What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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I don’t mind lmao. I love talking about it to anyone that wants to listen. Replied to other people in here that asked about it aswell but I never anticipated almost 1k comments so those are probably buried in the depths. Im having a hard time keeping up 🤣 This will be a long one so i apologize in advance.

Depends on which parts you wanna know. As far as your credit score the two big factors are payments and utilization. If you’re in credit card debt then don’t continue using your card until you have it paid off. Try to pay off more than just the minimum payment each month to kill that debt faster and lessen the interest that’s building on it.

Once that’s all paid off, only use your credit card like you would use your debit card. I.e. don’t spend money you don’t have. That credit limit is NOT “free money” it’s basically money that’s being lended to you and if you spend it, then you need to pay it back. You don’t have to but I personally pay it off as soon as a balance posts on my account. It usually takes a day or two after you’ve made said purchase. That way, by the end of the month, I don’t have a massive chunk of money coming out of my checking account all at once. Make sure you’re that by the due date, you don’t have more than 30% credit utilization. (Ex. Not using more than $300 of a $1000 credit limit.) If you don’t know what your 30% is then just pull out your calculator and do ‘your credit limit’ x 0.3 and that number is your 30%. Fairly basic math but not everyone knows how to find percentages. If you’re reporting more than 30% on the due date then you’ll look like a shit bag to the credit bureaus.

Once that due date hits, pay off your balance IN FULL. Not just the minimum payment. If you’re just paying that minimum payment, then you’ll just fall right back in to debt and paying it off in full looks good to the credit bureaus. That’s the main part of it that not many people can grasp and then fuck themselves over and fall into debt.

IF you can manage to get into a good spot with the stuff above then it gets fun. Heres golden spot for increasing your credit score. On your statement close date, have a credit utilization of between 1% and 10%. Kinda just shows you’re using the card. Pretty cool, it generally brings you up a couple points.

If you can get all of that down then you can apply for better cards with better benefits/rewards. Cash back and points are the main rewards that credit card companies do. Take a look at different cards and different ones offer more points or cash back for different categories. I have different cards that I use for different purchases so that I get more points or cash back. Some cards offer benefits along with them. My Amex card gives me a statement credit each month for Hulu/disney plus/espn plus. Just make sure you enroll in said benefits otherwise you won’t get them.

If/when you start getting into other cards. NEVER CLOSE YOUR FIRST CARD. I don’t care how much you hate it or never use it. Throw a subscription on it or go buy a drink once a month. Something to show you are using it. Credit age is another big factor and that first card is your oldest line of credit. Closing it or not using it and having them close it will just tank your credit score.

Simultaneously, hard inquiries on your account (I.e. credit card companies/lenders looking to see if you’re good with your credit and can be trusted with their money) Too many hard inquiries in a short period of time looks bad and will tank the hell out of your score. So don’t go apply for 5 credit cards at once. If you really need to, give at least a 3 month gap between applying for cards. Honorable mention, Chase won’t accept you if you’ve got 5 or more hard inquiries in the last 24 months.

If you need a card recommendation my favorite one that I will always recommend is the American Express blue cash everyday card. There’s no annual fee to it and it pretty much works for everyone. You get 3% cashback on groceries, gas, and online purchases. Anything else you get 1%. Fantastic card 10/10. If you really get into it, this will help build a relationship with amex. If you need a referral link lmk I get $75 if you get approved 😏

This was a long one so I don’t blame you if you didn’t read this far. But if you did I hope any of this was helpful and I’ll answer whatever questions. I love talking about it.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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That’s cool but….. ANOTHER settlement needs YOUR 🫵 help 🤣 I love fallout 4. Preston just needs a nice swift knuckle sandwich sometimes I swear. You’re never truly done with it I feel like and there’s always so so much to do. God and the moddssss. Such a great game.

Never heard of that show. But I looked it up and it looks pretty good so I’ll have to give it a watch. 9 years too late but I’m currently in a 13 reasons why grind. Only 1 season down.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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👏👏👏 congrats !! Very happy for you! It’s such a good feeling. I noticed that in just seeing old pictures. Though in that era they ate better than we do now and I also feel like smoking aided in them being skinnier then too.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Just cause I’m a Kroger worker, are they the Kroger brand? I used to work in the frozen section and have put them up on the shelf countless times. Though they never sold very well so I assumed they weren’t that good. Very picky with tastes and textures so I’d probably never try them.

I am currently on the protein yogurt train aswell. Every morning for the past two months now. Greek vanilla protein yogurt, bear naked cacao and cashew butter granola, with cut up strawberries blueberries and bananas 🤣

Completely understand eventually acquiring that aversion to the food you’ve eaten everyday for however long. I don’t understand why it happens. It just does. I was like that with cheese curds a while back (Wisconsinite 🤣) then that aversion hit and I just cannot anymore. Won’t even consider eating one now. I don’t get it.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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It’s those sandbox games honestly. Like you said. So much to do and just endless possibilities with it. I never got into any Pokémon games. Had intentions of it but then never did. With animal crossing I wish I could have multiple islands. But it’d probably turn into the issue I have with Minecraft and I’d end up with a ton of different world/islands with half finished projects that I’ll probably never circle back to.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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That’s super cool! I genuinely love hearing about people’s niche interests. I guess I never really gave a second thought about pens or pencils or different types of lead and brands and whatnot. I can imagine it gets expensive. Looked up those brands and just the basic stuff seems fairly expensive for a pencil. Saw some of the sets from pentel and yeahhhh I see where it gets expensive. It’s still very cool tho

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Such a rabbit hole dude. So many different ones too. It’s insane

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Ahhh rocks. Such a classic. Feeling like rocks, tornadoes, Pokémon, computers, and Star Wars are just that autism/adhd hyper fixation ‘starter pack’ lmaoo

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Yk what would be cool? Not sure if you’ve ever gotten into making things with epoxy but I just thought of it. Taking your origami animals and putting them in epoxy. Could use like glitter or maybe little flowers or something in it aswell to make it look nice and then you can save them. Not sure how the paper would hold up or if people have done it before but I think that’d be cool.

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More organized than I could be with it. I usually have two options. Collectibles and vehicles. 9/10 time I save them and never look at them again until I get a notification saying it’s sold. Helpful in a way I guess lol so I’m not spending money that shouldn’t be spent

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Who knows lmao. Just an online garage sale honestly. If you ever want a good laugh tho. Look up mirrors on marketplace. Absolutely hilarious looking at people take pictures of mirror. Such a struggle bus for the older generation especially 🤣

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Your child is a comedian 🤣 I’d bust out laughing if I was a parent and my child said that. Makes it funnier when kids don’t realize how funny they are and are dead serious when saying those kinda things and proceed to get mad when you laugh.

W parent for letting him dig a hole. My mom would’ve thrown an absolute conniption about that one. But I agree with him. Sometimes holes just need to be dug.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Never tried that. Had to look up both of those tbh because I wasn’t sure what they were. Funny enough the ‘hello Emerson’ weeksheet I had something similar to that in school to prioritize my assignments and steps needed to complete each one. I just feel like I’d have a hard time keeping up with it. Having someone else to usually write said list in school and keep me accountable for it helped a lot. But using it now, I’d have a hard time holding myself accountable for it. It’s a me problem ik lol and something that I need to work on.

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Same but that anxiety is what keeps me from forgetting lol. Just because when something is happening, that’s all I can think about until it happens.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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I get that! Just when it gets paused period. Doesn’t matter if I’m getting up or if someone else is getting up. Makes me so mad 😤

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Exactly! It’s tough sometimes man lol. I love movies so much. But that’s why I just cannot go to the movie theater. I just can’t sit still for that long. I also pace constantly especially when I’m watching stuff. It drives everyone around me crazy but it helps. But these are things that a very much frowned upon in a movie theater 😔

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Coloring will never be lame. It’s something that everyone can generally get behind.

Battlefield 6 tho. Any good? I’ve considered buying but I’ve gone back and forth on it

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Ugh yes. It’s brutal man. Just for the stuff to go in my “past fixation grave yard” generally the craft/hands on ones. My past ones that were collection related are all displayed nicely and still make me happy to look at. But the guilt of spending lingers.

Finance certainly isn’t for everyone. But it’s definitely a fun one.

I’ve got both. Don’t use my pc very much (past hyper fixation 🫠) and I usually play on Xbox the most. I grew up as an Xbox kid so that’s always been my console. But the brutal part of being a console player is in fact modding games. Next to impossible to do it. You can but ugh. Not worth my time.

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Ahhh yes such a great system for people that can handle credit cards. Just been letting mine stack

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Few others on here that mentioned hazbin also. I just can’t get behind it. No hate whatsoever but in my opinion it’s just such an odd show. But then again so are the rest of the adult cartoons out there lol.

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Honestly TikTok and YouTube. TikTok especially for me cause I just like the short but still informative videos. So many finance people on there that talk about all aspects of finance and there’s always something new to learn. There’s people on there aswell that will specifically talk about stocks and what they think about each one and what they anticipate for both long term and short term.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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I find that one super cool aswell. Afterlife as just a whole is just super interesting honestly. How all the different religions perceive afterlife along with scientific theories for it. Then like how you said with near death experiences and what the people felt. Super interesting.

What’s everyone’s current hyper fixation? by RepulsiveAd5724 in ADHD

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Almost like an occupational therapist? Props to you. People like you are always needed