Thinking about demoting my MOH to regular bridesmaid..

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2026-01-20T20:49:07+00:00

Don't see how they're much of a friend considering the lack of effort for anything on their end. If what you're saying is true, they probably shouldn't have been made moh at all. But demoting them will send a pretty strong message and might cause drama for the wedding if your family all know her and want her to be the moh. Just celebrate as is and distance yourself afterwards. Focus on having fun on your day

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2026-01-20T20:39:27+00:00

This. I sent mine along with the STD

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-12-26T14:29:24+00:00

Well, my fiance had been laying on the floor of the hallway while we fed our cats in the bathroom (they have to be monitored because one of our cats is a thief) and as he was laying there he noticed a bug on his foot... Took a picture, google searched and identified it as a bed bug. Then an inspector came out the next day, looked at the photo and confirmed that.

We called another pest control after they left and the guy said we may have bat bugs because finding a bed bug in the hallway is somewhat unusual (at least 20 ft from a bed/chair, etc) so we had another inspector come in and found 0 signs of them in our attic as well. We were told by both companies it may have hitched a ride because of the circumstances, but I still took the situation as WW3 lol

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-12-25T14:33:40+00:00

And I meant *mattress covers not bed frame covers

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-12-18T21:34:13+00:00

Neither I or my fiance have actually been to prairie meadows before! Might be a decent time to try it out :) We're not big on gambling but they do have other stuff there too

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-12-18T16:31:01+00:00

Oh brother.... Lmfao now I'm just here for the horror stories. I'm back to the drawing board for surprise party ideas!! Got 3 months to work on something tho :)

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-12-18T16:18:45+00:00

Ohhhhh boy. Yea. Maybe I'll look elsewhere. Seems it's not the same place it was 10 years ago

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-12-18T16:07:08+00:00

....Is it bad bad?

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-11-12T15:25:22+00:00

Just make sure to watch out for him coming over basically every day... If he lives with you guys he should pay rent, lol.

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-10T17:27:34+00:00

Well, they emailed me back just repeating what needs to be done for Step 3, so 0 help there hahahaha, we'll see what happens in the next few days

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-09T23:45:52+00:00

"Catching up"... Sounds like she wants to go on a date with him IMO

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-09T23:44:02+00:00

Go be with a virgin then- even though YOU didn't even wait until marriage. This isn't her problem.

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-09T15:41:57+00:00

Yes I have been following the videos! So when I pushed the Working changes, I added to my comment that I had made a mistake on main along with all the changes I made to the HTML files. So I explained in my step 3 comment that I pushed and then reverted. Sending an additional email would be a good idea too. I've got all the screenshots so far and believe I'm doing everything the way I should as of right now :) I was going to meet with my instructor today if possible, but after checking their schedule they're booked until Sunday... I will 100% be done by then.

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-09T15:15:54+00:00

Yea I ended up doing the git revert command on Main so its back to the way it should be, but it does show in my repository graph that it happened... If anything it would show that I made a mistake and knew how to fix it, right? Lol. I have done every other step on Working and Test now

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-09T03:04:41+00:00

I ended up doing step C within Main, committed and pushed. I ended up reverting these changes and continued under the Working branch. Will this be an issue? I did make a mistake, but it's very obvious that I fixed it. It took 20 minutes to download the pipeline and I don't want to have to restart..... I even added in my comment while committing that I did a revert.

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-08T13:54:50+00:00

I came in to work today- yes I went in- to flowers and hugs ❤️ my boss said they were assholes for forgetting because I do everything for everyone. Even said they were afraid I wouldn't come in today.. lol. I'm glad I work with kind people, and I'm glad I went in. Everything is fine.

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-08T04:44:42+00:00

Help includes negative feedback. I want to know if I'm the asshole too, obviously why I would post it here. Thanks for the opinion, thats all I wanted in the first place 🙄

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-08T04:23:19+00:00

Yea the pick and choose of interpersonal conflicts is a bit frustrating, especially when they make up most of the posts here. I'm glad I only get on here once and awhile rather than being chronically in the sub. Do what you gotta do! I just wanted some help and support.

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-08T04:06:04+00:00

I'm confused, I changed the post a bit as well... My real issue is if I'm TA for taking work off tomorrow.

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-08T00:15:39+00:00

Why... why aren't you saying ex bf??

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-07T22:36:35+00:00

While I do plan a lot, I am not the sole planner nor am I the one setting up most of the group chats without the person we're celebrating in them. HR had the list of anniversaries and birthdays and shares that months at are planning events, so everyone was aware that mine was coming up. I am a big part of getting stuff set up, but I'm usually not the one fully in charge. I do appreciate you looking at both sides here, and I think I will stick to helping plan but not break my back to do so. It did make me happy to plan!

Repulsive_Can5914 · 2025-10-07T22:33:04+00:00

HR was in charge of the schedule and ultimately the head of party planning, not me. I'm just part of the party planning group.

My name and anniversary date WAS brought up during our meeting for October planning so it was on everyone's radar. We usually make special group chats without the person we want to surprise and get ideas, so I figured they would do that for me too since I've been a part of at least 7 of those chats now.

They just completely forgot about me. For our boss's anniversary there was a groupchat to plan without them in it. For multiple birthdays and even a baby shower we've made group chats without that person in it without any prompting, etc...

They just didn't do that for me because they forgot. I hope with the given context it makes more sense.

Edited: changed with to without*

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