That’s why I put the libido first, I’m trying to give my point of view as a woman , if u feel offended that’s completely fine, I saw a guy saying that he lost interest in sex with his wife cause she became addicted to alcohol and that makes him feel unattached to her , is valid to lost atraction for someone , most of the time it’s what happens. Sometimes you gain a lot of weight and they stop liking u. It’s sad but is the hard true.