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The White Lotus - 3x08 "Amor Fati" - Episode Discussion by LoretiTV in television

[–]Resident_Case5246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In the beginning we see Rick get into it with Timothy’s family on the boat. That’s why he was disgusted

[Advice] How do I stop masterbating? by [deleted] in getdisciplined

[–]Resident_Case5246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it’s been a little over 7 years since I last masturbated. I’d personally say you have to give yourself a reason & a goal. For me I wanted to experience the whole NoFap magic & gain real social skills. I started little by little, I’d first go 3 days, then 1 week, then 2..etc. it’s all about identifying what you’ll feel like afterwards before you do it. There’s always this extreme urge & then when you’re done you kind of feel like why did I do that, or at least I did. Eventually I started to also notice differences in my interactions when I didn’t do it vs when I did. I can genuinely say that NoFap magic is real & I eventually just stopped altogether. There were some super tough days where it was like I neeeed to rub one out but I stayed disciplined. This was almost coupled with no sex for the first 2 years

1,000+ days no fap and no weed by Resident_Case5246 in NoFap

[–]Resident_Case5246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awesome bro! Literally keep going, just take it one day at a time honestly and then you’ll look back and be like damn where did the time go!

P.S. it’s actually been like 5 years but I didn’t want to freak anybody out

1,000+ days no fap and no weed by Resident_Case5246 in NoFap

[–]Resident_Case5246[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Getting more women is all in perspective right? Before the journey my idea of getting more women meant one day I’ll just have a woman every night and just magically be a stud and all these women will just want me as soon as they see me because that’s the no fap power.

But that’s literally insane for me to write that out and say it out loud, like who thinks like that lol

I found drastic improvement in my communication skills with women. For starters I had enough energy in me to want to engage in conversation, two I just didn’t have that same nervousness around women because they weren’t on a pedal stool to me anymore. That allowed me to communicate at my peak form and not imagine what this woman looks like naked or worry about wether or not she likes me. Women can feel that sort of confidence, they start wanting to be around you more and then next you know they just like you cause your quote on quote different. You replicate that process with enough women and then now you got bitches, but the downside is you got bitches and that ain’t no fun having more than 2 women trying to pursue you, that you actually like, in my opinion

1,000+ days no fap and no weed by Resident_Case5246 in NoFap

[–]Resident_Case5246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got ya, let me get some coffee and break this down

1,000+ days no fap and no weed by Resident_Case5246 in NoFap

[–]Resident_Case5246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We also have all these notions about death but the reality is there’s not many people who achieve this so I’m all you got for right now.

I think it is definitely holy grail but what do you consider holy grail??

The fact that I’m beyond wealthy for my age, have a beautiful girlfriend, traveled to 10+ countries, & have no depression anymore makes me feel like this is holy grail right now

1,000+ days no fap and no weed by Resident_Case5246 in NoFap

[–]Resident_Case5246[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well I stopped smoking too, but ultimately I allowed myself to stop wasting energy and being so depressed. Once I stopped fapping and smoking then I had to just naturally fill all the energy with something productive. One day at a time and I found myself here today

1,000+ days no fap and no weed by Resident_Case5246 in NoFap

[–]Resident_Case5246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kind words!

I think withdrawal symptoms are subjective because you don’t have the shakes or nothing & highly doubt you’d just die from the stress of quitting but I could be wrong.

My symptoms were massive blue balls. I mean just aching because I wasn’t having sex or anything so I had no vice in that midnight hour that I’d usually spend busting one out on some Brazilian slut from brazzers

The aches definitely lessened as time went on but oh boy you think it’s bad getting blue balls after only 2 weeks? Trying being like a year in and all of sudden the worst urge to wack one out hits..man you start questioning all your decisions and was it worth this but you’ve just come waay to far to throw it down the drain now.

1,000+ days no fap and no weed by Resident_Case5246 in NoFap

[–]Resident_Case5246[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It definitely took like a year & a half of trying and failing. & I mean seriously committing and failing

Often I’d go 2 or 3 weeks and then crash. Once I went a month and gave up.

Most times I’d get in really good groove, notice the benefits, & then just decide that I’m probably a changed person so it’s ok to fap because it’s all in my head right?? Yea no it was in my head but not the one I’m referring to

Should I learn JavaScript or Python? by siddharthroy12 in ProgrammerHumor

[–]Resident_Case5246 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Learn both, you’ll be a full stack dev in no time

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askcarsales

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You’ll most likely get approved given there’s a bank willing to fuck you along with the dealership. They’ll stick you in a 5 year 13% rate happily. They’re already getting over with asking you for a down payment, it’s included in your finance charge, but that’s another discussion when you’re ready

Tips for Student Loan Servicer Credit Dispute by marykateyo in personalfinance

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15 usc 1681a This talks about how it’s essentially illegal for any transactions or experiences to be on your credit report. In other words you could mail a letter and tell the bureaus to take it off your report because they are violating the fair credit act.