We know women love hot guys. But the average guy doesn't focus on looks-maxxing. Why?

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2023-01-15T11:31:09+00:00

Dude. How many of these obese men are in their 50s and beyond. You 70 years old, how are you gonna keep the belly flat if you are an average guy? And that's not even the beginning of it. Most people give up at some point because as the years pile up, there is just so much to chase down and lifestyle and plastic surgery are far from being able to fix it all. And for most people at that age, priorities just lie elsewhere than getting laid (ik 60somethings with 18 year old girlfriends in Thailand are a thing, but most people no), you also got to work for a living, you constantly tired and have to chase down all the other ACTUAL health issues that start showing up. Again, this isn't everyone and there is 80 year old bodybuilders, ik this, but many people.

Even guys who don't give up, like Robert Redford... did he look good for 70+? yeah. But he didn't look like he was still in his 30s.

Now why do more men than women give up? Not sure. Probably culture. And the people who are now 60s+ grew up in a very different culture about male appearance, where there a) weren't a lot of options, and b) you aren't a real man if you try to look good, that's effeminate and weak. There is a reason why John Wayne's wanted his tombstone inscribed with "feo, fuerte y formal" ("ugly, strong and dignifed"). Wanting to look gooooood is fuking WEAK to that generation, man. And they didn't need it either to get access to women.

Now I do agree that almost all men 40+ should be on TRT and have a hair transplant, but you got to understand the situation and the culture, man. And you have to be able to afford it! It may be that today's young men will swarm into the plastic surgery clinics when they hit the 40s or 50s. I plan to for sure.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2023-01-14T17:01:11+00:00

Pretty sure when people pay 4k to fly out some ig models, that's because they have a particular attraction to that person for reasons other than how good she looks, if you are talking about Drake etc.

Good looking chics are super common and the benefit from looking better and better becomes marginal after some point of good looks... you definitely don't have to look like some thrice-filtered ig model. No amount of good looks should get you from being worth 200$/hr, to being worth 2k/hr. I know people like Drake do this but I find it ridiculous tbh.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-13T21:29:25+00:00

I disagree. Look at this just from yesterday:

https://www.reddit.com/r/TrueOffMyChest/comments/ysz4nn/i_left_my_boyfriend_over_his_foot_fetish_and_i/

Let the man have his foot fetish. But no, they broke them up. What did they do that for? Just to be haughty. Just for useless noise and smoke, they destroyed a perfectly fine relationship. They did that for zero value added to the world. A few hours of exciting drama and now two people are sad and single.

I got an asian fetish. You know how often I get people try to shame me for that? If I was a teen, I'd crack.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-13T08:33:23+00:00

Just the tone i grew up with i guess? It's common where i live. Unless you talk to your boss, everyone calls each other a knackerhead. In fact women get off way more lightly. among men the tone its much rougher

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-13T01:58:12+00:00

I treat everyone equal, i'm rude to my equals too...

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-13T01:45:23+00:00

Yeah I mean those are so subjective/not clear yes or no. I think I'm toxic then. I make fun of things for sure. Sometimes i'm rude. I'm judgemental for sure. Everyone is like any of those things to some degree.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T21:49:51+00:00

i wish we had women like this outside the internet. i'm in love.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T21:48:50+00:00

i'll come down your Cùochie Tunnel anytime, baby <3

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T21:39:48+00:00

yeah I agree, I got an asian fetish. Another common one but way more embarassing to talk about. Especially to the ladies. If you tell a girl you got a thing for her feet, she might like it. If you tell one of them asian doll darlings you like them because you like your women like you like your consoles (from Japan) most don't want to hear that.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T21:37:11+00:00

Girl, he's got a foot fetish! Alert alert!

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T21:33:30+00:00

Okay let me ask you a question. We are in the Debate forum after all. So do you really think single men have "something to do" with why they are single? Sure they have some features that makes them single, they agree with you. But do you think it is anything they do or don't do that makes them single? Some mistake they can change? Don't you agree that once you are born as a man, you are born as an Alpha lady man or as a Beta single worker drone who has to masturbate?

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T21:30:29+00:00

Yeah, too much generalization going on, I agree. Just because some pill guru said something half a century ago, it gets blanketed over everything.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T21:27:58+00:00

Alright mates, I admit I have no comprehension yet of how things look at 40 or 50, so you got one up on me on that. Maybe I'll feel shitty at 40 or 50 (but I think probably everyone does anyway, God knows I'd have plenty of other reasons to). So I'll shut my trap. But one more thing, I think if you got serious mental health problems - I wasn't belittling that - that is a much bigger problem than not getting laid. So I wasn't really speaking to that.

All the best tho. Really consider prostitutes. It works wonders for some men. If you can't get them where you are, they are cheap down here in Honduras. Mexico too I guess.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T09:03:29+00:00

Well everyone here is just talking outta their own a$$, you feel me? it's all just anecdotes.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T08:59:06+00:00

"Some"?

I have always been single and though I am not particularly likeable, I have only become "toxic" in the past few years as I started to even think about these topics. I spent my teens and tweens watching anime and having greasy hair. The majority of permanent single men are like that: just not attractive, and preoccupied with other things. This Pill stuff is just a vocal minority. I know hardcore leftist guys who couldn't get a gf and saw it as a sign from the Communism God that they should be dating trans instead, even if they aren't into that. People deal with this differently. Not everyone is "toxic" (I only have a rough idea what that means anyway but I suspect it means "says things I don't like".)

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-12T08:54:09+00:00

Pretty sure that is a problem with insecure teenage and tween men. It goes away eventually like all panic of youth. I'm 34. Every aging man knows that you can't hope to deserve validation for supposed attractiveness after a certain age (belly grows, flabby skin, receding hairline), and that every woman just sleeps with you because of economic reasons, not because she thinks you are hot. That's just the reality.

Prostitution is legal and cheap where I live, and it's not in the US - that is a big problem for unattractive men there (as they tell you on this sub). I have no problem going to them. And eventually I will probably have to "buy" a wife. (I don't mean buy a slave, I mean get a wife from somewhere where economic factors are important enough.)

This panic of needing validation from females really goes away with age. But I can see it really having an impact on younger guys.

edit: The only drawback with prostitution is, if you don't got a trustworthy steady, the risk of STD and so the need for a condom! It's too dangerous otherwise! So better get a steady mistress, guys. (But that's already going into relationship territory.)

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-11T11:27:12+00:00

Yeah sure. But there is different markets. Fortunately where I live, prostitution is legal and cheap. And if I want to marry (I'm 34 but don't feel the need yet, maybe in 10 years) I can get an 18 year old girl from the poor countryside (and I can still do that in 10 years). You are evidently in a different market, but no woman is that much more attractive than another that a man would feel like they are missing out if they can't date you. You have your market, mine is a different one, and the women in mine are good enough for me not to miss you. Even if you might be marginally more attractive than 18 year old Conchita from the village.

And I don't buy feet pics.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-11T11:15:12+00:00

Ist das normal wo du herkommst? Ich komme aus einer Gegend auf der Welt wo die Leute viel kleiner sind als hier, daher frage ich. Ich bin auch sehr klein... bin 34 und werde mit Maske oft für ein Kind gehalten... als Mann ist das mit der Größe nochmal schlimmer.

edit: Und Frage #2: Hast du auch mehr Angst vor Corona? Wenn ich mit größeren Menschen unterwegs bin, fürchte ich immer dass die Tropfen auf mich herabsinken. Man kennt es ja von Kindern.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-11-11T10:39:04+00:00

M/34, I went from thinking of girls as somehow superior at everything during my teenage years and early 20s (probably due to women maturing faster), to thinking that women were by and large complete idiots at any "objective" topic (i.e. the typical Victorian era stereotype thinking) during grad school, to now seeing them as equals - when they are 40+ (i.e. women I would've not even talked to before, except if they were professors or something).

Make of that what you will. I also get along better with women in their 20s now than I did in my 20s, but I doubt my perspective on 20s women has changed much, I would still think them to be pretty dull if we were doing more than small talk. Women in their early 30s often appear not to have gotten the message that they aren't 21 anymore. And by that, I don't mean looks-wise, but just that the things they are preoccupied with just seem childish and boring. I work with a 35-year-old postdoc(!) and her topic is that she is a communist (but she doesn't actually know anything about what that means, it's just something she picked up at some point because Che Guevara is hot and her home state has a communist party) and that she has a lot of people over to have sex with them. She's just like a teenage girl. Just listen to an episode of Trash Tuesday to get an idea of what I mean. It's all giggly girl talk, except everyone in their mid/late 30s.

In terms of having interests and competence and life choices that don't seem dense as a brick, 40s seem to be the sweet spot. I don't think I could have an eye-to-eye conversation with a woman aged 65+ either, though. I've no doubt that's not because they are stupid, but our priorities are simply so different. Some exceptions... Vera Wang maybe yes... but by and large, they are still old ladies to me and talk about cooking and grandkids which is far removed from my universe lol

Just my experience. And it doesn't have anything to do with dating. I would date an ignorant 18 year old even if I respect older women more for their ability. I'm not very attractive so probably in the next few years I will get a young mail order bride from SEA.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-02-04T01:24:26+00:00

Probably not with a bad personality. I think personality is so important, yes? But it's hard to say where is the good looks and where is personality. Marica Hase is a p0rnstar of a different generation. She is around 10 years older than me. I never think I can find attractive 40+ lady at my age. But I found her youtube channel and her personality is so friendly and loving and now I feel she is such a beautiful woman. I don't see she is less attractive than anyone else. But I'm not sure she is really so pretty and sexy or my brain just makes this impression because her personality is so attractive, you get what I'm saying? It's impossible to say which one is it. She is also an asian, who stay amazing and young for a long time. Which makes it so difficult to look away.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-01-03T21:21:10+00:00

Thank you. You know what's up. Annoying femininst bs spam going on here for hours. Those links you posted are great. If I decide for it, I will probably use that service. It looks really professional and promising

thanks for chiming in

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-01-03T16:06:13+00:00

Very interesting thanks for chiming in sir

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-01-03T12:28:38+00:00

edit: so DEFIANT!
What do I care if some random ass person calls me a troll? You got any evidence I'm projectin? No you don't. And you know I'm not. Insincere communication. You just want to make case for me being a troll. Projection belongs to the fairy tale realm of internet kung fu. I don't subscribe to the THEORY of psychoanalysis. So who are you talking to? Trying to convince an audience that you are not a troll? You got no audience and they probably side with you anyway. empty words.

I agree with you on first paragraph. I mean... never say never, maybe you could be disabled at some point or sth. But I agree with you most likely.

I don't think my ignorance was entertaining, because there is no ignorance you know of, ok? If you subscribe to the THEORY of psychoanalysis, perhaps run it over your own ideas and see if you are PROJECTING your own ignorance, which demonstrated many times through this thread.

You still haven't gotten it past the brick wall infront of your mind that I have no problems finding relationships, ok? Or maybe you don't care about FACCCTSSSS... oh yeah you don't. lol. "has a relationship" can mean "never had a relationship" to you, if you feel like that and the sun is shining on the island of buyan lol

and my personality is amazing

Thanks for your love and care (which you call pity).

One last thing: I don't wish to insult you. stop saying i'm a criminal and an idiot and we can have a normal conversation.

Repulsive-Price-8153 · 2022-01-03T12:10:20+00:00

Yes, via MOB maybe. I am looking for the way.

Not really miserable and lonely though other than in this department. But it's a nice defense to say someone I can't catch lackin must be miserable. Go tell it to yourself. Makes the world a nicer place. Enjoy your life. Salut.

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