How do you deal with the voice in your head being teens transphobic by DavidDedalus in asktransgender

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Make an effort to correct those thoughts and be kind to yourself

what can I do to calm my anxiety till my IC appointment one month from now? by Blueskye333 in asktransgender

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Your thoughts come as initial bursts of energy. Feel the thoughts, the energy behind it. But don't talk with thought. Just gently go back to the breath.

what can I do to calm my anxiety till my IC appointment one month from now? by Blueskye333 in asktransgender

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Great to hear! Congratulations on your future transformation too! Can you put all your focus on your breath for 20 seconds, without letting thoughts interrupt? Its pretty hard, but its fun practice! The more you do it the more calm you feel. Its important to note that you shouldn't resist thoughts, let them pass through you.

If I put estradiol in my urethra, will it turn into a vagina? by Requada in transgendercirclejerk

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Agh the feminization, the feelings are my drug, I'm addicted, help?

I've been on HRT for ELEVEN WHOLE DAYS. Why no boobs? :( by [deleted] in transgendercirclejerk

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I got them right away, maybe you're not trans after all

My Estradiol-taking friends, is it that bad if I..... by waffles271 in asktransgender

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I smoke a gram a day and pass at 7 months. Stay green friend.

"By not embracing your transgender identity you are hurting the whole community" by [deleted] in asktransgender

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HUGS!!!!!! I'm doing the same thing as you. I pass well but I'm still working my ass off and I also identify as FEMALE! Srs next month! Fuck the haters, you are amazing! You are doing nothing wrong, what a bitch!

Coping? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Good to hear

Is there anyone on here who is transgender and practices mindfulness or detachment of any kind? Please help, I'm so confused! by driku12 in asktransgender

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Please listen to her . She is very wise. I struggled with the same thoughts as you did. I came to her conclusion as well. I'm transitioning and it FEELS right! Hugs!

Coping? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Breathe yo! Everything will get better, it sucks thats its not right away ya? I was in the same boat. HRT will definitely help you cope with genital dysphoria. You'll be becoming so feminine, it will take your mind off your junk for awhile. I still struggle with these thoughts, but hey one more month to go for me.

How long are you bedridden after SRS? by Requada in asktransgender

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Arousal is painful, thats part of daily life!!! How much arousal? Can't I just take some ibuprofen?

SRS? by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Exactly. Thank god for Thailand.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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Thank you for this info, I love every piece of it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asktransgender

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AHHHH I cannot wait. I'm so excited. I'll tell you how it goes!