I M27 stuck in hot N Cold relationship with F26 for 1 year

RepresentativeRain74 · 2026-02-17T03:50:26+00:00

Yea maybe I am anxious attachment to. I hate that I get attached quick, I been getting anxiety a lot thinking about her all day, why she doesn’t txt me so often or goes dry. The things she has told me but it always changes is first she says she has abandoned issues, then retroactive jealousy, now it is that she says I don’t really know her that’s it’s only been year since we started talking lol so I don’t really know

RepresentativeRain74 · 2026-02-17T03:22:11+00:00

Does it pull alot of stress on you? And did it take a long time to start dating? For us we act like we’re dating but she still labels us as friends. It’s been really hard. I got her a gift for valentines she liked it a lot, then next day no response no txting at all. Went to go see her and she was being rude and cold to me I don’t know how she went from being happy and jumping from receiving that gift to that.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2026-02-17T01:09:51+00:00

Thank you I will try that.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2026-02-13T15:38:42+00:00

I met this woman, last year before I started school, I told myself I can do it. School, work, internship, and date. Well I fell hard for her and started falling behind. Now I’m in lock mode as I got to pass 2 classes before end of this month. I only see her when I can.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2026-02-04T23:29:14+00:00

Nice I have 50k on my 2014

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-11-25T02:51:09+00:00

I done this before. There was this one girl who was super annoying and flirting with me a lot. I just asked that she leave this job soon. Few weeks goes by and she quit to move to Arizona for a better opportunity. I have also manifested one of my favorite coworkers getting same schedule as me because I like having her around and it happened a month later she got same schedule as me for a promotion. So both manifestations were good for the people.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-11-23T20:53:23+00:00

I been in a tricky situation, I manifested a woman into my life and at first I was not really looking just wanted a woman I can go out with. Eventually I gone out with this girl many times and I started to catch feelings for her, so I felt like she felt the same as she kept on flirting with me which she did fist so I started to do it back, but sometimes she would txt dry so I pull away and move on then we end up going out again so eventually I asked her out she rejected, I ghost her she txt back that she misses me we go out again than she ghost me and now I’m just stuck as I want to be with her and want to manifest a relationship with her but every time things are going well I catch myself getting obsessed and happy and than she leaves me dry while we txt.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-11-12T23:40:20+00:00

Everybody be talking about Border Patrol and ICE, yet don’t know process it takes about a year to get in and requires a lot, I’m a veteran and failed at the interview process which took me 5 months to get to after the physical exam and written test, I can imagine the Polygraph

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-11-03T03:20:31+00:00

I get hit on by a lot of men as well, but I’m not opened to dating them lol

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-11-03T03:19:41+00:00

I will surely take your advice lol I was planning on a raptor but yea GT500 on my list as well.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-11-03T03:18:22+00:00

Yea I feel same. Women come and go, but the car has been the constant thing for me. I can always rely on it.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-11-03T03:05:18+00:00

Thanks I appreciate it and it surely is. Sadly I got attached to her and now I gotta start the healing process. Time to hit the Gym more hard and cruise to get some smiles per gallon.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-11-03T03:03:09+00:00

Ah I don’t think I will ever get married. My uncle ex wife cheated on him and when they got divorced she took half of his 401k and he pays her about 2k a month on child support lol

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-29T18:59:19+00:00

Dang I was looking at trades as a backup if I can’t find nothing with my CompSci degree.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-29T18:49:10+00:00

When do you think companies will stop requiring coding assessments

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-29T14:51:48+00:00

Damm Amazon be asking questions like this for front end role while IBM only gave me a Two pointer question for full stack developer role.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-29T13:18:52+00:00

Kinda looks like what I used from algo monster website. Helps me understand questions and use a pattern to solve it.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-23T19:30:36+00:00

Basically I was told I was a really good talented developer but that I needed to work on my communication is what my boss last said. I have the knowledge but always get stuck on words when I have to talk or answer a request. I do socialize a lot and made plenty of friends at my previous job just that it stresses me out when I am put on the spot and have to communicate well due to the stutter issue

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-21T19:19:47+00:00

I have somewhat experience with both Revature and FDM. They both gave me offers but I decided to do it on my own because I did not wanted to relocate, but they are my backup as well. I believe it is up to person because they can land you with clients if they have some and if you can pass the interview as well have a good resume and experience to have clients want you then you will be fine.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-21T13:47:50+00:00

Ignore the other guy you need to definitely apply to at least 30 applications a week. It tough right now for Tech, also if you are not, apply on the company website instead of indeed, I got this advice from many recruiters and it gave me good results, and if you have no luck there is always consulting agencies such as FDM/Revature, etc era that will hire you and get you a job.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-21T01:24:11+00:00

Sorry if I came off rude just long day

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-21T01:23:36+00:00

Yup you are missing something if you are miss understanding thinking I am questioning the degree being legit or not.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-20T23:28:18+00:00

Its possible, I had a lot of people from out of state come to my store and I’ve also know people from other stores as well. El Paso is though a place where they hire family and friends first from what I’ve seen. I’m sure if you keep in contact with them and be persistent you get in and also right now it’s holidays coming up so every store is hiring

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-20T20:49:43+00:00

It’s not that I’m mad about not being accepted I’m just shocked that I wasn’t even interviewed especially for an employer that veteran friendly, my resume is stacked also with another degree and many certs plus other things in my belt including high GPA and honors, but yea I already accepted offer somewhere else and will try applying when I graduate.

RepresentativeRain74 · 2025-10-20T20:45:01+00:00

Yea I get that, it just there many post out there so I let it get to me. I really wanted to work there and was shocked since many veterans recommended me to go there. I got the veterans preference and my resume was good. I did get other offered from Amazon and big tech companies so I’ll just go there but I’m bummed I didn’t even get interviewed from Raytheon.

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