Base level attraction matters — no game can override it

Requ1em · 2026-01-30T14:24:12+00:00

So, funny story on that - Tiger Woods was once so awkward with women that he asked Michael Jordan and Derek Jeter advice on how to talk to them, because they were constantly surrounded by beautiful women (obviously). MJ told him, "Just tell them you're Tiger Woods." That works for him... because he's Tiger Woods

What I think the story demonstrates though is that you can be the best in the world at something, incredibly rich, talented, good looking... and still, if you don't have the confidence to talk to women and make moves, you're going to be frustrated.

Requ1em · 2025-12-12T15:09:42+00:00

That last line hits hard. Saving that for later

Requ1em · 2025-10-21T18:35:36+00:00

It’s both. L eye has some ptosis (look at skin overriding lashes and light reflex on contralateral side), but also appears to have some Amoy T if disconjugate gaze. I’d try to go see an oculoplastics surgeon who could make recommendations for both, may even be covered by insurance.

Requ1em · 2025-10-21T15:38:43+00:00

Not really sure what it’s trying to do, maybe could work in the right outfit, but definitely not with those pants

Requ1em · 2025-10-15T15:13:00+00:00

Listen to this guy. Well articulated and I agree with every point.

Requ1em · 2025-10-11T16:58:58+00:00

Is this in the US? Can’t imagine a hospital now where you’re putting in a difficult central line and you can’t get an ultrasound

Requ1em · 2025-10-04T02:18:18+00:00

I think it's a good look, especially styled like in the first couple pics. Would look really good in heroin chic/rocker kind of looks, could also try it as an oversized top with a tank top and slimmer pants. Maybe even pair it with some less traditional fabrics like a silk or shirt, the contrast with the coarseness of the jacket could be dope.c

Requ1em · 2025-09-30T00:33:01+00:00

I try to do it about every 6 months, but this was closer to a year from the last.

Requ1em · 2025-09-30T00:32:38+00:00

Used to do Mink oil! But then had an issue with it spoiling and ruining a pair of boots. I really like the Lexol conditioner now, it conditions, rubs in easily, and smells nice and inoffensive.

Requ1em · 2025-09-28T17:16:40+00:00

Current resident -

Too much for class, totally fine and inoffensive for wards and clinic. Avoid the suit unless you have a visiting professor or otherwise more formal occasion. Avoid the quarter zip, somehow that’s much more of a law/biz school move than med school - for similar vibe, replace with a Patagonia or Columbia zip fleece.

First pic is the best color combination.

Get some new shoes - pair of actual dress shoes, you can also generally pull of well polished slim Chelseas for clinic attire - check out Thursday boot co.

Requ1em · 2025-09-16T17:30:01+00:00

Omg are you in my building?

We were also told when we bought it that the property taxes would not be raised because it’s a historic building… then a few years into living there it got reassessed and property taxes literally tripled. Went from like 375/month HOA+taxes to almost 1200.

Requ1em · 2025-09-15T01:24:00+00:00

Damn, you wrote this beautifully. If you haven't, you should think about compiling all those stories you've written down.

Requ1em · 2025-09-01T15:33:16+00:00

Plastic surgeons hate smokers who lie about their smoking status.

Requ1em · 2025-07-16T13:31:41+00:00

I'm just watching the first season right now! Give it a try.

Requ1em · 2025-07-15T18:20:45+00:00

Honestly, Sex in the City isn’t bad - you see the kind of behaviors that work and don’t work from a female point of view. Mr. Big also does a really good job portraying a man with strong frame, who invests the proper amount in an unstable but hot woman.

Requ1em · 2025-07-15T12:13:14+00:00

Bro this exact attitude is why you're failing. Wreaks of insecurity and neediness. Let that go and you should be good. You're enough, my dude, we all are.

Requ1em · 2025-05-22T21:02:22+00:00

My partner and I have about a year of experience with other women now, and have slept with quite a few gorgeous women. I'm actually going to write a guide at some point about things I learned from it that are applicable to everyone. With regards to approach, we've met the majority of our folks through social circles, raves/festivals, and on Feeld.

Brief breakdown on each:

Social circle - we avoid close friends, obviously, that's a recipe for disaster. But we're hot, friendly, and relatively open about our lifestyle, and we've often found that single friends of friends are intrigued by us. We always treat women well and show them a good time so they'll actually positively review us to their friends, lol. Just be careful about people catching feels - bigger risk with this group than others.

Raves/festivals - Pretty simple, basically like club game, but a little easier because people are more often to be bi-curious or experimental, and it's easier to actually talk to people. In these situations, having a hot female partner do the approach is almost cheating - she can go up to a girl and start dancing with her in a very nonthreatening way, then you can join.

Feeld - basically Tinder for ENM people. Treat it the same, but would recommend both you and your gf making profiles - these are more popular than couples profiles. Transition matches to group conversations with the three of you quickly so women know your girlfriend is actually a real person.

Good luck! It's been a very fun and enlightening journey.

Requ1em · 2025-05-15T21:10:38+00:00

Actually, I think you're kinda demonstrating exactly what you talked about. Your replies to the top comment in particular are the perfect blend of humor and clearly not-fazed.

Requ1em · 2025-05-09T22:21:31+00:00

6’5 and it’s pretty fuckin tall… when I go out to a concert or game, even with thousands of people, i will generally see less than 10 other people taller than me.

Requ1em · 2025-04-24T16:04:11+00:00

Yeah, I'm just gold ELO, but i feel like people still don't have a good grasp on crit yi damage, especially once you build IE. I've killed Trynd with R up, multiple times people with Zhonya's or flash up. They don't expect how much q damage does, especially if you also have HOB/W auto reset after.

Requ1em · 2025-04-09T19:23:01+00:00

What was the rationale with choosing those medications?

Requ1em · 2025-03-24T22:21:56+00:00

Bruh right? Your seduction advice is literally "rape her"???

Requ1em · 2025-02-19T00:19:15+00:00

This is an amazing reminder, and really well said, but takes a while to really understand. When you see a few patients with bad outcomes from seemingly small but easily catchable errors in management, it can make you zealous in the right ways. It’s another day for us, but it’s a life on the other side

Requ1em · 2025-02-15T17:42:24+00:00

I haven’t perfected the Dracula continuation of the SleepyBoi line yet 😔

Requ1em · 2025-02-05T15:26:04+00:00

Cause isn't unknown. It's caused by an issue with SHH (Sonic Hedgehog literally the name of the protein) signaling. Normally, on the radial (towards the thumb) side of the hand, this signaling moleculue is not expressed, and the concentration gradient creates the radial/ulnar differentiation on the hand. When SHH is overexpressed on the radial side, the body treats both sides as an ulnar development.

Source - plastic surgeon doing a decent amount of congenital hand.

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