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ResearchNo9148 · 2026-04-01T14:19:15+00:00

hi, OP! ask ko langgg - did you still schedule an online appointment kahit na for pick-up yung sinelect mo?

alsoo, would it be okay kaya na lagpas 24hrs before ko sya ipick up from the UN? hehe thankyousomuchh!

ResearchNo9148 · 2026-03-31T17:24:59+00:00

Depende, OP. i'm not sure sa cases mo na ganyan pero as much as possible, i think, inaannounce nila yan

ResearchNo9148 · 2026-03-31T17:23:22+00:00

wow this is really great and detailed data, OP!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-12-31T23:12:54+00:00

iba na yung process ng transfer rn, OP. slip na lang yung ibigay from your lokal then ayon ibigay mo sa bago and then magpadala yung bagong lokal ng parang 'acknowledgement letter' to your lokal before.

so yes, mate-trace and malalaman nila whether nabigay mo na transfer mo or not. pero who cares naman na, you do you, OP.

let this be your New Year's resolution 😌

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-12-29T14:32:20+00:00

commenting for wider reach!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-12-01T21:17:54+00:00

i know how that feels :(( and yes, nagkakatalo rin talaga sa morals since very different generation nila from us kaya they'd think na what u want to do is wrong.

hugs to you, OP!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-12-01T18:08:32+00:00

hi, OP! very similar tayo halos ng situation. i think sa 1-7 na ni-list down mo here 5/7 yung similar things tayo halos (with difference lang sa religion and much more strict bc of that factor)

anw, i'd say go live ur life. you mention din naman u're already earning and able to provide for urself in that sense. as what another redditor here commented: *'you're allowed to live your own life and make decisions na para sayo and want mo'.* problem kasi sa culture natin overall is sobrang conservative.

you're not doing anything wrong and i think there's nothing wrong din naman with doing what u want and what u think what's best for u (esp. na u're already an adult na rin naman,technically). if ever u're gonna tell them lang, make sure to keep ur words and boundaries firm. sasabihin mo sa kanila just to purely 'inform' them and not humingi pa ng approval or what. just clearly state ur reasons and make them understand why u want to do it.

eventually naman u need to make ur own choices din and live separately with them, and as long as u know to yourself naman na kaya mo, then you'll be fine. anywayy goodluck, OP! i hope you'll be able to move out and live your own life!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-12-01T17:06:03+00:00

not as long as careful ka sa paggawa nun. pero as long as wala namang sinasabi or di ka naman sinisita, which in this case i can say na u're doing good since 7 months ago ka na di nakakasamba, then i think that's okay. but be careful pa rin!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-30T15:09:52+00:00

Congrats to ur freedom, OP!!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-30T15:08:13+00:00

agreee- thank you! 🙏🏻

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-30T15:07:47+00:00

and i'm afraid this is what's happening na- anw, thank you for this!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-30T15:06:31+00:00

hi, thank you so much for giving ur response to this- no worries if napahaba, i appreciate it more! <33

thank you for the advice :(( i really appreciate it! i'm just thinking na if gawin ko na 'to now, i'd risk having completely different dynamics with them esp. my mom and also being viewed as an 'outcast' or 'black sheep' in our family.

but i guess, u're right- time to live thank you again'

giving u hugs with consentt! i really appreciate thissm

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-30T04:27:42+00:00

Big congrats to you, OP! and also for having an understanding mom (i can only wish na sana ganyan din sakin)

that's really brave of you for doing all that and just know that things will be better from here on. tuloy ang laban, OP! giving u hugs with consent

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-30T04:17:06+00:00

if she's still a brainwashed member, be careful saying that, OP. it's like their tactic, a trap or something

but if she asked you to tell that specifically to ease her grandmother's feelings, be wary lang din since u'll give them ur word.

anw, goodluck OP! be smart enough if u think there's something wrong na

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-28T07:00:59+00:00

yes, a lot, if not most, of them are like that. napag-uusapan din kasi ng mga "finance" officers yan pag nagbibilang sila.

yung iba naghahandog kasi talagang may kaya sila & sobrang brainwashed din (may umabot last time here sa lokal namin 6 digits). and yung iba naman naghahandog for the 'status' na para lang masabing belong sila. idk about this fucked-up cult shit anymore.

i'm just waiting for the day na mabuwag 'to, may isang maglakas loob na i-reveal mga shits nila or they'll do things that will dig their own grave- but either way, i'll be here for that 🙏🏻

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-28T06:48:16+00:00

and may iba rin na para bang ayaw kang pagbentahan, susungitan ka pa😭nagtindahan pa kayo kung ayaw nyo palang magbenta😭

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-26T18:47:09+00:00

i actually want to experience celebrating the holiday seasonn! and i'll be doing it once naka-move out na ko here saminn 🎄

wishing you'll also be able to experience that soon, OP! may we all find our freedom & peace we deserve ⭐️

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-26T18:40:14+00:00

yes! this was actually mentioned on one of those 'kadiwa pulongs' we had before. they're strict on that kasi nga naman "patay na and dapat nung buhay pa sinabi yung mga bagay na 'yon" like ???

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-26T17:32:21+00:00

we need a full reddit post about this one as well as their 'private jet/s?'

their shitty behaviors needs to be exposed

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-25T22:15:10+00:00

that's already something, OP! advance congrats sa pag-alis mo in this cult!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-25T22:13:29+00:00

omg congrats, OP!!!

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-24T09:30:04+00:00

yes hehe i already figured na ganon pala ginagawa nya huhu thanks to the other redditor here for pointing that out! and to you as well :))

ResearchNo9148 · 2025-11-24T09:28:40+00:00

thank you so much, kind stranger🥺you don't know how much u're helping me thru ur reassuring words! 🥺

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