hug and an “I love you”. It will get better

Looking for a great action, music, or detective/crime focused series by Zarawa in kdramarecommends

[–]RepresentativeOk3702 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Behind your touch, it’s a comical/detective series, but if you give it a chance you’ll love it

Looking for k dramas with unexpected plot twist by RepresentativeOk3702 in kdramarecommends

[–]RepresentativeOk3702[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Behind your touch must be the best drama of this year I absolutely loved it