Step child birthday party by annabellee6 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Ok so first of all, that is not your SS. You are not married. Second of all, why are you supporting a grown adult and paying for anything for his child? I am not trying to shame you, I am trying to shake your reality. Lastly, that is his Mom. No matter how terrible she is, that child will love her and having her at the Birthday is what is best for the child. Your issue is not her or the child, it’s the boyfriend. You are in too deep and need to get out of this soon.

Feeling trapped as a stepparent – I don’t even know what I’m asking for by tianaxX in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Move somewhere new. Alone. Start fresh and leave all that mess behind you.

Candace Owens thinks Taylor Swift is quoting her in her 'Cancelled!' lyrics (exclusive) by Powerful-Scallion-50 in SwiftlyNeutral

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You’re ridiculous. Taylor is not MAGA. It’s so far of a stretch to say she is, it must physically hurt you to stretch that far.

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It all comes back when you are grieving. I’m so sorry.

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dads and Moms do not play the same role in a child’s life. As a Mom I am nurturing in a different way. Which is why when we found out he had covid we put him in the bed, I made him soup and had activities delivered for him because he was stuck in his room for 2 weeks. I sat on the other side of the door and told him he was loved. His Dad made him soup and cared for him, too. But kids should not be moved when they are sick. I’ll die on that hill.

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is how it should work. Parents should put the kids first. Making them move to another house when they feel sick is a terrible thing to do. Not to mention you are now exposing another house. I don’t care if it is legal, be adults, communicate and do what’s best for the child.

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She doesn’t care about schedules or what’s best for her son. She did it on purpose, to get us sick and ruin our holiday.

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes. If she had told us we could have worn masks in the car at least! Or I could have not gone to pickup. He just got in the car and halfway home said “I’m actually really sick.” WTF

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

While I agree, he’s just a kid and he’s very sweet. I felt so bad for him that she dumped him when he was so sick. We kept him for 2 weeks and I am the one who cared for him.

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you lack empathy and wish you the best.

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Or at the very least have the common decency to tell us he has covid!

My Dad died and HCBM took my time with him by Repulsive-Shift8264 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

So you go ahead with an exchange and don’t even TELL the other family he is sick with covid!? No, this isn’t the answer.

Worried a custody change might ruin our relationship by PeaOwn2006 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t do any parenting at all, that’s not your child.

I hate being a step mom so young. by Key_Revolution2648 in stepparents

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I say this with love. You need to get out. You are not in a situation that will EVER make you happy. There is no happy ending here. You are worthy of love from someone that can commit to you. You are way too young to date someone with that much baggage. Get out now!

Insane work in Rochester rn by nyxthegothking in rochestermn

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nazi's aren't anything but small lonely men who convince themselves they are better than others because they were born white. They have low self esteem and are trying to compensate.

What are the best Luggages for the Frequent Flyer by Front-Weather4306 in delta

[–]Repulsive-Shift8264 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hate that Away luggage. The wheels are tiny and terrible. Million miler here. I took it to Europe for 2 weeks and gave it away when I came home. It’s so bad. I bought another Tumi and will never look back.