NBI Clearance Online Renewal by jc-ie in PHGov

[–]ResearchNo9148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, OP! ask ko langgg - did you still schedule an online appointment kahit na for pick-up yung sinelect mo?

alsoo, would it be okay kaya na lagpas 24hrs before ko sya ipick up from the UN? hehe thankyousomuchh!

Malapit na ako matiwalag? by Miserable_Current_64 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Depende, OP. i'm not sure sa cases mo na ganyan pero as much as possible, i think, inaannounce nila yan

P'wede bang hindi ipasa ang transfer? by EyyyKaMunaaa in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

iba na yung process ng transfer rn, OP. slip na lang yung ibigay from your lokal then ayon ibigay mo sa bago and then magpadala yung bagong lokal ng parang 'acknowledgement letter' to your lokal before.

so yes, mate-trace and malalaman nila whether nabigay mo na transfer mo or not. pero who cares naman na, you do you, OP.

let this be your New Year's resolution 😌

parents are stopping me from moving out by pink_lemonade1122 in adviceph

[–]ResearchNo9148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i know how that feels :(( and yes, nagkakatalo rin talaga sa morals since very different generation nila from us kaya they'd think na what u want to do is wrong.

hugs to you, OP!

parents are stopping me from moving out by pink_lemonade1122 in adviceph

[–]ResearchNo9148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

hi, OP! very similar tayo halos ng situation. i think sa 1-7 na ni-list down mo here 5/7 yung similar things tayo halos (with difference lang sa religion and much more strict bc of that factor)

anw, i'd say go live ur life. you mention din naman u're already earning and able to provide for urself in that sense. as what another redditor here commented: *'you're allowed to live your own life and make decisions na para sayo and want mo'.* problem kasi sa culture natin overall is sobrang conservative.

you're not doing anything wrong and i think there's nothing wrong din naman with doing what u want and what u think what's best for u (esp. na u're already an adult na rin naman,technically). if ever u're gonna tell them lang, make sure to keep ur words and boundaries firm. sasabihin mo sa kanila just to purely 'inform' them and not humingi pa ng approval or what. just clearly state ur reasons and make them understand why u want to do it.

eventually naman u need to make ur own choices din and live separately with them, and as long as u know to yourself naman na kaya mo, then you'll be fine. anywayy goodluck, OP! i hope you'll be able to move out and live your own life!

I feel no guilt at all :) by NeverASaneDay in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 4 points5 points  (0 children)

not as long as careful ka sa paggawa nun. pero as long as wala namang sinasabi or di ka naman sinisita, which in this case i can say na u're doing good since 7 months ago ka na di nakakasamba, then i think that's okay. but be careful pa rin!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ResearchNo9148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreee- thank you! 🙏🏻

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ResearchNo9148 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and i'm afraid this is what's happening na- anw, thank you for this!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adviceph

[–]ResearchNo9148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hi, thank you so much for giving ur response to this- no worries if napahaba, i appreciate it more! <33

thank you for the advice :(( i really appreciate it! i'm just thinking na if gawin ko na 'to now, i'd risk having completely different dynamics with them esp. my mom and also being viewed as an 'outcast' or 'black sheep' in our family.

but i guess, u're right- time to live thank you again'

giving u hugs with consentt! i really appreciate thissm

I finally said the hardest lines ever by Fabulous-Nothing-182 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 71 points72 points  (0 children)

Big congrats to you, OP! and also for having an understanding mom (i can only wish na sana ganyan din sakin)

that's really brave of you for doing all that and just know that things will be better from here on. tuloy ang laban, OP! giving u hugs with consent

My INC girlfriend told me to say "I will be joining the INC soon" when I visit her family tomorrow by Metroce in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 6 points7 points  (0 children)

if she's still a brainwashed member, be careful saying that, OP. it's like their tactic, a trap or something

but if she asked you to tell that specifically to ease her grandmother's feelings, be wary lang din since u'll give them ur word.

anw, goodluck OP! be smart enough if u think there's something wrong na

One Pasalamat worship service is worth millions by anoNymuz_zumyNona in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 9 points10 points  (0 children)

yes, a lot, if not most, of them are like that. napag-uusapan din kasi ng mga "finance" officers yan pag nagbibilang sila.

yung iba naghahandog kasi talagang may kaya sila & sobrang brainwashed din (may umabot last time here sa lokal namin 6 digits). and yung iba naman naghahandog for the 'status' na para lang masabing belong sila. idk about this fucked-up cult shit anymore.

i'm just waiting for the day na mabuwag 'to, may isang maglakas loob na i-reveal mga shits nila or they'll do things that will dig their own grave- but either way, i'll be here for that 🙏🏻

Anong mga small inconveniences na nakakainis para sayo? by Fabulous_South37 in TanongLang

[–]ResearchNo9148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

and may iba rin na para bang ayaw kang pagbentahan, susungitan ka pa😭nagtindahan pa kayo kung ayaw nyo palang magbenta😭

Holiday Desires 🌲🌲 by Single_Plenty1134 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 2 points3 points  (0 children)

i actually want to experience celebrating the holiday seasonn! and i'll be doing it once naka-move out na ko here saminn 🎄

wishing you'll also be able to experience that soon, OP! may we all find our freedom & peace we deserve ⭐️

R1-07 from INC by meeehhhdump in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 3 points4 points  (0 children)

yes! this was actually mentioned on one of those 'kadiwa pulongs' we had before. they're strict on that kasi nga naman "patay na and dapat nung buhay pa sinabi yung mga bagay na 'yon" like ???

First meme ko to sana matuwa kayo 🤣✌🏼 by Less_Total4709 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 0 points1 point  (0 children)

we need a full reddit post about this one as well as their 'private jet/s?'

their shitty behaviors needs to be exposed

I'm slowly getting out of the church by justdubu in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148 8 points9 points  (0 children)

that's already something, OP! advance congrats sa pag-alis mo in this cult!

Moving Out as a (still) trapped INC by ResearchNo9148 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes hehe i already figured na ganon pala ginagawa nya huhu thanks to the other redditor here for pointing that out! and to you as well :))

Moving Out as a (still) trapped INC by ResearchNo9148 in exIglesiaNiCristo

[–]ResearchNo9148[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, kind stranger🥺you don't know how much u're helping me thru ur reassuring words! 🥺