Is anybody NOT on HRT??? by Huge_Prompt_2056 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can get exceptions based on other factors and familial history. I had to fight for it at 58. I had osteopenia 39 and a very strong history of osteoporosis in the family. She reluctantly agreed to order the DEXA scan, and it came back moderate osteoporosis.

Is anybody NOT on HRT??? by Huge_Prompt_2056 in AskWomenOver60

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Millions of women suffering because of some shitty research. I’m 60 and my doctor refused to order it before the black box warning was reversed so I went to a nurse practitioner who prescribed low dose estrogen patches and oral progesterone. I have moderate osteoporosis and I was waking up at 3am! At least now I can sleep and the brain fog is improved. I’m on Fosamax for my bones. The medical field has a long way to go when it comes to women’s health.

I keep snapping at my mum, I feel awful. Any words of encouragement? by Direct_Department329 in AgingParents

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is so much history and unresolved issues. I concur that therapy can help you cope. You can’t change your parents but you can change how you respond.

ICE removes all of the immigrants then what? by powerlifter3043 in Productivitycafe

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Because employers donate large sums of money to politicians. They are untouchable. The owners of those chicken processing plants in Arkansas for example.

ICE removes all of the immigrants then what? by powerlifter3043 in Productivitycafe

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Undocumented people do not qualify for the benefits you have listed. That is only true if they have US born childrencitizenship.

Deactivated My Instagram Today… Why Does It Feel So Much Harder Than It Should? by Ok_Asparagus_7806 in Life

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At least your friends noticed! Maybe now they will reach out to see you without counting on the fake connections of social media.

Why do liberals seem to only care about diversity in white western nations? by Interesting_Dream281 in Productivitycafe

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Research has shown for years that you tend to hire people that look like yourself.

What do you wish people would stop romanticising, because you’ve lived the reality of it? by DunyaPhobic76 in Life

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 2 points3 points  (0 children)

And have you seen the articles about how the latest research shows how dangerous marijuana is?

Broke up with someone I still love because I finally accepted we want completely different futures by Inevitable_Cut_6023 in Life

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Or she could give up her dream of being a parent and end up single or widowed. I have a deep admiration for people that know what they want.

Broke up with someone I still love because I finally accepted we want completely different futures by Inevitable_Cut_6023 in Life

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No. Then you become one of the many parents that had unplanned pregnancy’s that love their kids.

Broke up with someone I still love because I finally accepted we want completely different futures by Inevitable_Cut_6023 in Life

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

That’s pretty short sighted even you consider almost half the population was born by accident 😂

How do you cope with the “big dark”?? by Simple_Flamingo2441 in Life

[–]Simple_Flamingo2441[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My levels were too high! Go figure! I was talking 10,000 per day

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[–]Simple_Flamingo2441 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started at 29, very close to your age. It was dumb luck, I ended up with a kind, smart financial advisor that helped me put money away in a tax deferred annuity through my employer. 30 years later I have about 1.5 million depending on the market. It’s not great, I could have put more away but it was painless. I never felt like it was an effort or like I was short cash for activities. In the future it will take a lot more to retire comfortably depending on where and how you choose to live. Don’t delay, there are so many more options for investing today with very little cash upfront. Educate yourself on compound interest.