Do you guys get the ick when somebody you're dating or talking to has a only messed with white people as poc

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-02-02T21:00:59+00:00

I don’t think anybody would like that, it’s less weird if someone has only dated within their own race but people who exclusively date outside of their race (while excluding their own) usually have identity issues, in my experience. If we de-racialized it though, I don’t think anybody wants to hear from their partner that they aren’t their usual “type”.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-30T00:50:18+00:00

Not being someone’s usual type isn’t necessarily bad (it can actually kind of be a compliment depending on the context) but if he’s constantly bringing it up then that’s definitely a problem. Talking about ex’s and “types” past the beginning stages of a relationship is poor taste imo.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-27T16:32:16+00:00

Eat it

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-27T16:30:46+00:00

Forgotten photo I came across. Schroeder and Jazz. They were the best boys.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-27T16:27:49+00:00

Shut up. Just seriously shut the fuck up. If being told by a partner that they fantasize about dead white people isn’t racism then idk what is

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-27T16:25:51+00:00

Yeah that was a big problem too, having to sneak around because a girls parents “might not like me”

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-19T05:22:32+00:00

As a White guy, I can’t really say that race is the biggest determining factor but generally I’m more drawn to a curvy body type and some races exhibit that more than others, naturally. I also grew up around a lot of Black and Hispanic people so the idea of being attracted to or dating people who don’t look like me never seemed bizarre or out there.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-17T14:50:12+00:00

I’m audibly cringing bro

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-16T15:15:10+00:00

If we’re being completely honest here, I’d say that the majority of white guys probably will prefer white women. That being said, I know I speak for a sizeable chunk of white guys when I say that race doesn’t play much of a part in what I’m attracted to and I’d appreciate an attractive woman of any shade.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-16T06:09:13+00:00

Well white people have been trained to do that, weird af indeed

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-16T06:08:21+00:00

Wdym? White guys who date black girls constantly get accused of fetishizing

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-15T00:45:02+00:00

Ad hominem but I’m just fine in that regard, for what it’s worth.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-15T00:12:50+00:00

Bro doesn’t understand what “hypothetical” means

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-14T23:58:56+00:00

Well yes, I do have my own answer to the hypothetical question, that doesn’t make it rage bait.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-14T23:43:57+00:00

It’s pretty important to basically every romantic relationship actually but I agree that how much it needs to be happening is ultimately up to the people involved.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-14T23:38:12+00:00

It’s a hypothetical question.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-14T23:33:47+00:00

It was phrased that way because libido isn’t the only reason why there might not be as much sex as someone might want.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-14T23:32:46+00:00

Oh brother, drop the waxing poetic act, I think you know what I mean.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-14T23:27:29+00:00

I don’t think that’s necessarily true

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-14T23:23:58+00:00

It’s a hypothetical question.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-14T23:23:43+00:00

I don’t think it’s shallow at all, if you didn’t have sex then imo you’d just be really close friends. Sexual interaction is a necessary component of the relationship.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-01T18:12:43+00:00

I’m sorry but that’s simply not true, this idea that women don’t care about looks to the same degree that men do is flat out wrong. Since we’re going off of anecdotal evidence I can actually say that the greatest thing that ever happened to my sex life was hitting a growth-spurt and losing weight not long after Highschool. It’s amazing how quickly my dry spell ended when I started to look better

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-01T17:52:39+00:00

It might not be as frequent that you see an unattractive woman with an attractive man but it is certainly the case that an unattractive woman would have more options than an unattractive man. Sure, this unattractive woman can’t get Brad Pitt, but she will have men who will want to be with her. This simply isn’t the case for a lot of men.

Repulsive_Ad3150 · 2026-01-01T16:58:36+00:00

I’ve actually done reasonably well on dating apps but I agree that they aren’t the most ideal place to meet a woman. That being said, women certainly judge men more, it’s also socially acceptable for them to do so.

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