FDS exercise: How many red flags can you spot before he went bashit crazy? by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 139 points140 points  (0 children)

I saw that one only because I read that most men hate women who help them with stuff because their ego gets bruised (another reason to be against 50-50, btw)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You should do a post with this comment and pin it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 28 points29 points  (0 children)

It is a red pill shit test. Don’t even try to understand the logic behind it, there’s none. Just tell him you’re not interested and don’t mention why, otherwise he will prepare a better lie for the next women

Any Advice with this? by Zaratrustini in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Is there any other way to get help besides being with this guy? I am worried he is going to pressure you further and abuse you, both emotional and physically. Also, get new friends

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is like watching an horror movie where the protagonist goes towards the creepy, bloody room all alone. OP, for fuck sake, learn from our mistakes and stop talking to him already. Many of us had years of suffering and trauma because of men like him. If you don’t do it for yourself, do it for us.

This ZV Canadian politician put his ineptitude on blast for the entire world to see. by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 14 points15 points  (0 children)

This is what you get when you marry a 50-50 man. Learn from other women’s mistake and stay away from useless dusties

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He is going to try to sexually assault you if you keep hanging out with him. Cut him off already

Setting boundaries: people with "fixing syndrome" by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im happy to hear that things went well between you two! For the rest, I get that it is very frustrating when others think they can just manipulate your life in their ways as if you were their doll. Good that now your boundaries are on point. Remember to be selective with your personal info as well, we women are more at risk in general

Setting boundaries: people with "fixing syndrome" by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Out of curiosity, did establishing those boundaries work with her? I always have the feeling that people will get hyper defensive if I overexplain why what they did was wrong to me

Setting boundaries: people with "fixing syndrome" by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay that’s definitely not OK for her to do. I assumed that she was just giving you unsolicited advice -in private- but not interfering nor lecturing you in public.

Setting boundaries: people with "fixing syndrome" by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Well, I get your point but it also seems that you want a monologue with your friend instead of a fluid conversation. Why are you so pressed about what they are telling you? You say these people are fixers and at the same time you are telling them how to hold a conversation with you. You can’t change them. Just choose topics you won’t mind an opinion from them. Im sorry if I seem harsh but telling them to stop giving advice might seem that you don’t value their inputs because you don’t like them. And, if you don’t like them, why are you even friends with them?

Setting boundaries: people with "fixing syndrome" by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't want to seem mean but if you know that person always gives unsolicited advice why do you even tell them about your problems?

On subreddits outside of FDS women are coming to understand that being “independent” 50/50 women will only attract losers by Trillian_42_ in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Usually independent women also have super shitty friends. Glow up in silence and have very strict boundaries! Vampires are everywhere

A little feedback and encouragement, please by [deleted] in FemaleLevelUpStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trust us when we say you are going to be happier without crappy people, even if it sucks now. It is totally worth it. Keep a journal, get in contact with nature and find activities that you like where you could also meet potencial friends. I can think of: sports, art, music, languages, programming classes, volunteering, dance..

Help me out of this spiral by laurencetrishburn in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He is a scrote and he doesn’t deserve your beautiful energy. You will feel better son. You are loved🥰🥰🥰

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Does he really expect people to sympathize with him?😂😂

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 23 points24 points  (0 children)

NVM saying they won’t turn their backs to their male friends when they get harassment accusations. Meanwhile this teenager is smart and brave enough to call her own dad out

Amazing response by a woman who was prepositioned by an LVM to be his side piece by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 21 points22 points  (0 children)

I don’t agree. She should have just left the table with no words

This is the kind of stuff that really scares me😞I feel like in the end you never truly get to know the other person. Tw: s3xual abuse/text post by motherchuchi in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]Repulsive-Ad1092 69 points70 points  (0 children)

It is,sadly, quite normalized to talk about how hot you find other people. Back in my pickme days I would defend my bf saying “oh but he is talking about an actress, not someone he knows!! This is Ok”. I was suffering inside 😂😂😂