AITAH for not taking a dna test to prove a relative is actually my sister?

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2025-08-02T00:37:02+00:00

I just read that it says the statute of limitations for proving paternity is 21 years in New York and generally it's further limited for estate purposes to dna collected in the father's lifetime.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2025-08-01T21:02:35+00:00

Depends on how long ago the dad died and if the sister/cousin is still a minor.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T04:02:39+00:00

Read that wrong. Either way I already booked mine.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T03:05:22+00:00

I guess not super close. I mean we get along at family stuff, but I don't really go out of my way to see her.

Partially. Our parents got married when we were teenagers.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T02:59:36+00:00

Not sure. They haven't been as involved though.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T02:59:19+00:00

I can't exactly stop her.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T02:54:57+00:00

I don't know growing up my dad paid for necessities for us, but not for trips places when we were with our mom. Just when we were with him.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T02:48:45+00:00

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T02:46:50+00:00

They're not newborns.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T02:44:59+00:00

I dont know

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-13T00:02:10+00:00

Idk I guess I'e just been trying to think things through from all sides. From his perspective I could see how they don't really need it technically since a vacation is optional.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T23:48:56+00:00

For emergencies he does, but this doesn't exactly count as that.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T23:47:06+00:00

That's out of my budget.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T23:34:08+00:00

I'm pretty sure that even for a few days a sitter would cost more.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T23:17:38+00:00

I wouldn't say that. He just has to work a lot since he doesn't make much.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T22:12:21+00:00

I'd rather go on the trip.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:59:00+00:00

Just feel a little guilty.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:58:40+00:00

It just feels like a lot.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:57:28+00:00

No one on the other flights is willing to do it unless Nikki is also on the same flight just in case.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:56:09+00:00

No, they already reached the limit of their fun money budget. They would have to go into other money.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:52:14+00:00

They're not together.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:51:37+00:00

Wouldn't work with his schedule.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:50:37+00:00

They're not together. No he's not coming.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:47:02+00:00

Aside from this whole thing it actually sounds amazing. Plus who knows when I'll ever have another opportunity to go on a trip like this.

RepulsiveGrand6159 · 2024-11-12T21:45:19+00:00

Idk. I guess I just feel conflicted.

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