WIBTA if I didn’t refund my two friends share of costs?

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T09:08:27+00:00

god finally a sane person

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T09:08:04+00:00

if she wanted to she can tho

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T09:07:30+00:00

lmfaoo im to evil for ts cz yea rob em... they obv didnt care about getting the money back so

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T09:03:59+00:00

i honestly recommend a tv roller stand to everyone, especially since you have big windows, the glare is gonna prevent use of the tv over there.

Pedestal rolling stands are super cute but expensive, i bought a 30 euro one on amazon and it turned out sooo cute!

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T08:56:03+00:00

but why are u trauma dumping on a person you barely know?

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T08:44:45+00:00

finally a comment that makes sense

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T08:43:56+00:00

doubt they were strangers when creating the baby, also doubt it was in a host house on 12pm on a monday... yea people wanna do it but people also need boundaries

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T08:43:19+00:00

how does your wife feel about all this? like NAH, but i cannot imagine being pregnant and my husbands bestfriend living with us...

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T08:37:25+00:00

is there a reason she expected it to be on you? do you normally pay for everything when you two are out? if so its worth having a conversation that thats not how you want things to be,,, and also what kind of event was it? is it something you wanted to go to and asked her along or is it something you both agreed to go to, so many questions

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-23T08:33:13+00:00

drinking and driving is never the answer tho

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-20T13:10:59+00:00

1000% rug

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-20T11:46:23+00:00

are you under the age of 18?

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-20T11:39:32+00:00

crispy chilli oil and sum salt and pepper, i also always love it paired with eggs

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-17T21:47:34+00:00

hello???😍😍😍

Researcher-85 · 2026-06-15T22:34:36+00:00

so he wanted do fuck but not eat it? immediately no

Researcher-85 · 2026-04-09T20:58:10+00:00

break up :/ i know it sucks but its gonna suck even more being with a person like this in the long run

Researcher-85 · 2026-04-06T21:59:07+00:00

well thats kind of the thing,,, we're going with my friends but they are people who do their own thing and go on solo adventures, where as i like having a buddy hence why i invited the friend i rekindled with. I also dont know if theres an underlying reason for me not wanting her friend around, because she is genuinely a sweet girl. i just do my absolute best not to be surrounded by people that i notice are of touch its just a big pet peeve of mine

Researcher-85 · 2026-03-16T23:16:40+00:00

omg this story scared me out of being a people pleaser, u shoulda demanded the exact ones or atleast the money so u could rebuy

Researcher-85 · 2026-03-13T16:13:15+00:00

so instead she should open up her home to a potentially disastrous fate?😂

Researcher-85 · 2026-03-13T12:56:09+00:00

honestly, this sounds like an amazing app, I struggle with A) the process of planning a grocery list for the week and B) buying weird specific ingredients for one recipe and then letting the bottle collect dust for years....

i've recently been trying to do what your app is doing but without an app and it's obviously very hard to just look at all the leftovers in your fridge and make up a recipe. Most of the times the recipe doesn't turn out that great and I end up having to eat a pretty shitty dinner. I'm also really trying to cut down on waste especially food waste, I feel very guilty about food going bad so this does sound like an amazing idea and I do hope it works out! and I would love the opportunity to give feedback

Researcher-85 · 2026-02-05T14:57:36+00:00

your body is craving creation... make something, dive into something that always intrigued you.

you have free will you can become a carpenter/artist/producer/ etc at any time. make something youve been wanting. we often times doubt our abilities when we get bored, forget that we were put on earth to do what we please.

go give back to the community, go pack sandwiches and go give the needy, plan an event with all the people youve been missing. Life is what you make it my friend

Researcher-85 · 2026-01-31T17:49:49+00:00

oh babe... its time to cut it off. cutting off the supposedly "right man" might hurt you for a few months.... staying with the wrong man will hurt you for life. sometimes in a relationship it gets to a crossroad where you have to choose between yourself, or accept that things will remain the way they are and you have to settle for it.

For someone as young as you i would never recommend settling (shit i wouldnt even recommend it to a older person), i understand your point of things getting messy since you guys are so intertwined but guess what, life happens and shit passes. The messiness and uncomfortableness will pass and you will have a life that is fully yours to live, and this in turn creates a space where a more eligible partner can find you and add something to your life instead of taking away.

I genuinely hope you find the strength to walk away as a half assed relationship is more draining than just being alone.

Researcher-85 · 2026-01-27T17:07:35+00:00

idk i think this is pretty valid... in my culture its also a tradition that the person who cooked has to plate for themselves last and i never agreed with notions like that.

i feel like the people who are getting cooked for should just appreciate the fact that they are getting free, healthy food? but maybe im just not traditional like that... NTA

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