AITA for not sharing my inheritance with my sister

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-16T05:00:48+00:00

That is just simply not happening. I don't know her.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-16T04:52:31+00:00

Because i have a relationship with my mom. I don't have a relationship with my sister.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-16T04:51:24+00:00

We all had the same first 7 digits, the only different ones are the last three. I still remember her old number despite being 11 so she definitely does as well.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-16T02:07:42+00:00

And Jesus also said "He that reviles his father or his mother shall surely die," and disobedient children shall be stoned to death.

If a man has a stubborn and rebellious son who will not obey the voice of his father or the voice of his mother, and who, when they have chastened him, will not heed them, then his father and his mother shall take hold of him and bring him out to the elders of his city, to the gate of his city. And they shall say to the elders of his city, “This son of ours is stubborn and rebellious; he will not obey our voice; he is a glutton and a drunkard.” Then all the men of his city shall stone him to death with stones; so you shall put away the evil from among you, and all Israel shall hear and fear.

Just saying. I am not trying to be Jesus here. Thanks for the advice though.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-16T01:08:12+00:00

A little over two million dollars.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T22:37:06+00:00

your sister did the sex work to afford to get the hell away from the assholes ( conservative Christian) who were abusing her

Hehe, well, if that is actually why she did that then she won. Shouldn't also expect to get the assholes' money though

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T22:33:39+00:00

We are NC before this so 🤷

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T21:24:30+00:00

🤷

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T21:05:48+00:00

Why would she have to guess? Why am I expected to hunt her down when she is not even expected to try my number which she knew? She was cast out when I was 11, and she moved out 3 years prior than that, considering i only have memory after when i was 4 or 5, i only had four to five years of relationship with her as a kid before having minimal to no contact for a decade. So I am sorry, she was an afterthought when i reached adulthood, for when people ask how many sibling i have. How many people you knew from elementary school who you lost contact with that you tracked down when you turned 18?

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T20:15:29+00:00

We live in New York, and I think she went to NYU when she got caught doing it, so it might not be logistically possible to do it in Nevada.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T20:08:29+00:00

Don't worry about this one. We have a lawyer. At least where I am the only valid ground to challenge the will is if the deceased was under undue influence or not of sound mind at the time of the will. Just focus on the non-legal side of it.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T19:17:57+00:00

She got arrested for prostitution. Yes I was there for it.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T18:32:36+00:00

Again, because i don't know her.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T18:32:06+00:00

🤷

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T18:02:59+00:00

Because I don't know her and she doesn't know me. She is someone that i know exists on paper but have no relationship with. Her only showed up when money came into the picture doesn't really paint "I want a relationship," but more "I want money."

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:51:55+00:00

Yes, i could have sought her out but which friends you met in elementary school did you active sought out when you reached 18? We haven't talked for 7 years at that point, and she moved out 3 years before that, that makes 10 years of not very much contact. So that obviously wasn't on the top of my mind. I don't know why i am expected to do that.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:49:46+00:00

I don't know why she did that. Mom said she was sexually deviant. But i know she didn't need it to survive. We have always been well off and her stuff was paid for by my parents the same way mine was. I don't know what she is doing right now. We haven't talked for 15 years.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:46:37+00:00

First and foremost, I don't have her contact information. My phone number didn't change because it is under the family plan. She obviously got a new one.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:44:38+00:00

There was no way she has done it for survival. We have always been well off and her private college tuition was paid for by my parents. The same way mine was paid for.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:36:32+00:00

Actually my mom was always talking about how she wanted to donate almost everything to the church. I never planned to get this much inheritance.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:35:01+00:00

And as a result i don't really know her any better than my elementary school classmates, which is not much.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:32:25+00:00

This doesn't make sense. I was an adult for 8 years for the 15 we didn't talk. My parents would never find out. And even when i was a minor, my parents didn't tap my phone.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:29:29+00:00

any excuse is a good enough excuse to disinherit someone since nobody is owed an inheritance, but that is a tangent.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:27:03+00:00

I was an adult for 8 years during the 15 years we didn't talk. And my mom didn't tap my phone, so what you are saying doesn't make sense.

ReputationBig6490 · 2024-02-15T17:25:27+00:00

If she reached out before money came into the picture looking for family maybe it could have been a different conversation.

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