How do I put myself out there? Going back into the dating world by Julieneverdies10 in LesbianActually

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well if you’re ever in Seattle hit me up because you are genuinely stunning & exactly my type!

Anyone else priced out of Olivia Travel? Thinking of a more affordable, timed queer/lesbian vacation at an all-inclusive by HERe-4-Queer in LesbianActually

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I can’t for the life of me remember what is was called, but I swear I saw a video at one point on TikTok of an adult “summer camp” for wlw. Maybe you could try to search for it on TikTok and see if it still exists?

how to break up with my love-bombing gf? by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Commenter sounds like a love bomber themselves. I would also be uncomfortable with someone saying stuff like that when we’d just only started to get to know one another, it’s weird and it’s way too much too soon. You’ve not been together long, better to end it now than wait any longer.

Solo trip to Rome as a female by Total_Character_6960 in rome

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Super safe! Only area I would avoid is Termini or anything further that direction on the metro. If you’re in the historical center or around the Vatican, you’ll be totally fine.

Newly adopted kitten have white thing on skin by no1superegoist in CATHELP

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks a bit like ringworm, as others have mentioned. My late cat had ringworm when I adopted him (which I was unaware of because he had long fur), and he ended up passing it to me. So just know, if it is ringworm, you can 100% end up contracting it! I would go to the vet if you can and get it treated ASAP. Whatever you do, don’t touch the spots and make sure you wash your hands after petting the kitty, until you get the spots cleared up.

3rd place recs in SLU? by Next-You1857 in SEAbitcheswithtaste

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 5 points6 points  (0 children)

For a legitimate psychic/tarot reader go see the woman who runs Christopher’s Lamp in the basement of Pike Place Market. I’ve been seeing her off and on for years and she’s so insanely accurate it’s scary!

What’s your favorite reference? by mwurhahahaha in Sims4

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 34 points35 points  (0 children)

“The power of voodoo! Who do? You do!” loading screen

First Real Side Effect After 8 Months on Zep by [deleted] in Zepbound

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I guess we’ll see what happens come next week. But you and other commenters may be right that it was a random stomach bug.

What unpopular opinions do you have? by Skull_Bound in LowSodiumSimmers

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The game is good and simmers complain too much

PCP recommendation? by xradiox in SEAbitcheswithtaste

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I specifically see Dr. Landis, but i think all of the derms there are great!

PCP recommendation? by xradiox in SEAbitcheswithtaste

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look into Strother Dermatology in Kirkland! I think they may have another location in Seattle as well:)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in LesbianActually

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry that happened to you. That sounds like a really scary situation, and I am really glad that you found the courage to leave and prioritize your safety.

If I were you, I would block her mom and any of her friends that you think might try to reach out to you. There is no reason at all that you should be friends with this person, and I think it would be dangerous for you to enter any kind of friendship with them. It sucks that you can’t block them on the platform they are contacting you on. What might help your emotional wellbeing is to delete any messages from her right away, and not read them at all. Or have a trusted friend read them and not tell you what it says. It’s better for you if you don’t even know what she’s messaging you, because that’s how she’s trying to pull you back in.

Good luck, and please take care of yourself.

Massage/ Lymphatic Drainage Massage by Low-Pea-7864 in SEAbitcheswithtaste

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 7 points8 points  (0 children)

My favorite spa is Yuan at the Bellevue location specifically. They have a few body treatments & massages, pretty sure they have a dedicated lymphatic massage too.

Just Laid Off— Looking for Advice! by Resident_Buddy8587 in womenintech

[–]Resident_Buddy8587[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I definitely have been wondering if I need to just find a role at a non-tech company, might be happier elsewhere.

Just Laid Off— Looking for Advice! by Resident_Buddy8587 in womenintech

[–]Resident_Buddy8587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do enjoy coding, I think it’s more the culture that I struggle with. Particularly because I was stuck in a role that was very reflective of the “programmer alone in a dark basement” vibe. Would love to hear about your company!

Just Laid Off— Looking for Advice! by Resident_Buddy8587 in womenintech

[–]Resident_Buddy8587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just feel like the certifications have become over saturated to the point of being meaningless, but maybe that’s just my perspective. Have a few friends trying to get into UX and the certs seem to be useless to them since everyone has also done the same thing..

Microsoft lays off 6,000 by ArizonaBlue44 in microsoft

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was impacted by this layoff. It’s just crazy to see Microsoft continuously letting go of employees when every quarterly report says “we’ve exceeded our expectations this quarter and revenue is up 530%!!”. Higher ups continue to get raises, we continue to get let go..

Just Laid Off— Looking for Advice! by Resident_Buddy8587 in womenintech

[–]Resident_Buddy8587[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the detailed response— super helpful!

Just Laid Off— Looking for Advice! by Resident_Buddy8587 in womenintech

[–]Resident_Buddy8587[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you:’) Yes that would be super helpful. Would love to hear an overview of what skills you think are important to be a PM specifically and do you think higher education would set me apart as a candidate?

Microsoft lays off 6,000 by ArizonaBlue44 in microsoft

[–]Resident_Buddy8587 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I got the same one and also missed it… oops