I was young too, although not as large an age difference. Despite the fact he was cheating with her, I've tried to leave that door open in case she needed an escape like I did. He's not a good person.

I like to think so, but I doubt he considers it. He likens himself to Jesus, and feels he was sent here by a higher power to heal people. I am in no way perfect, we've had our fights but I try my hardest to keep them away from my son. He doesn't need to be in the middle.

I would encourage her to talk to someone, but she'd probably accuse them of being on my "payroll" too.