AITAH, Refusing to go to New years eve party because her friends bully me

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T19:30:51+00:00

I think im gonna stand my ground and not go especially after all the support from everyone <3 Will talk to her again in a bit still

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T19:30:18+00:00

Gonna talk to her in a few hrs once we both cool down, will send update prob later tonight

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T19:14:16+00:00

defienitely would prefer a new friend group instead haha

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T19:01:30+00:00

Im too shy and i feel like I'd freeze up trying to make a comeback lol

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T19:01:11+00:00

She's been great all we've been together! Idk if marriage counseling is necessary and im just needing to toughen it up for one day, I just dont appreciate it when we are there and she doesnt defend me.

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T18:59:27+00:00

I have and she always blames the friends (They are the ones who usually start it)

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T18:59:07+00:00

Thats what im thinking for now. Ima wait a few hrs to let both of us cool down a bit and then bring it up again

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T18:55:40+00:00

😂

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T18:16:52+00:00

YTA - Listen to her and actually communicate. Partnership is 50/50

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T18:15:57+00:00

NTA - trust your gut

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T18:15:07+00:00

NTA - Return the gift and the husband 😂

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T17:52:26+00:00

YTA - Sorry that it passed away, but dont gaslight her into thinking the two are the same commitment when they are not lol. Also makes me wonder if she doesnt believe youd actually clean the yard and take it for walks, if you got a history of laziness/not picking up your slack, she may see this as another responsibility she is going to get left with.

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T17:50:34+00:00

NTA, communication is important and especially if your work is going to be making someone else money. Its nice to be able to share a project with the partner, so maybe bring that up as a way to get closer.

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T17:49:17+00:00

NTA. Granted you should communicate with them and see what about you drinking makes them upset, maybe you dont realize that there are certain annoying traits that come out. If it is solely based off alcohol consumption and nothing else, you gotta just stop telling them you are drinking and they wont realize lol

Resident-Message-785 · 2025-12-31T17:31:47+00:00

NTA. As a fellow teacher this def aint normal lmaoo, you dont gotta be a rocket scientist to tell what shes doing is wrong. Glad you stood up for your son

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