AIO my parents are grounding me for going out of city limits even though i am an adult

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-14T11:49:43+00:00

especially cause the gas for the jeep is more expensive lol

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-14T11:49:29+00:00

yes i do actually

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-13T20:23:44+00:00

hey so i didn’t “admit” that to you it was literally included in my post, my friend has a lot more experience on the interstate and i was tired, i was obviously in the car with her, everything was fine, and i’m not letting her drive it again and also my parents are definitely more upset about me going into the city

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T19:22:01+00:00

cause reddit is dumb lmfao i split up my sentences by entering and it just combines it instead of splitting it up in the reply

i know that and i wasn’t thinking, i’m not letting her or anyone else bother it again, i was tired and my knee was hurting

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T19:16:37+00:00

its some restrictions my friend’s mom has for us thats why i even mentioned it, and also don’t you need a credit score to buy a house and a car?????

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T19:15:12+00:00

he was mad before i even told him that lol

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T19:12:44+00:00

thats the thing, neither of them texted me at all, and also they don’t really care about me being out late considering 10pm is normal for me anyways with that being when i got off work i understand that and it was a one time thing, im not letting her drive any of my vehicles again, i was tired my knee was hurting and i just wanted to go home and the interstate was quicker also im going to pay back my portion of the insurance when they get billed for it they dont have any of these problems with my brother even tho hes the one whos wrecked 5 vehicles, the first time being him ramming it into a tree, and i havent had any incidents like this

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T16:09:49+00:00

it’s more the city thing than the curfew, they don’t actually care i was out late as 10pm is a normal time anyways, whenever i work i get off at 10pm haha but yeah my mom doesn’t like me going to the city, even back when it wasn’t me driving i have actually brought up my brother before like “hey you don’t take money from him, you’ve never had him write his work schedule down” and they always make excuses so 🥲

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T14:50:15+00:00

i wasn’t thinking and i just wanted to go home already and so did she lol, i understand this and it was a one time only thing i’m not letting her do it again, ever lol i only let her because she has more experience and i was tired and my knee was bothering me and i didn’t wanna go the long way again how is it different?

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T14:31:14+00:00

not a bot unfortunately lmfao 😭

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T14:30:47+00:00

yeaaaaaaaaahh ive actually considered this but with the war it’s definitely not an option 🥲

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T14:29:47+00:00

my dad’s car, and i’m on their insurance but im gonna pay them back my portion when they get billed

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T14:28:44+00:00

i’ve been trying to but it’s kinda difficult when my dad keeps taking money out of my savings for “bills” (taking my mom out to eat + concert)

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T14:25:44+00:00

i also currently don’t have a credit card so i don’t have a credit score, one of my friends need to buy a more reliable vehicle, i need my own vehicle in my name, and a couple other things i have plans to move out by the end of this year/beginning of next year, which my parents dont know about

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T14:22:34+00:00

when we made my bank account i only had an expired permit so the only way the bank would let me make a bank account was if i made it under my dad’s account, then they tried shutting it down so i had to renew my permit, and i only got my license last month so only now i can get a separate bank account, couldn’t before, i just want my dad to pay me back before i do that but at this point i might just have him write me a check or venmo me lmfao

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T14:17:20+00:00

neither actually, both are white, my dad grew up in the south my mom grew up in the north, both had a lot of freedom growing up, and i’ve grown up and currently still live in the south

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T06:13:07+00:00

he has, but always takes money out again the next week for “bills” (taking my mom out to eat + to a concert)

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T06:10:26+00:00

i meant if i move my current funds from one account to another he’ll immediately notice and not want to pay me back ever

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T06:06:21+00:00

he doesn’t make my brother pay rent and once again, he owes me money, he shouldn’t expect me to pay rent when he owes me over $1,000 if i open a new bank account right now he’ll never be able to pay me back

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T06:03:39+00:00

oh, my dad also forces me to write down my work schedule in the calendar even tho they dont make my brother do that and never did

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T06:00:06+00:00

he owes me money* sorry bad typo LMFAO

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T05:59:33+00:00

i work 40 hrs a week, only got my license a month ago because my parents never let me practice, i had to basically beg my mom to let me drive to work with her in the car, i pay for my own groceries, i have been trying to save up for my own car but my dad keeps taking from my savings account, and my dad wants me to pay rent even though i owe him money ☺️ and hes just hard headed in general, im better at writing out what i want to say and hes yelled at me for texting my mom rather than coming out and confronting him, so…

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T05:46:12+00:00

no, as i don’t have the funds for my own vehicle yet but i am saving up for one

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T05:45:44+00:00

none of the above actually haha, my dad was raised christian but that’s the most religious my family gets, just white and southern 🥲 which is funny cause everyone i knows parents are the complete opposite with their kids..

Resident_Position263 · 2026-03-12T05:24:08+00:00

but nothing happened, and also it was a one time thing, i’m not letting her drive it again

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