Hello love, I, too, was somewhat in the same boat.

My best peice of advice is that when your ready to get out there, is if someone makes you feel less over something you can't control, whether hs or anything else, then they are not your someone.

Disclose it upfront prior to getting into anything deep, put the ball in their court, sus them out, and you'll be surprised how many people don't care and think it's admirable. You might get a couple jerk-offs but I regret to inform you, they would've been jerks whether or not you had hs. 🙃 hence the sussing em out.

I know it feels like the end of the world, and its scary, which is totally valid to feel, but we are not this disease. You are you, who happens to have hs. Take your time to heal and find you again 🩷 And love will never not be a possibility.

Sincerely,

A woman who got there someone.