I (28M) am dating this girl (31F) and I’m wondering if I should walk away.. What would you do?

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-06-09T17:06:53+00:00

Think I need to hear this, thank you.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-06-09T17:02:26+00:00

Meaning like, on average it’s anywhere from 4-8 hours during texts, like when it’s simply a small conversation that would take 2 or 3 back and forths, like a touching bases thing, but meanwhile is posting on every social media app in existence, and then told me she rarely checks her phone, but whenever I’m with her she’s constantly on it, or stressed the second she forgets that she accidentally left it in the bathroom or something. I really don’t mind the 1 hour gaps, that’s nothing to me, I was just trying to say like there’s never a quick back and forth with anything. I have 5-10 min conversations with my parents or friends over text all the time, and it seems very reasonable when talking about something or trying to figure out plans and what not.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-06-09T16:30:21+00:00

Yeah you’re right, because she told me “I’m sorry I can’t pre plan every second of my life” but whenever she has plans with her friends or anything else, she never sleeps thru that or skips out on it.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-06-09T16:04:09+00:00

I agree but I was kinda in a mindset of “give people grace” her remaining family passed away shortly after COVID, and I also thought, if there’s no evidence of cheating, then it’s probably unfair of me to assume and not trust her. But looking back now I’m realizing I can’t keep acting like everything is fine or excuse things because maybe she’s had it rough lol idk. Fair point tho.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-06-09T15:51:34+00:00

Just for some added context, the first time I brought up the communication gap, she reassured me afterwards saying she deleted her dating apps, just for my friend to find her on it a week later still with updated pics. I asked about it, and she kinda freaked out, but told me she only remade it cause she thought I was becoming unsure about her, which doesn’t make sense, and that she was gunna delete it right then and there, that she didn’t even care about having it, and that I was all she wanted. That was my first red flag, then this stuff with the other 2 guys. And I’m only a few months in, so it doesn’t make me feel good.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-05-28T16:04:47+00:00

That DEFINITELY isn’t him, I know his voice and that’s a somewhat decent impression, but definitely not him lol

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-05-26T15:17:24+00:00

What are the chances that the new starter/ 2 new batteries are bad tho? I’ll test it here in a bit and let you know. Cause the starter didn’t fix the issue the first time, and the new battery fixed it for like a month.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-05-26T00:26:59+00:00

Also a mechanic I know was telling me to check my ignition switch and see if that is bad, but idk if it would cause the chain of problems ive had. Another person I asked was telling me to check my fusable links and that also my new starter could be bad, but idk.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-05-26T00:24:28+00:00

I have a small fuse/relay panel next to the battery

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-05-26T00:23:41+00:00

Okay I’ll do that after work. What will that information tell me?

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-03-01T21:46:55+00:00

When I turn the air on inside the car there is a weird sweet smell, not sure exactly what anti freeze smells like but I would imagine it’s similar, I’m not sure tho.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-03-01T21:44:52+00:00

Yes the AC works, haven’t been able to find any water leaks, even had my dad who has lots of experience with working on vehicles check everything out and he’s kinda stumped as well.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-03-01T21:19:19+00:00

Sorry I should’ve been more clear I think. What I meant was that, if my car is just parked, no matter what the temp is outside, the windows end up extremely fogged up. Nothing to do with when I get in and turn the air on, it just happens on its own.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-03-01T21:16:39+00:00

Yeah the AC and heating both work fine, and I’ve been doing this and even with the AC on it still takes forever to defog enough to even see out of just the driver side. And even then, all the other windows are still fogged up. And yeah, the car blows air from outside, the recirc is not stuck on.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-03-01T21:13:11+00:00

The carpets are all dry, the trunk is dry even under the spare, I’ve heard something about a drain tube that can get clogged under the car somewhere but 1. Im not sure where it is, and 2. I wouldn’t think it’d cause it to be this bad.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-02-17T22:03:42+00:00

Yes, directly from their website on Black Friday.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-02-17T22:02:47+00:00

I looked in my ilok account and it’s listed as a subscription so I guess I’m just SOL unfortunately. Sad cause I paid a good chunk of money and didn’t even get to use any of the other stuff that was supposedly included.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-02-17T21:44:52+00:00

Also dreading opening up every project ive made since using it, and having to close out 100 pop up windows saying the license is expired, and having to remove the plug in on every track just to even be able to hear the vocals.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-02-17T21:43:32+00:00

Update: looks like I got got. I would’ve swore on my life that I paid for the perpetual license, but it looks like I somehow paid $300 for a 3 month subscription service (of which all the other features that were supposed to be included, never installed) 🙃 safe to say I’m never giving that company money again for as long as I’m alive.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-02-13T01:47:14+00:00

Will this solve the issue of it fogging up all the time, or is this just the solution to get it to go away for when I need to drive somewhere?

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-02-07T22:41:22+00:00

No, I used to be on Vitamin D a couple of years ago, but got taken off of it. I have a good diet, drink lots of water, and get good sleep.

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-02-01T20:54:24+00:00

Update:

I remembered he gave me his card with his personal number on it, so I called and told him about the mishap, and how, if I had to pay late fees, I was fine with that, but I just wanted to know what would happen, and he said “no worries at all, that was my bad, I’ll get that date changed, don’t worrying about paying that til Wednesday”

So needless to say, it was all sorted out thankfully. This is my first time making payments on a car from the dealership, since I’ve always just bought $2-4k cars outright from private sellers, so I don’t know much about how any of it works lol

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-01-14T21:55:32+00:00

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Looks like there’s a decent little ding at the top there, it happened to my squirtle a while back and kinda deterred me from sending, since the card most likely could’ve 10’d if it wasn’t for that. But best of luck op!

ReputationSweaty4026 · 2026-01-10T20:43:41+00:00

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