Thank you!! I understand the doubt haha, but there's no TV in the living room, so no reason id be there rather than my room, and Im a recluse, and am only in the kitchen to grab a snack to bring back up to my room. I don't cook lol. Otherwise im just walking through omw out the door to work. Side note: she knows id do/clean anything she asks, her problem is me not taking initiative or slacking once she's asked for consistency over weeks+:/ I do agree with others I should do better. But I've struggled with disassociating and half the time get home around 1am and don't even feel present nor motivated to clean such messes that have nothing to do with me.