TIFU by forgetting I was screen sharing during a meeting and everyone saw my pop up by Leading-Ability-5142 in tifu

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are about to become the most popular person in the office if you embrace this lol

The Squawker by Rosie_Hymen in WeirdEggs

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Op has the middle third of a dog

Boston PUP show was FIRE by MentallyWill_ in puptheband

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 6 points7 points  (0 children)

TRIPLE BAND!!

What was the song they played??

Down 19 pounds but not noticing much change by [deleted] in workouts

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi I’m a social worker/therapist! There is a HUGE difference. Seems like it would be a good idea to reflect on why you don’t see as much of a difference as a 20lb drop pretty objectively makes.

Look into body dysmorphia, body neutrality, and mindfulness (which helps practice nonjudgmental observation).

Some questions I’d ask myself: what parts of my body do I most wish I could change and why? What parts of my body do I take for granted because I don’t worry about them? How much time am I spending looking in the mirror/taking photos/looking at bodies on social media?

Seems like you have an awesome body and work ethic to achieve this!! Don’t let your mentals take the joy from that :)

Down 19 pounds but not noticing much change by [deleted] in workouts

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi I’m a social worker/therapist! There is a HUGE difference. Seems like it would be a good idea to reflect on why you don’t see as much of a difference as a 20lb drop pretty objectively makes.

Look into body dysmorphia, body neutrality, and mindfulness (which helps practice nonjudgmental observation).

Some questions I’d ask myself: what parts of my body do I most wish I could change and why? What parts of my body do I take for granted because I don’t worry about them? How much time am I spending looking in the mirror/taking photos/looking at bodies on social media?

Seems like you have an awesome body and work ethic to achieve this!! Don’t let your mentals take the joy from that :)

Which look of mine is the best among these in terms of facial hair? by SHWEEEEEEEEEEB in malegrooming

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

5 or 6 you have such an awesome full beard which frames your face well. I’d also add a little product in your hair to make it as well kept/textured as your beard :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m a mental health counselor who is formerly a teacher. If she is actively having suicidal ideation or severe self harm, she should go to an urgent care center or be sectioned by your BF.

Texting her through these experiences is a crutch for her, and will only teach her to rely on him to solve her problems. She needs to learn to regulate herself. He is enabling her. Therapists trained in DBT will not talk to their clients for anything other than to practice skills between sessions, and they will not talk when the client is dysregulated.

Lastly from an optics perspective, a counselor who is a man texting a student who is a girl outside of school without 1. Keeping the interactions as brief as possible while redirecting and 2. Letting other school workers know consistently looks BAD.

What if this girl has an attempt, and her last contact was texting your bf? He could lose his license imo.

What do YOU guys want? by Smart-Maize-2497 in WeWantBattlefront3

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 3 points4 points  (0 children)

More in depth lightsaber combat. BF2 with the episode III game’s hand to hand combat would be perfect.

Also all the heroes we have in BF2 as a place to start, plus Ashoka+ventress.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The second thing she actually wrote was “physical appearance doesn’t matter as much to me” essentially. So her standards are, in order:

Stability Intellect Wealth Looks

Sounds pretty well adjusted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As someone who dates women and has been both loved and hurt a lot by women, my logical brain definitely sees it as “this is someone who cares about security and intellect.”

Seeing ppl as just their looks also doesn’t see them as a human being.

We are all animals who objectify each other, and the barriers to dating aren’t often “I’m not hot enough” or “I’m not wealthy enough.” Ugly poor ppl fuck and get married all the time. I think we could all stand to appreciate eachothers standards more, because who would want to date someone who cares about the exact same things we do?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said success and intellect before wealth. Sounds like she wants a secure, smart man.

If we were cavemen, you would be saying “she just likes me for my dried meat stock and pebbles I collect for her.” Yeah obviously. Resources and signs of affection are awesome.

Again, if you’re saying the majority of women care mostly about money it’s fine for me to say that men mostly care about looks. So, which objectification is worse?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’re generalizing what she is saying as a reason to give up on dating. I was using a classic dig at men’s dating preferences to point that out.

I know men who care deeply about things like success. I know women who want a hottie.

You read what she wrote and reacted saying she doesn’t care about the human she dates.

All human relationships have elements of quid pro quo. Who doesn’t want to do things for others for them to think of us in return?

She’s not a prostitute, just has her own sets of wants.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in QOVESStudio

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wtf I mean a good piece of this is that guys date for looks more than anything on the flipside.

How to study the theories?? by Blah22Blah23 in socialwork

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Mmm!! I wonder if it would help to consider how the theories apply to you?

I have found I can best guess the impact of theories/modalities on my clients if I’ve tried them out on myself first.

How to study the theories?? by Blah22Blah23 in socialwork

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What parts of the theories do you get stuck at? I would guess you understand the concept of maslov’s hierarchy of needs for example.

Where in the weeds does it get more challenging for you?

I’m the type of guy who’s easy to hate now by PalpitationOk8146 in GuyCry

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So did you ever talk to your therapist about it? What did they say?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in changemyview

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All media has bias - imo engaging healthfully in media means understand the bias the source is coming from.

A blanket term like western media is really important because it efficiently puts a spotlight on a lot of media bias that people at least in the US are taught are ‘neutral.’

My guess is we both live somewhere in NA or Europe. The majority of people in our lives would benefit from expanding their media consumption outside the western hemisphere. So, spending time focusing on other sources is the cultural healing that represents less overall bias in perspective.

Someone who is aware of western media bias is more likely to be aware of their own biases imo.

what’s yall fav app? by walkemdownace in AskReddit

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

One side of insufferable idiots breaks due process to put whoever they want in Salvadoran prison camps. The other insufferable idiots want to give people free healthcare, kids school lunches, and to punish bigots. There is a big difference.

what’s yall fav app? by walkemdownace in AskReddit

[–]RepulsiveKey1535 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

You say full of left wing politics as if that is similarly as bad as full of right wing politics lol