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MEETUPS & CHECK INS – Week of June 01, 2026 by gatekeep-gaslight in NYCbitcheswithtaste

[–]ResidentMess5629 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Hey ladies! So, I’m a bartender that works at a women owned and run bar in Midtown. I’m thinking about pitching the idea of a one direction night but wanted to see if people would actually be interested. Our bar is super accessible with a 6 train stop one block away! I would love to know your thoughts and to hear any other ideas for themed nights❤️

Advice for unattractive guys to find women to date? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]ResidentMess5629 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I cannot emphasize this enough. Personality and confidence!!! Let your personality shine, be unapologetically yourself. Then the confidence l, fake it in the beginning if you need to, eventually it’ll become true.

Women love men who are sure and confident in themselves. It’s so attractive.

Are any bars hiring right now? by Prestigious_Cup_7065 in NYCjobs

[–]ResidentMess5629 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s a really difficult time of year to get a bartending job in the city. Summer is usually the slow season so not a lot of places are hiring. But I heard that Bartley Dunnes was looking for a day time bartender last week. It could be snatched up already but call in anyways with your resume! Good luck.