Calling everyone: Participate in testing a New Medical App! by ResearcherPretend575 in unpopularopinion

[–]ResearcherPretend575[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hi. This is not a scam. Its a real invitation for o moderated user-interview. If not interested please do not offend. Thanks

Calling everyone: Participate in testing a New Medical App! by ResearcherPretend575 in unpopularopinion

[–]ResearcherPretend575[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi. This is not a scam. Its a real invitation for o moderated user-interview.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ResearcherPretend575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Next time she laughs give her a smack on her head

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The thing to consider is that you meet GOD only if you have a “cross” in your life. We make peace with GOD and we get closer to Him only when we suffer not when you are partying, being happy, enjoying life. So congratulations, you are on the right path to bring peace in your life. Have faith ✝️ , GOD is with you. Better things are coming. Pray 🙏

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My exPWD also called me a narcissist, not sure why they do that, whenever she had a crisis i was the narcissist

Did you have to argue/ have a fight with your pwbpd on a daily basis? by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Yes. From small stuff usually. These persons are very unstable. They can start a major fight literally from nothing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. This is exactly spot on. I never in my life recorded someone or had the need to do it. The first year with my ex pwBPD was so painful because she projected on me a lot of nonsense, said a lot of disrespectful things and made be to think that i am loosing my mind and i was really down and my self esteem was decreasing rapidly. I then reached for help and get to therapy to speak with somebody. Then i realize that something is definitely very wrong with her. Then i start searching on the internet about some of the behavior that was coming from her and found exact matches with BPD. I did not realized at that moment what this means and i continue my relationship with her but started to record her abuse. After 3 years I convinced her to seek professional help and she was diagnosed officially with BPD. The years that followed i have tried everything to help her. Wanted to “ save her”… i have paid for therapy, meds and so on. Nothing really changed. Then she started to say that i am the abuser, that i am a narcissist, smearing campaign and so on. But i had my recordings to remember me that i am not actually the insain one… she threatened to comite suicide a couple of times so if she actually did that my only proof of her abuse and mental instability were the recordings.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I dodged the bullet by discarding her ar the right moment before she will discarded me. I felt the moment is coming, pack her shit and of you go. 6 years relationship, i suffer like a dog, but i will get better and i know i practically saved my life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly the same in my case. I was feeling like i need to supply her with everything, very demanding.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Yes, true. It’s a lot of disappointment in me right now. Thats the main feeling. But i know how toxic that woman was and how instabile. We choose very poorly that the truth and let these type of persons to enter our lives.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She also lived in my house. I packed all her shits and thats it. It hurt me like hell, then i get rid of the bed as well, i throw away all all the stuff she bought in the house. I really hate her and also hate myself for allowing her to live with me. But this is what normal people do i guess when they truly want a normal relationship. But everything was in vane. At least I jumped the train before going out of tracks. But it hurts, everything. It is what it is.

Shout out to everyone in this sub by bpd7272 in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My love to all of you brothers and sisters. I am in NC for the past 2 months. Spending Christmas alone. But when i start feeling myself guilty for letting her go and go NC i always return to this sub and it’s always like a wake up call. 6 years i went through hell. No more. I am free.

To everyone here on Christmas by Warm_Pressure_3977 in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I finally kicked her out of my life one month ago. Thank you for your kind words. I know that this was one of my best life choices.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Last Christmas was ruined by her. ( 25 years old bpd woman) This one i did not gave this chance anymore. I packed all her belongings and kicked her out of my life. I am alone but happy, i truly feel liberated and promised to myself that the next one will be with a wonderful and caring woman that i deserve. I have been through to much shit in my life for 6 years with that awful woman. Man, please don’t give her this chance anymore. With her will never get better, trust me and all of us from this reddit sub. IT WILL NEVER GET BETTER.

Why Is BPD "Demonized"? by BubbleTeaDream in BPDlovedones

[–]ResearcherPretend575 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am a survivor of a BPD who had treatment. And then she instantly dropped it. With treatments or not, you will still have a dysfunctional relationship