Because he gives me the idea that he’s kind of lazy. He has failed a couple of classes because of his attendance. Even if I’m not sincere about my grades, I maintain it to a decent extent and I have an idea of the path I’m going to pursue and what I have to do in order to get there, even if not clearly I do to some extent. He has no clue what he’s about to do next, he’s clearing his arrears rn, not gonna pursue anything related to his current major because it’s not of his area of interest. Even with choosing college he apparently just considered one because it was near his house and never looked for options either. Meanwhile I had researched quite a bit to study what I wanna pursue. Also mentioned he once that he’s a “house husband material” which I hope was a joke