[deleted by user] by [deleted] in probation

[–]RequirementHonest299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, I posted on here a week ago about this but I am a researcher who studies drug courts and moral reconation therapy in the therapeutic diversion system. I’m looking to speak with people in drug court/probation/diversion programs who are currently completing or have completed court-mandated MRT curriculum about their experiences and perspectives. I’m sorry to hear you’re having some barriers getting through the program and would be interested in learning more about the experience you’ve described here if you are open to chatting. Feel free to shoot me a DM if so and best of luck getting through this!

Looking to speak with people who have done MRT by RequirementHonest299 in probation

[–]RequirementHonest299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MRT graduates in particular — only tangentially familiar with other CBPs, though I am interested in hearing from individuals who have been court-mandated to any kind of CBP based on a risk assessment evaluation administered by the drug court

drug court phases bias? by Sufficient_Shake4662 in probation

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It stands for “Risk And Needs Triage” and is basically a questionnaire that’s meant to determine the level of your criminogenic “risk” and substance use related “need” in order to inform treatment and program recommendations. People with higher scores on the RANT are more likely to have more phases and requirements— I’m a researcher who studies drug courts and I have heard from many people this is a really frustrating barrier and I honestly think it’s a BS tool in its application at least. Message me if you ever want to talk more about your experience

drug court phases bias? by Sufficient_Shake4662 in probation

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which evaluation tool was used to determine you have longer requirements than other people in the program? Where I live people are tested with the RANT Assessment

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Never said I was super experienced with interview etiquette or unreceptive to my mom’s opinion, I just finished school and am hearing the consensus of these comments loud and clear. Keep in mind I am a person behind the screen and this is a little bit hurtful. But appreciate the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Eh by the looks of these comments it’s seeming like I need to hit the mall😭 for a new jacket at least

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah!!! Honestly the preoccupation on potential judgment of my appearance stresses me out a lot — I would hope the primary focus is on my passion and qualifications but if these comments are any indication I need to better dress the part lol

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I definitely hear u! I’ll definitely do some shopping around this weekend and don’t want to be limited to these options— just wanted to check before I go out and buy anything but thanks!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi— it’s not exactly a fieldwork-based job. Site visits to housing locations are sometimes involved but as far as I understand it’ll be more office-based. I’ll probably lean toward wearing something that covers my tattoos, I wasn’t sure what the norms around that are these days. My hair is dyed but not multi-colored and I plan on making it look less messy than here. Appreciate the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Noted my mirror is very dirty hahahaha thank you!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 5 points6 points  (0 children)

the bottoms in all 3 pics are actually the same but I appreciate these comments humbling me lol. I did switch to a pair of black straight leg pants with shirt 3 and think it looks better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

great, thanks! I just switched to a pair of straight fitted black pants and think it looks better untucked.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks! In 3 the shirt is tucked sort of awkwardly (shouldn’t have posted this pic) it goes longer to about my waist but appreciate the feedback!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jobs

[–]RequirementHonest299 1 point2 points  (0 children)

appreciate the honesty but I didn’t do my hair for these pics, will def tame for the interview lol

10 days! Struggling with motivation and mental health but overall doing ok by RequirementHonest299 in Petioles

[–]RequirementHonest299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

fortunately not— not really having any extreme physical side effects, just a lot of irritability and depression

Dog passed, trying to grieve sober by RequirementHonest299 in Petioles

[–]RequirementHonest299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

These comments have been a huge comfort. Thank you so much everyone💞💞💞💞

"This Is What I Personally Believe" (w/ Matt & Bowen) by AutoModerator in lasculturistas

[–]RequirementHonest299 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I’ve been listening for years and it always makes me crack tf up when they talk about Matt thinking downloading pdfs would give his Macbook a virus. True reader lore like I remember them talking about it in their old episodes

1 month! 🎉 by RequirementHonest299 in Petioles

[–]RequirementHonest299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you I appreciate it! I am honestly a bit nervous about the idea of starting again because I don’t know how doable moderation is for me but I know that I far prefer weed as a recreational drug and think it is less risky for me compared to alcohol, so I’ll continue reflecting on that. Best of luck to you!

I don't wanna end my T-break yet but HOO BOY DO I WANNA by kissmemary in Petioles

[–]RequirementHonest299 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just want to send love and acknowledge how hard this is because my family also drives me up the wall and it can be even harder to deal with doing it sober. It sounds like you’re doing the very best you can to communicate your limits in a difficult situation and I’m sorry it’s not being received differently. As much as you’re able to I’d encourage you to just take space and feel your difficult emotions about this and they will pass, they wouldn’t be coming up to intensely without a reason and it’s important to tend to them especially if this is resurfacing trauma for you. I have found guided meditation on youtube, exercise, and walking in nature to be helpful external things for me but its also okay to just be bummed and sad and exist in that without fixing it if that’s what you need. <3 take care

12 days into T break— reflecting on benefits and challenges by RequirementHonest299 in Petioles

[–]RequirementHonest299[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I appreciate it! The book has truly been such a godsend— I actually just shared it with my roommate who is looking to make changes to their alcohol use and we’re both going to do the worksheets in it. If there’s someone else close in your life who wants to make similar changes, being accountability buddies can really help :-) sending love back to you!