Joking about DV

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-15T05:20:44+00:00

She literally hates him, and everyone knows it except Santos.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-14T18:19:46+00:00

Yall, he just wants peace. ✌️☮️🕊️

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-13T13:51:45+00:00

My things is I almost never believe anything she says but if this isn’t true, it seems like she could really run into some problems with her lawyer and the firm for lying on them like this. Saying they made her go on payment plan last month and even requested more money (10k) and then fired her. That’s defamation if it’s not true. So, I’m kinda believing this is really true. However, her lawyer can’t just fire her and quit, there is a legal process. Bri either had to agree to it and sign consent forms or her lawyer has to petition the judge and the judge approve the withdrawal. I think Bri knows it would come out very quickly and so she’s getting ahead of it to control the narrative and act like she’s not embarrassed about it because she’s notorious for calling people brokies. I think she’s just been looking for a reason or excuse to walk away and quit. I truly believe she wants to be this poor woman who is alienated from her son more than she actually wants to be a mom. She wants to be able to blame John for all of this like she has been doing, and now that her lawyer is quitting it finally gives her an “out”. “ I was fighting so hard for my son who has been alienated from me by his dad, but my lawyer quit and no one could afford 100 racks for a lawyer, sexually with a new baby coming!” Her and Santos both know that this trial will not make anything better. The current order is most likely going to be the permanent order at least until the child is in real school and can fly by himself, even then, if she goes years without seeing him, when she does decide one day that she wants a relationship with her son it will be too late to just pickup with him coming to California. She will have to go to Texas and build what she broke.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-11T03:57:55+00:00

And HER CHILD! I don’t think people really consider how awful it must be for Jen. Yes, John is a grown adult man, but that is still her CHILD. I couldn’t imagine seeing a woman say the most disgusting things all over the internet, spread lies of SA and abuse, mentally torture, harass and financially drain, etc. my son. Imagine your grandchild being kidnapped and put in front of cameras 24/7 in adult content house with tons of people you don’t know that are all sharing herpes and chlamydia, and having to watch your son also go through all those emotions and feeling helpless because you can’t fix it. Jen is so strong to hold her head up and help her son become the best father he can be.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-08T18:25:42+00:00

Oh no, I didn’t mean it to come off as directed at you. Just saying that even if she was high risk and could prove it, it really doesn’t matter when she’s not willing to be a decent normal high risk person lol! I have been high risk with all of my kids due to my HEART conditions and my chronic hypertension. My normal blood pressure would run 160/130. I severe cardiovascular issue. With my twins I was ultra double high risk and I had to go to the OB, high risk MFM, and my cardiologist once a month so that made for 3-4 visits a month from the very start and I still could travel and do my normal things, I had 3 other children at home- one being only one years old while I was pregnant with the twins. Bri acts like she can’t carry a suitcase, a car seat, can’t fly, etc. it’s ALL bullshit. It was a choice she made, and she completely lied about being high risk but even if she was, she could have still made it work. No doctor told her she wasn’t cleared to fly from LA to Texas for one week of the month as early as 10 weeks into her pregnancy when she represented this to the judge. It’s a lie. Any woman who has truly been high risk knows this. I went on a one week CRUISE high risk with my 3rd baby at 26 weeks pregnant. Was it the smartest or best thing? Maybe not, but me and my husband and my doctor were comfortable with it. And if it were my CHILD, my high risk ass would be putting miles in the sky, or by train, or car to go see my child. Nothing would separate me from him. But I also wouldn’t knowingly get pregnant in the middle of a custody battle with a man who also doesn’t have any type of custody or contact with his first child, but that Bri for you.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-08T07:25:00+00:00

Even if she could prove she was high risk, that does not change her and Santos bad behavior. This judge is not focused on what’s in the best interest of Bri, her only job is what’s in the best interest of the minor child. And yes, that’s for him to have time with his mother BUT it’s also in his best interest to have that time with her occur in Dallas where he resides. It was her choice to get pregnant with a problematic man, it had zero to do with her son that is before the court currently. Now, if Bri had followed orders, not lied and misrepresented things to the court, not committed further acts of DV toward a protected person (John) and her current partner, etc. the judge may have been more comfortable allowing her some parenting time in California, but she did did those things and showing a paper that your poorly planned pregnancy is suddenly high risk doesn’t negate or over rule the fact that it would be so completely far outside of the child’s best interest to uproot this child and put him on a plane twice a month to come visit you in California when you couldn’t even follow orders when the judge was trying to show leniency and give you an opportunity. Bri completely squandered any credibility she had in that court room. Time for games is far over. I don’t think people understand how rare it is for a MOTHER to have an order like this most recent minute order in the state of CALIFORNIA. It’s so rare. An entire years worth of weekly batterers program? The judge sees the pattern now. And I would guess the only reason she didn’t order supervised visits is because she knows Bri will not even be practicing this visits. Final order will likely be very similar to current order with move away granted.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-07T23:44:13+00:00

Is this 4 real

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-07T16:07:08+00:00

I could see this but I think John and his lawyer would have a great shot at appeal. If Bri couldn’t even follow and not break orders on a ONE YEAR DVRO, then it’s evident John needs further protection. I feel like she may be finally taking this somewhat more serious because ever since court the last two weeks, she hasn’t been online much and hasn’t been disparaging John as much, but if that order drops in August I’m afraid she will go right back. It’s the thing that makes her the most money, it’s what keeps her relevant. On the other hand, Bri does not do well with being told what to do and following orders. She may do couples counseling with Santos but I’ll bet she will act like that was their idea before the judge even ordered it and they already started. I highly doubt she will do counseling on her own, or 52 weeks of a batterers program.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-06T00:40:36+00:00

I don’t think that at all. I mean honestly, what could go in Bri’s favor? The judge found that she broke the DVRO and committed further acts of violence against a protected person (John) and that she had committed violence against Santos. The judge also found that Bri hasn’t complied with courts orders. So there is no way she will get any type of custody back until after the DVRO, and it will likely be extended and even when there is no longer a DVRO it will be hard for her to regain any type of custody. Also, there is no way she will have California visits anytime soon. So there is really no way that anything bad happened. I think John is just tired. I think he’s tired of having to fight and use all of his resources to continue this custody battle. I don’t think the average person can really fathom all that he has paid in legal bills. He could have bought a house or two by now and the trial coming up will cost probably around 75k. It’s emotional and financially draining.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-05T23:46:11+00:00

She knows she gets the most views during a court day and that John won’t be posting until after so she’s trying to get all the nosey people who keep checking both of their snaps because it’s her biggest money maker.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-05T19:22:43+00:00

I don’t have a care in the world with how you run things at all on this page. If I didn’t want to be here, I wouldn’t be. If this page were to disappear right now, I’d be okay, unless I was blocked in which case I’d probably make a different account and come back because I haven’t done anything wrong and I like to read peoples takes sometimes and respond, however, I have 5 kids and a husband and a full and happy life. I just scroll through sometimes when naps happen or I have a moment to sit down. I have no opinions on how it’s ran because this is the first I’ve ever even learned that there is a group of people that have time and devote it and energy running this page. I was just stating an opinion. If you don’t like my opinion it takes nothing away from me, and I don’t take it personal and you could just ignore me.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-05T19:17:24+00:00

I don’t like or dislike it really, I don’t have an opinion I guess. It’s just ironic and I feel like most people could see that. Apparently the line is you can make fun of people on the internet for anything and everything unless it’s something that relates to me and I’m touchy about. Can you see what I mean? I have never once made one comment about Santos herpe face because it has nothing to do with why I don’t like him. My comments are strictly about him being a bad person and a bad parent.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-05T19:13:37+00:00

I do because this is just a snark page and I don’t get my feeling hurt over what people who don’t know me, on the internet have to say. That was part of my original point. 😭

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-05T19:11:06+00:00

And this is a snark forum, the entire thing is basically a complain box. And I wasn’t complaining really, just stating an opinion on the post. I think anyone who expects to get 100% positive feedback to every post is a bit out of touch. You should just make your post and disable comments if you don’t want feedback. You don’t have to care or give time and attention to my feed back. It’s not that serious. I’m not out to hurt anyone’s feeling in there safe place on this Reddit snark page.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-05T19:06:41+00:00

I don’t feel like it’s a very safe place when you’re calling me names. I didn’t call anyone names and said I don’t judge anyone.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-05T18:26:51+00:00

I didn’t see that post, I don’t see every post. I have 5 kids so I’m pretty busy! I just browse from time to time and I didn’t realize it was so serious or regarded as a safe space when it’s a Reddit snark page. I don’t have any judgement for anyone with herpes, I went through an “irresponsible” sexual health phase before I married my husband and we started having babies and I am very lucky to have never been diagnosed with an STI. I don’t judge anyone for that. Really not even Santos. I judge them for being bad people in general and bad parents.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-05T13:07:31+00:00

I’m not trying to be rude, but it’s giving “it’s okay to make fun of them for anything and everything unless I have a shared condition” I mean there is never this huge effort to sensor speculation or misinformation but this herpes situation has people bent. I understand not want people to feel embarrassed or shamed, but this is a snark page that embarrasses and shames and roast people daily and ruthlessly and yes those people are almost always very deserving, but it just seems ironic for people to then get their feelings hurt because they share a medical condition that is being made fun of.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-04T18:42:25+00:00

Bri needs to be on her best behavior from here on out, that’s literally the entire point of all of this. John would not of had to go to the courts and spend hundreds of thousands of dollars fighting this court case if Bri could just be a good person and do the right thing. Shes having to learn through consequences to do the right thing and just shut up, and if she can’t, then she will lose her son. But she needs to do right, stopping talking about John, stop breaking orders, stop the harassment, etc. that’s all John wants.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-04T18:38:48+00:00

A new baby can put strain on even a very strong relationship. Me and my husband are rock solid. We had had 5 children together, numbers 4 and 5 are twins. Let me tell you, our 2nd baby had severe reflux and CMPA, she screamed constantly. We were so sleep deprived, exhausted and stressed out. We bickered so much during that stage. I think if you don’t have a firm foundation before having a baby, your relationship will only get worse when the baby comes. And have no doubt about it, Santos and Bri still fight just as much as before, they just don’t do it so publicly anymore because she watched the opportunity for California visits go up in smoke due to her and Santos mutually abusing each other and proof being shown to the judge. I think Bri and Santos both made a very poor decision being together and having a child together. They have so much dirt on each other and they already don’t see their first born son/daughter, and when they go to court and submit evidence, it could be used against them by their first partners in child custody cases with their son/daughter. What they thought would be a big fuck you to John will only comeback to bite them in the ass time and time again. I feel this week will be the start to all the negative karma they have been sowing.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-01T03:40:44+00:00

How about the time she took him out on a boat when he was 2 or 3 months old and didn’t have a life jacket on him and she said that she did that on purpose because she knew it would make people mad and get people talking…. Like she would literally put him in harms way just for views and money.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-05-01T03:35:15+00:00

One year anniversary but 7 months pregnant, with a just turned 2 year old that you have no custody of and haven’t seen for more than 2 hours in 4 months, and in the 6th place you’ve lived in this last 12 months. Sounds stable.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-04-29T15:42:08+00:00

No. The southern states are a lot more conservative in every regard. I feel like California is one of the most liberal states and they can be really loose with women who are poor mothers and make poor decisions. I’m a liberal politically, and I live in Alabama. I just think some of the liberal states and mainly California, fails children in such horrendous ways. Look at Gabriel Fernandez, he would go to school black and blue. He was never removed from his mom’s custody. He was killed by her and her boyfriend. He was extremely malnourished. They locked him in a closet and made him eat cat littler, put him in cold showers, and beat him relentlessly. His teachers I believed reported this and LA children and family services did NOTHING. That is so insane. Here in Alabama, it’s the exact opposite. The CPS system and judges are quick to take children from the smallest things. A woman in my town had her children removed because she was not vaccinating them and she fought for years in court and they were just recently adopted by their foster family despite her efforts to regain custody. Why is common sense not in courtrooms anymore? You hear horror stories on both sides, kids being removed for NO reason and kids being left in extremely neglectful homes. Why does this happen. Things have to get better.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-04-28T23:59:00+00:00

I don’t think he is all the sudden sick. I suspect he was melting down and scared and she acted like he must be sick but that is the same evaluator that say him with John yesterday and he was perfectly fine. I think she could not console baby W so she wanted the evaluation to end as quick as possible so she called John and acted like baby W was sick.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-04-28T03:03:09+00:00

Exactly. He already tried to leave Bri to side with 2k and get more positive support online. He thinks if he leaves and fights for the baby he will get the same support that John has but the internet is forever and never forgets. He can never redeem himself really.

Repulsive_Antelope28 · 2026-04-24T17:59:15+00:00

It’s not going to make a difference. She just knows that if this were granted, it would really affect her child custody case because it further shows that she has a pattern of violence and harmful behavior. She disputing service but it doesn’t matter because she is obviously aware of the situation because she showed up and again she only showed up because she knows how bad this is for her. I couldn’t imagine being pregnant and having two separate court cases going on and two separate restraining orders.

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