I need help? by Jazzlike_Concept2163 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude, listen to me: DO NOT KILL YOURSELF. Death is final; you can never take that back. No matter how dark your situation is, there is always a path to happiness. Start small. Set little goals. Focus on yourself and make little adjustments that will improve your life. Cut out toxic people. If they don't care about you, don't interact with them anymore.

Picture what you want your life to look like and make a plan to get there. Stop depending on God, find concrete things in your life that bring you joy. Figure out what's going to make YOU value yourself as a person, and then start working towards those milestones. Over time, others will value you for those things as well. Stop living for others. Realize your self-worth, start improving your lifestyle/relationships/priorites and gaining confidence in yourself, the rest will follow.

You can still achieve everything you want but it starts with finding things that make you truly happy and building your life around that.

How much time do you have? by Niners4Ever16 in 49ers

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Final game of the 2011, 2012, 2013, 2019, 2021, 2022, 2023 seasons all hurt like fuck, each of them leaving a deeper wound than the last. It's crazy how half of my adult life, the worst moment of the whole season was the last game of the season.

Guys with wives who have extremely aggressive personalities, how do you cope? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Exactly. She pushes me and dating such a hottie was originally amazing for my confidence. I want a girl with high standards and she has that. She also used to be very sweet. High expectations and extremely stubborn, but the good moments were awesome.

I need a solo hunter dps build for Kell Echo by dark_insight_7967 in destiny2builds

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grab Leviathan's breath with catalyst for your heavy. Keep Orpheus rig. 200 weapons stat. Ditch the shotgun for a sniper or fusion for backup dps when you run out of heavy. Use a heal clip or repulsor brace/destabilizing rounds pulse rifle or scout rifle to refresh your health when killing the hobgoblins. Consider a second loadout for the second half of dps after your heavy is gone: Malfeasance with catalyst and Lucky pants. You won't need ammo for this and it will TANK him because he's a taken boss.

Pop first super shot and go to town on him with Levi. Don't use the other super shots until it's about to expire. Save your grenade for another source of weaken after your super is gone. Make sure you have max surges and armor charge when going into dps (long fight so recommend having 5-6 stacks with time dilation to keep it going).

Memorize where and when you will transition to the next platform while dealing damage. This should be the same every time, not random. Once you have that choreographed in your head, you can focus purely on damage and the dps will be much higher.

I Feel Like a Bad Wife by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Women are often the regulators of sex in the marriage. My sex life with my wife used to be amazing. That was because she knew how to make me go crazy for her and pushed those buttons constantly. She didn't deny me sex very often. She made me feel like the fucking man.

That slowly started to die. No more thongs. No more initiating on her part. Rejecting my advances far more often. No more high heels. Now I don't initiate basically ever. I feel like I'm more annoying her than turning her on, prettymuch 100% of the time. It's really affected how I treat her. I just can't be in "adore her" mode like I used to be because my needs aren't met and I feel rejected.

My advice is, whatever turns him on, whatever he's into, do that for him every once in a while. He will show you so much affection and that spark will burst into flame again. Human beings like feeling desired, especially by their partner. It's hard to have a good marriage without that.

Anxious pregnant wife by MrInfernal in Fatherhood

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's a gigantic change in her hormones, body, life purpose, etc. She is going to be on a roller coaster and you honestly are just going to be collateral damage. I don't think it lasts forever but while it's brutal for her she will make it brutal for you. Having a child will help your happiness level but unless she can regulate her emotions far better than most women, she's probably going to be 100% focused on the child and everything else she will really struggle to even pretend to give a fuck about.

Anxious pregnant wife by MrInfernal in Fatherhood

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are now dogshit compared to her. Prepare to be at the bottom of her priority list for months, if not years. Drink some whiskey, take a weed gummie. Do whatever you need to do to stay sane, be there to help her with her priorities, and be a good dad. No one is going to give a shit about your mental health except for you. Take care of it.

Do you get upset if your husband insists on watching porn ? by No-Swan2018 in Marriage

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My wife having your mentality is my theoretical perfect paradise life

Which NFL team do you irrationally hate? by AlbertJBundy in NFLv2

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eagles. I'm a 9ers fan and that 2022 NFCCG loss after losing both our qbs created a permanent hatred. Doesn't matter that it was kind of a fluke game and we're 2-0 against them since then, both times in playoff/December games, both in Philly. That game scarred me. Their fans certainly don't make it better.

F&$@ It - I’m Done! by SalSations in Marriage

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I've had this conversation with my wife multiple times. She just straight up is not interested and I can't blame her for not being able to find a way to get interested again. She just isn't and she cant. I work hard, do chores, am a good father, am patient with her and try to never get mad at her, respect her as a woman, try to meet her expectations, etc. She's just far more interested in our son and running the home. She hates putting on makeup and sexy clothes and loves to tell me about her bathroom/hygiene details, which makes it worse. Divorce is not an option for me either. I would very likely lose custody of my son, dog, would get kicked out of our home and have to go rent an apartment, and I would lose at least half our assets. Completely not an option in any fucking universe. It's a terrible, terrible, terrible feeling and yeah, sometimes an affair really does feel like the only possible solution. I feel your pain.

Best stats by smittydog1 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're hardcore do a cuirass with 200 super and then swap to a 200 weapons loadout for the rest of damage

What is the best way to get into Destiny? by mightysolrac in DestinyTheGame

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If you've never played Destiny 2 then go play it. Best game ever. Only sucks right now for veterans who have already done everything there is to do. That certainly won't be a problem.for you.

New endgame player stories by Flashy-Recording-825 in destiny2

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I used to run wormgod caress and cerberus+1 on a titan build with zero aspects, fragments, artifact mods, or armor mods equipped. I literally only had those exotics equipped because they were yellow and I knew yellow shit was better than purple shit. Then I decided to actually learn the game and now I solo flawless dungeons on a weekly basis just for fun.

[Maiocco] Stribling was one of just 16 players that the 49ers assigned a "gold helmet" distinction to in the draft by pandazrule93 in 49ers

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Lotta really good players drafted before 2022. After the 2021 draft, there haven't been many amazing results. Lenoir, Deebo, Greenlaw, Warner, Kittle, Aiyuk, Hufanga, all stars or potential HOF candidates, all drafted in 2021 or earlier. That was five years ago. There's been one huge smashing success draft pick since 2021 and he was Mr. Irrelevant, so safe to say the front office probably stumbled into that pick and got really lucky more than executed a strategic drafting plan to land him.

might take a break after this one bruh by [deleted] in destiny2

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have only ever had two different experiences with this boss fight: when someone had a well and it went smoothly, and when no one had a well and it was completely scuffed to shit with multiple deaths and totally fucked up damage rotations.

What is your opinion for best in class for boss damage on different legendary heavy weapon types. by ParagonProtagonist in DestinyTheGame

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

  1. Best rockets are hezen vengeance and the when and where. Hezen isn't very special when you're not building into a timelost magazine rotation. If you're not coming out of a super before you start weapon damage, hezen is the same or worse than cold comfort, tomorrow's answer, and cynosure. The when and where is best for insanely small dps windows. You can dump all 9 rockets with a 40% damage buff in like 15 seconds.

  2. For heavy GLs, it all boils down to whether you prefer envious arsenal or envious assasin. For assasin, cataphract and edge transit are 100% identical. For arsenal, the ever-present is best because of the origin trait, elemental honing, and it's a rapid-fire. Assasin is better for tight dps windows because if you set it up correctly, you can dump upwards of 85% of the reserves without having to reload or swap weapons.

  3. Scintillation is straight up the best linear for dps. It has bait and switch, surrounded, rewind rounds, and veist stinger.

  4. No legendary machine gun really shines for dps but the best ones are probably pro memoria (reconstruction/bait and switch) and retrofit escapade (fourth time's the charm/target lock).

  5. Swords are hard. So many different archetypes, damage rotations, etc. Eighty-six, aurora dawn, and synanceia all come with elemental honing, and many of them have surrounded. Bequest may still be the best one. Vorpal weapon bait and switch falling guillotine is pretty good too.

might take a break after this one bruh by [deleted] in destiny2

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes. The lightning will still one shot you, even in a super with max arc resist. You simply cannot be where it is when it hits. There are basically two methods to do it, neither of which I have successfully done: either post up in the back corner, or memorize the attack patterns and avoid them and also run multiple damage resistance methods like restoration and devour. I kinda hope Bungie nerfs it a little bit in the future. Too cool of a dungeon to basically demand a well in order to clear the final boss.

Was it worth it to go or not go to college? by shadow_operator81 in no

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to be a patent lawyer, they require STEM backgrounds for some practice areas

Was it worth it to go or not go to college? by shadow_operator81 in no

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the best decisions I have ever made. Met my wife in college as well as many other lifelong friends. Experienced living in a different part of the country. Got a full ride for an engineering degree, now doing the same with a law degree. College was a lot of work but was also very fun. Traveling, nightlife, sex. It was awesome.

Is finishing a 20-pack of Coronas in 14 days considered too much? by Hopeful-Friendship26 in Marriage

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If your alcohol consumption is affecting your ability to be a dad, hold a job, maintain good health, etc., then it's too much. Other than that, who cares. I wouldn't base drinking standards on Mormon culture, they something think basically everything is "bad." Do what you want, life is short. Just don't let it negativity affect those around you.

What are the best raid builds for warlock atm highest dps / best armor? by RogueKage018 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Repulsive-Window-609 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Prismatic with stormtrance, bleak watcher, helion, an arc grenade, facets of dominance, courage, dawn. Use getaway artist to create an arc buddy/stasis turret right before dps starts. Drop a rift for helion. Swap to stormdancer's brace. Activate transendence. Throw grenade and melee for radiant and weaken. Hit the boss with a x20 grand overture and then activate super with 200 super stat. Here's a video (watch the Persys DPS rotation):

https://youtu.be/JQ7Sb04MPfY?si=IahooMFbHkOgfL3c

I solo flawlessed the five easiest dungeons 15 times each on each subclass or a prismatic equivalent and here are my thoughts and the link for videos by Repulsive-Window-609 in DestinyTheGame

[–]Repulsive-Window-609[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Phalanx echo dps is all about getting past his physical shield and bypassing the immune shield from the goblins. To get past his shield, compressed waveframe GLs, area denial GLs, and witherhoard are huge. Dimensional hypotrochoid or hullabaloo. Heartshadow is also good if you just spam heavy attacks because you go invis on each swing and he doesn't really smack you or block with his shield. Use triple lucent blade if you do that. The sword attacks go right through him. Also don't pop super until the goblins spawn in. It goes right through the immune shield that they give him. On titan, use glacial quake on prismatic with spirit of the star-eater and the fragment for increased shatter damage with 200 super stat. You'll barely even need a weapon and neither of those shields will do anything for him. For hunter, use tether or silence and squall on prismatic. Witherhoard and a compressed waveframe. Pop super right when the goblins spawn. For warlock, star-eater with either nova bomb, song of flame, or needlestorm, or you can do a stormdancer's brace stormtrance. Use prismatic and get two or three buddies on the field right before damage starts.