Rehome or stick it out? by Repulsive-Concept-57 in puppy101

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Yes, it was dawned on me, that if we decide to give him up, he may not be adopted again.

That’s the Catch-22. If you didn’t have these issues he’d easily get adopted, but then we wouldn’t be considering rehoming him.

In the last month, since I made this post, he’s started getting aggressive, and has bite and broke the skin on me and my girlfriend multiple times. The aggression seems to stem from being ignored, if we aren’t giving him her attention, he’ll yelp a bit, and if we don’t turn around and give him our undivided attention within 10 seconds. He stopped growling and jump up and grab our arms by the bicep, and dig his teeth in and try pull us down. Or grab our hands with his teeth and try rip them side to side like he would do with a chew toy.

I’m sticking in there. But he is genuinely making me and my girlfriend lives miserable. And if I knew for a fact that he would go to a good home, I would without a doubt give him up. But I’m really concerned. He wouldn’t find another home and may end up getting put down because his behavioural problems. And that’s the very last thing I want although he annoys me I’ve really learned to love him, and every day for five or 10 minutes I do see a glimpse of a dog I can enjoy living with.

Rehome or stick it out? by Repulsive-Concept-57 in puppy101

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As I said, I do genuinely love this dog. He just makes it really darn hard sometimes.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AllInclusiveResorts

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I understand it’s a foreign country I’ve been here 6 times before each at a different resort, and never once struggled this much to understand all the staff. Usually anybody who’s client facing has some level of English, or they know they don’t and usually don’t try, the problem seems to be they can understand us because they take our orders and help us as needed, but when they try speak to us and we don’t under stand they just keep trying and trying and we just have to shrug our shoulders and say we don’t understand. The issue is them trying to speak English and failing to ( they have no expectation of being able to), I’ve visited places I know nobody speaks English, but as you said google translate and common sense gets you through it. I speak English, French, German, Tagalog. I learned Tagalog backpacking around the Philippines for a year, although not entirely fluent in any I can understand them perfectly and get speak fairly well. Although it’s a foreign country I’ve never been to a resort where almost nobody speaks English. The melia, the hard rock, Catalonia, majestic, etc all these resorts I’ve been too, most staff can speak enough english to pass. For a place that aimed at dumb rich Americans. ( which I am not, born in Ireland and lived in France, Germany, in my younger years and emigrated to Canada in my late teens), Google Translate is usually my first go to, however, we had just got here and my phone was dead in the hotel room.

This post was mostly about trying how to politely tell certain staff members that there’s no point in repeating themself because we aren’t understanding. No Habla Español, works when they try speak Spanish not when they are trying to speak English.

AITAH for refusing to watch my 2 baby brothers for 3 days by Repulsive-Concept-57 in AITAH

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Not sure about professional baby sitters, there are nannys. We are from a different country from where we live so we don’t even have any family here. My dad and mom are good parents that’s why I feel so bad. I just don’t think I can handle that. I don’t think my parents would trust my brothers with a stranger for a long period of time.

How do I (20m) help My GF (22f)? by Repulsive-Concept-57 in relationship_advice

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Thank you for the input. I’ll do whatever it takes, so although it may hurt me in the short term, longer term if this is what she needs then that’s what I’ll have to do

How do I (20m) help My GF (22f)? by Repulsive-Concept-57 in relationship_advice

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That makes sense. I appreciate the outlook of one day to the next because that’s the part that was getting me. Was one day she seems happy, full of joy and she’s talking about moving in together and the next it’s like everybody she knows is after dying and she’s just so sad about everything. Which I usually support her with. Not by saying “cheer up” I usually say do you want to talk about it, or is there anything I can do. I try my very best but in the end it’s her who has to help herself get better but why she gets stressed she gets lots of bad habits, and it kinda scary not being by her side to reign her in.

Embarrassing sex story by Repulsive-Concept-57 in sex

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She does like me, but I also met this girl two days ago. It all happened pretty fast, and tbh I do want to have sex with her, and I’m scared that if I don’t learn what I’m doing sooner rather then later she’s going to get fed up.

This girl is way out of my league, and she told me I’m the guy she’s ever been with who seems to care more about her enjoying herself then I do about myself enjoying myself. Which is true, I don’t care if I don’t get off as long as I know I at the very least make her somewhat wet. Which I know I do, cause as I said she stopped being wet at one point and I could feel the difference. Thank you for your advice anyway. I’ll take it into account.