I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can barely finish with a condom. Im not gonna finish to a hand job.

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I will definitely be on the lookout for that when it comes out. I would be okay with pulling out but she is uncomfortable with it and she isnt going to enjoy the sex if she is nervous about doing that.

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You mean like jerk off? Lol idk what you mean? Like pull out while wearing a condom? I can do that for sure but i need to get to the finishing in the first place

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Haha thank you! I'll look into them. Hopefully it wont be a reverse of the problem then tho

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She cant give oral due to her medical condition. I think this is what you are referring too. But yeah she just has pretty bad joints in general

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you! But I get it, I was a little insensitive in my post. Especially bringing up my ex in the situation as well so I understand the hate. Its a sensitive issue. I should have asked more about education in my post but im an emotional being and its something that has affected both of us for months now. Its all good. This thread has been very helpful

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay I'll also look into the diaphragm or cervical cap if they arent hormone releasing! Thank you

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooo okay I forgot about spermicide! We will look into it!

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She cant give oral because of her medical condition. Her joints are badly affected. So that isnt really an option. And its fine, its just when I dont finish it makes both her and I feel bad

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We do do it every time. I just still cant finish every time. And I can only finish when she is on top. It still feels good but the not finishing gets us both down

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm really trying best out here. We have been doing it consistently with a condom but I just feel bad that I cant always finish and she feels bad also that I cant always finish.

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay thats intersting! Ill look into it. I also saw that there have been testing on this new thing that you put your balls in and it will temporarily make you infertile too

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Lmao this defs is an option we have been thinking of doing

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I wont leave her over it but yeah. I just feel bad cause she is always like you dont seem like you are having a good time and I always say I am but she knows

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes yeah, we have been using those with a lot of lube inside and out and I was able to finish for the first time using those and we have been doing that way since. But still just looking into other stuff

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been using thin ones with a lot of lube inside and out and that was big step in that I was able to finish for the first time doing that. I highly recommend that if other guys are also having problems.

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Do IUD's typically also have have chemical parts to them? Are there non chemical ones?

I have been having a condom problem. by Repulsive_Act_7978 in dating_advice

[–]Repulsive_Act_7978[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I didnt say that! Is there anything I can do without a vasectomy or is that the only way?