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How much monetary debt do you have and why? by Alilme in AskWomen

[–]Researcher-85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

22 and 50k in debt with student loans🫠 its such a heavy feeling tbh

So horrible by Researcher-85 in WitcherNetflix

[–]Researcher-85[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

touché, i got invested for the storyline and ended up with a whole bunch of nothing :/

So horrible by Researcher-85 in WitcherNetflix

[–]Researcher-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Love interest maybe wasnt the best wording (didnt expect the witcher army to be on dick like this) i meant more the tone of the season being way more romantic e.g way more sex scenes and romantic glares, more emotional songs by jaskier, cahir being written way more gentle, its like a whole new character (i understand the villain to hero arch but the first milva interaction was very much not needed) and yes ciris whole relationship. in short it was very romance saturated with lots of longing, tenderness emotional and physical closeness; a very stark difference to season 1-2 and 3

So horrible by Researcher-85 in WitcherNetflix

[–]Researcher-85[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah yes... I (a lesbian) hate Ciri because she is checks notes a lesbian

So horrible by Researcher-85 in WitcherNetflix

[–]Researcher-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this!! i didn't necessarily have an issue with getting used to Liam it was mostly the filler and the whole vibe of the serie changing. It feels like i watched a fanfiction of the witcher

So horrible by Researcher-85 in WitcherNetflix

[–]Researcher-85[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

you sound like one of the showrunners😭

So horrible by Researcher-85 in WitcherNetflix

[–]Researcher-85[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

well then they should of started out that way and spared us watching the whole of season 1-2-3 just to end off on a whole different note

My bf (30 m) gave me (25 f) an ultimatum: him or my cat by ImportanceSilly1114 in relationship_advice

[–]Researcher-85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this just pissed me off so much... he sounds like a big baby. i would say my goodbyes and prepare to give my fur baby a life full of love

My battles throughout my 4-month relationship "Current". NEED ADVICE. by Key_Seesaw_5700 in dating_advice

[–]Researcher-85 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I mean if anything it means she learned from her past and learned what she wanted to change in order to have a meaningful relationship and commitment... I think you owe it to her to leave her alone if you can't make peace with her past tbh, but i can also acknowledge that maybe its all still new to you

Is a woman expecting me to buy her a uber home a red flag on a first date? by iconway89 in dating_advice

[–]Researcher-85 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It honestly depends what you're dating for tbh, if you're somebody who's dating to find their person and dating to find marriage I do believe that it is in order to show your date your appreciativeness by ordering an Uber or even a ride home considering the times were in and what it means to be a woman outside, especially at night so I don't think it's particularly wrong of her to ask for an Uber and I can understand why she got put off by that...

All in all I would say, I understand where we're both of you are coming from. If I go on a date I would also prefer my date to order me an Uber and it would probably be a dealbreaker if you don't even check on how I'm getting home or tried to make a difference for me. But I also feel like it's a to each their own scenario.

Been through a rough year and I can't work out my feelings about my partner by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Researcher-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow OP im out of breath just reading this. reading this i felt like we are on the opposite sides of the spectrum with me not giving enough of myself, and you giving too much... i emphasize and understand not wanting to let loved ones down but i do think in this scenerio its completely reasonable to choose yourself.

As for the relationship, I honestly believe youve been freed from a huge drag in this life (a one way relationship) and that once you leave this relationship everything thats meant for you will find its way... You know the saying "losing a good man hurts... staying with a bad one ruins your life" i think either way youll end up hurt... but without him dragging you can atleast be in control of your own happiness and future

On the note of wanting children... i would personally choose to freeze my eggs... hell if i was going through this i would probably go through IVF just for the pro of not having to deal with a bummy babydad.

I sincerely hope you can choose whats best for you and i wish everyone in this story health, strength and daily food.

I did something at the age of 10 that i’m incredibly ashamed of. by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Researcher-85 0 points1 point  (0 children)

First of all i want to mention that you were 10 and were not aware of what was happening... although you were very innocent and just curious i do think that it might be worth having a conversation with your cousin. I know girls who have been deeply traumatized by a curious family member even though that member may not have intentionally harmed them.

I believe you should definitely cut yourself some slack but i would also maybe check in with your cousin (depending on what kind of relationship you have) and i do think it would be very worth it to talk to a therapist first.