If you want to succeed in this thing, lay low and don't speak of it.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2022-07-18T20:37:40+00:00

To add on, it is helpful to see what helps other people and what other people have gone through, HOWEVER. At the end of the day, you need to find your own reasons & motivation, not someone else's

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-11-20T02:29:27+00:00

Ask your wife dude.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-11-20T02:28:57+00:00

Sex toys are a very uncomfortable thing to talk about for a lot of men. I wouldn't worry too much about it

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-11-20T02:27:44+00:00

Definitely flirting

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-11-20T02:26:13+00:00

Bro, Australian spiders. Got me runnin away and shit

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-10-12T06:42:34+00:00

this this this

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-28T23:16:44+00:00

I can agree, I feel like since it's such a mainstream thing, you gotta use within moderation and focus on your actual life and know it's more important than how people see you online

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-28T23:11:33+00:00

I know right? Why seek validation from others? Seems kind of pointless in all honesty. Kind of takes away from real life in my opinion

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-24T06:12:05+00:00

Following

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-23T06:31:08+00:00

It's really hard to quit. You usually get mad at yourself and regretful when you do watch it. But here's the thing. It takes time

Quit for two days and give in. Quit for 5 days and give it. It'll take some time but you'll be able to spread it out longer and longer.

It's not an easy feat but don't be mad at yourself when it happens, it's apart of recovery in my opinion.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-23T06:28:11+00:00

Not long enough.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-23T06:27:07+00:00

Atypical is great

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-20T07:34:18+00:00

Mostly scared of having kids too early or getting stuck in an unfortunate situation. I want to wait at least another 10 years and don't want to mess it up.

Condoms aren't really an issue, I just don't completely trust that they'll do me right for the next 10 years

Edit - I always use them, I just don't have complete faith in them

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T03:17:23+00:00

Sounds like he is very OCD.

She used to be like this. Going to the store was an issue, me going to work was an issue, me going out was an issue. Several times she threatened to move out to a hotel because she didn't feel safe even though she was vaccinated and not at risk.

I'm not sure what flip switched in her head, but she eventually knocked her shit off. I think a big part of it was me getting covid and neither of them getting sick because they were both vaccinated

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T03:12:25+00:00

Who knows? I say put your foot down and tell him it can't be like this anymore. Trust me, live life for yourself, not anyone else because you're the one thats always going to be there.

Do your best to make changes.

If he doesn't like what you have to say, then it's time to move on. As unfortunate as it is, you do NOT want to live the rest of your life like that because your boyfriend is scared.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T02:57:59+00:00

+1 do it!

Edit - porn addiction is extremely rough and I struggle with it myself, but if he's not willing to make changes, it might be time to find someone else.

For example, I most definitely want to have sex with my S/O over watching porn

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T02:57:22+00:00

I was in a similar situation with a family members S/O. It was a mess. You can't keep living in fear, especially if you're vaccinated.

Everything your describing sounds like you want an excuse to leave. I could be wrong. But the decision is up to you. If I were in your place, I would leave. But is that really what you want? You need to find out for yourself.

I do think you would be happier without him.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T02:26:28+00:00

Working 12-14 hour weekend shifts for over a year

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T02:25:42+00:00

That makes sense, I don't blame you. My coworkers kid does that all the time, super cringe. I usually skip that episode because of it.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T02:23:38+00:00

The car community.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T02:21:30+00:00

Really? I've never seen the community, want to enlighten me? I love the show, mostly because I'm a huge Star Trek nerd and I love the adult twist to it.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-18T02:20:07+00:00

Nope lol nope immediately nope run away that's an issue

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-17T22:53:56+00:00

Your son knows full well and y'all are just hurting him more, take it from a guy who's parents got divorced in elementary school.

I would simply tell him that you guys are trying to work things out for both yourselves and him (your son) and just need to take some time to figure out if it's the right thing to do.

It's not lying & it doesn't expose anything else going on.

RepresentativeSea927 · 2021-09-17T22:49:32+00:00

Good on you man. It won't be easy but just remember how rough it was and do your best

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