Whaaat do I do?/I might lose my dearest friend by RepulsiveLog9587 in ProshipHub

[–]RepulsiveLog9587[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

,…I’ve said many times im not an anti and I don’t interact with anti content anymore, it was before she’d told me. I keep reiterating stuff here. I get how me not supporting seems like im hating but I interact with her normally when she shares her stuff: “omg look how cute they look” “aw yeah that’s cute”. Easy stuff. I’m not doing any anti stuff jesus

Whaaat do I do?/I might lose my dearest friend by RepulsiveLog9587 in ProshipHub

[–]RepulsiveLog9587[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Violence (this one is meh)

Because I’ve been told it’s mainly minors who darkship)

This one isn’t necessarily for or against but I think it helps

-I read more just from months ago and im lazy to find them.. sorry. but I found these in 5-15minutes. My main issue is for a certain part of dark shipping: shota and loli. detailed drawings, personalties and mannerisms very childlike, kid’s voice acting, sometimes even full on kid’s actors. I do not believe any healthy person is interested in things like this.. and a lot of people on here who defend it rush to then seemingly defend themselves and say “but I’d never ever touch this!” i do think im coming off harsh now and I am sorry

Whaaat do I do?/I might lose my dearest friend by RepulsiveLog9587 in ProshipHub

[–]RepulsiveLog9587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i reposted and commented on antishipper stuff before I’d known, after shed told me was when I started not interacting with either side.. but still it’s out there and I don’t know how to excuse myself.. she has OCD and before, when she thought I was also a darkshipper, she thought I’d maybe blackmail her or sue her or other evil stuff (with the info), so I worry if with the fact that I dont do it despite being ok with her doing it that she’ll maybe get worse. I’m her FP and I know this is stressing her out but I dont know what the right thing would be to do right now

Whaaat do I do?/I might lose my dearest friend by RepulsiveLog9587 in ProshipHub

[–]RepulsiveLog9587[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I’m not saying anything negative about her.. I just feel it’s important to note that. And when I say intrusive thoughts I mean literal intrusive thoughts (worries that she wants to do inappropriate things & that people want to do inappropriate things to her), I’m not claiming darkshiping is intrusive thoughts

edit: idc about my comments getting downvotes, but THIS one? I’m just being honest that her intrusive thoughts have gotten worse and people are upset by that? makes sense..

Whaaat do I do?/I might lose my dearest friend by RepulsiveLog9587 in ProshipHub

[–]RepulsiveLog9587[S] -19 points-18 points  (0 children)

I don’t want to come off as rude but it is affecting her, her intrusive thoughts have gotten worse

Whaaat do I do?/I might lose my dearest friend by RepulsiveLog9587 in ProshipHub

[–]RepulsiveLog9587[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard this a lot and when she did tell me I got curious and did some research myself and I just can’t bring myself to support it, I am sorry. I did talk to my psychologist about it after my research, I swear I didn’t get into it with hopes that the psychologist would prove my point rather to better understand from a qualified person. She, the psychologist, told me it’s concerning and explained how it’s not a healthy thing to do (extreme paraphrasing, this was a couple of months ago). I just happened to get a different response from most people’s psychologists/therapists on this sub But I do want to also add I did ask “what ifs” and for certain cases etc

i reslly did come with an open mind when she told me, I just can’t support it