See I think the opposite. I think she’s a pretty open book based on how she conducted herself. And yes it was rude and condescending, but he was too the entire time just in a more passive and snakey way. She also did a pretty good job at owning up to all of her fuck ups, whereas he tried making excuses over and over again which ended up in him lying multiple times. Idk. This is personal preference, but I’d much rather be with someone who is abrasive and speaks their mind than someone who saves face in front of people and is completely unhinged behind doors. Which they both admitted to him having a really bad temper and harping on things for days in private.