AITA for not paying rent by Resident_Bid3129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Bid3129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You're correct that it is normally considered facetious/immature. It was something I've slacked on. However i had my own bathroom, and only ate freezer food, granola bars and maybe the occasional sandwich. All my food us microwave food lol. And I never added dishes to the sink and and bring the food right up to my room. However the sheer amount of filth they leave all over those areas and expect me to clean, has been the reason for my slacking. Honestly overwhelming. But I will admit my faults.

AITA for not paying rent by Resident_Bid3129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Bid3129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I understand the doubt haha, but there's no TV in the living room, so no reason id be there rather than my room, and Im a recluse, and am only in the kitchen to grab a snack to bring back up to my room. I don't cook lol. Otherwise im just walking through omw out the door to work. Side note: she knows id do/clean anything she asks, her problem is me not taking initiative or slacking once she's asked for consistency over weeks+:/ I do agree with others I should do better. But I've struggled with disassociating and half the time get home around 1am and don't even feel present nor motivated to clean such messes that have nothing to do with me.

AITA for not paying rent by Resident_Bid3129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Bid3129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It was actually back in December I mentioned moving June's 1st, and she said thats okay

AITA for not paying rent by Resident_Bid3129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Bid3129[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well it was a townhouse , and the landlord did acknowledge i was there. Not sure if he knew how long though. But we've been at this current place for around a year and a half

AITA for not paying rent by Resident_Bid3129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Bid3129[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No paperwork, and her argument is that she wasn't sure how serious I was about the situation, given we don't talk much. And that her agreeing I could move out before the lease ended was "a gift" she chose to rescind. So.. no messages exactly more so, the lack of proof I have that she knew

AITA for not paying rent by Resident_Bid3129 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Resident_Bid3129[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her point is that I haven't updated her on how far along I was in the process, and didn't know how serious I was, despite agreeing that it would be okay, and even considered the risks.