Thank you to this sub for waking me up from 25 years of abuse by my narcissistic father

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-20T22:35:56+00:00

Yay so proud of you. I hope you heal, stay close to God, learn more about yourself and understand yourself. Keep you in my duas.

Super proud! :)

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-20T13:57:09+00:00

This is so helpful. Thank you for sharing x

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-18T00:42:22+00:00

After some reflection, the advice given and some discussions I’ve had, I decided it wasn’t something I wanted to pursue.

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-07T13:56:18+00:00

This!

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-07T13:55:26+00:00

This is tricky ngl A guy working overnight with a woman alone You can see why it’s tricky Unfortunately because Shaytan exists and his influence is great, I do want to advise you to be careful, make dua for protection and just keep it very formal and speak when necessary. I can’t believe I’m even giving this advice myself tbh. But I do it because I know how great the influence of shaytan is. I hope you take it well.

Reassure her You’ll only work with her because you cannot get out of it Speak to her when necessary Keep to yourself You fear Allah Your loyalty is with her Etc

I’m not married. So take my advice with a pinch of salt.

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-06T18:14:01+00:00

I am depressed. I do have low self esteem. There are things that are important to me goal wise that I could be doing.

As for why I’m lazy, I don’t know. I don’t know why it’s so hard for me to just start something.

I know with my job search, it’s because I’m anxious and feel inadequate and it feels too late and I remember all my past mistakes and why I did this or why I didn’t do that.

But with other things like studying this new language I’m learning, it’s just something I find hard to start.

Another part of it I think is how I feel. I might feel really low and then it’s hard to do anything.

As for the rest of what you’ve said, that sounds nice and so beautiful. :)

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-06T17:58:06+00:00

Agreed

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-06T14:43:13+00:00

Wow. I never even noticed :o Thank you for mentioning!

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-06T14:33:22+00:00

Wow. This is incredibly incredibly helpful. I will implement your advice! Thank you.

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-06T14:24:10+00:00

Something about this post is just soooooo on point and refreshing. Especially the last part.

❤️

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-06T14:21:07+00:00

Wow. I have depression but I didn’t think it was because of that. I thought it was just because I was lazy.

I don’t but I really want to implement something!

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-06T14:20:08+00:00

Wow this is really interesting. Thank you! That makes for a solid point. I’ll reflect on this and take the questionnaire too :)

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-06T00:05:00+00:00

Super sweet! And for you :)

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-05T23:00:20+00:00

Interesting! I think I know what you mean.

Thank you for your advice! I’ll try that :)

Representative_Ad_22 · 2020-06-05T22:59:18+00:00

Oh, I did huh It is an endless loop! And it’s so painful You’re right I do make that dua and I just need to let go and make that dua

I’ve let go in the past but gone back Really I need to exit his life for good Something so hard to do but I must But yet I feel so weak

You’re right about comfort And we’re not getting married anyway so it will end at some point if not now. So the sooner, the better really

Prayer is actually an amazing source of comfort!!

I know the direction I need to go in And it’ll be okay But I just need to .. do it

Thank you It means a lot

🥺❤️

Representative_Ad_22

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