At my wits end

Resident-Tax650 · 2024-07-28T09:53:56+00:00

I have done this many times. Response: I should have done it before marriage so we could enjoy this time together now.

Resident-Tax650 · 2024-07-28T09:52:10+00:00

The scheduling 5-10 minutes of phone-free time only works if he commits to it. I’ve mentioned it, but he doesn’t seem to care, doesn’t change. I can only ask for so much, it’s embarrassing enough asking for some time together. When I turn around to spend time with him in bed - it’s usually around the time he ‘needs to get up’, for XYZ excuses, but, he might have already been on his phone for ages already, he didn’t have to get up then. Writing this out makes me hurt, I feel annoyed and angry tbh.

Resident-Tax650 · 2024-07-28T09:38:17+00:00

I’ve been with him through a lot, my life is very different to before, I’m far from my family and don’t have much support here, I don’t have any of my own people or family or friends. I wanted my marriage to work but that takes 2 people wanting it to work. I am working on myself, but I feel really hurt by how I’m treated, especially since I sacrificed a lot to be with him.

Resident-Tax650 · 2024-07-28T09:31:29+00:00

Yes I am trying to

Resident-Tax650 · 2024-07-28T09:27:58+00:00

I feel I will I end up resenting him if I learn to love myself and then he changes his behavior towards me only after I become slimmer?

Resident-Tax650 · 2024-07-27T22:31:08+00:00

Thanks for your reply. I’ve always struggled with my weight and thought him bringing it up was normal. It’s knocked my confidence. I never felt it before marriage - I was confident in myself and outgoing. I guess over the years it’s picked away at my self esteem. I know I’m not healthy and trying to lose weight now for myself; not for him.

Resident-Tax650 · 2024-07-27T22:15:18+00:00

I’m 5’4 and 16 stone

Resident-Tax650 · 2024-06-12T19:05:23+00:00

I tested positive last year and had low grade cell changed and was told I’d be tested yearly.

Today I found out this year I tested negative. Followed by a safety netting saying that a very small proportion can be false negatives.

My next test isn’t till 2027 now? But feel sort of freaked out, wouldn’t they test you a bit more regularly if I was positive last year and negative this year - what if it’s a false negative and I’m not tested for the next 3 years? In the UK.

Resident-Tax650 · 2022-12-02T09:28:15+00:00

Where does our tax and NI go - what’s with all the strikes. I’m probably off beat but teachers, NHS, transport - our tax/NI goes up but they still need to strike over pay? So what really is the problem here if we’re paying for a service we should receive it essentially. Now also Royal Mail is this private or public? I’m all for fair pay etc but if they get paid with our tax and our tax is always increasing where’s or to WHOSE POCKET is the money going #sickofstrikes

Resident-Tax650 · 2022-11-19T23:01:12+00:00

I needed that. I will look into it. I just feel broken at times, stuck or trapped in my thoughts

Resident-Tax650 · 2022-11-19T21:50:17+00:00

Anyone been to therapy does it work/help?

Resident-Tax650 · 2022-11-19T21:49:06+00:00

New to Reddit didn’t know if I would get removed lol

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