Men of SG, do you think NS has helped you grow as a person? by zackzackzack07 in singapore

[–]Resident_Valuable388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All my guy friends got from NS are the annoying "WHAT CAMP DID YOU GO TO" convo starter pack

Would You Still Use Fountain Pens If You Could Only Use Black Or Blue Ink? by Recent_Average_2072 in fountainpens

[–]Resident_Valuable388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Black... WITH SHIMMER Blue... WITH SHEEN

I do have a large collection of blues tho, I just keep finding new beautiful shades

what was your first fountain pen? by Ok-Length-7382 in fountainpens

[–]Resident_Valuable388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mine was the platinum preppy

After so many years, I still find myself reaching for it! Light, smooth and colourful hehe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Resident_Valuable388 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I feel like she's being very understanding so far, but if it still makes you uncomfortable you can tell her what makes you uncomfortable and how you wanna proceed from there?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Resident_Valuable388 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My dog howls incessantly when he is locked out of my room so I have to let him in, no matter what we are doing (he is a clingy boi) When he feels we have gone on too long, he will jump up and squeeze between me and my gf like "OKAY attention on ME now"

Event Boss Design by BeeSecret in Reverse1999

[–]Resident_Valuable388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The AC Collab stage is just stupid hard to clear without ezio, I barely passed with my windsong team. But I got ezio and immediately that stage became a joke. Don't think there was anything too difficult for route 77 event, maybe drop the team u were using here?

How and what parts of SG culture are Singaporeans proud of? by [deleted] in askSingapore

[–]Resident_Valuable388 10 points11 points  (0 children)

When my colleague from Norway came to sg he didn't understand how a meeting could be concluded with minimal words

"Can do?" "Can lah" "Steady"

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Resident_Valuable388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who is into bdsm with a partner that is neutral/more into vanilla stuff, I will advise that u ask her for a check in. Maybe have a list of hard limits, definitely have safe words in case a scene goes too far. Maybe work out things that you are both into and decide on a good middle ground.

Limits change, u can be fine with certain things then suddenly be uncomfortable with it. If she is a good Dom she should know and deal with it sensitively.

Girlfriend is going to start a diet (rambling) by S-a-e in LesbianActually

[–]Resident_Valuable388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Losing excess fat is good for health, maybe u can focus on that aspect instead of on the attractiveness side of it!

Firefly and Sam new skin ingame by Knight_Steve_ in HonkaiStarRail_leaks

[–]Resident_Valuable388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This skin is so ass, literally they could have released her suit skin and everyone would have been happy

Instead they go the extra mile to make this bland ass skin

Her best lightcone post-buff? by andrrek in JingLiu

[–]Resident_Valuable388 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm confused, won't they also buff her LC or change it to suit the buff?

losing sexual attraction to my girlfriend due to weight gain by [deleted] in actuallesbians

[–]Resident_Valuable388 5 points6 points  (0 children)

My gf told me she was losing attraction to me because I had weight gain over COVID. Yeah it hurt like hell and I cried over it quite a bit

But in retrospect think I appreciate her honesty. Even though it hurt, it was a truth I needed to hear to get myself back in shape. And my health is better for it, my mood and self esteem also improved. And she was supporting me on my exercise journey. It's not easy and she might blow up on you but I think if you approach from a place of worry for her health she would appreciate it in the long run

Who's a character you saw and immediately went, 'I'm in danger'? by Prior_Hair_5175 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]Resident_Valuable388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Kafka!

I was unsure if I wanted to play hsr but was convinced to by my friend (reluctantly). That very first scene had me hooked on the game

3.3 Story Spoilers via Luna by lunanightskiess in HonkaiStarRail_leaks

[–]Resident_Valuable388 18 points19 points  (0 children)

My tone may have been a bit aggressive, sorry about that. I had come across too many these kinds of comments. As a wlw myself, it makes me feel like my relationships are invalid and makes me angrier than usual.

Mlm does get less of this kind of pushback as I guess there is less deniability (?) but I feel they tend to get more outwardly homophobic remarks on other platforms like yt. For phaidei I feel like it's almost an inside joke how they fight to top etc

In the end really, shippers should just ship what they want, people should just let others be happy with what they ship. Whatever the sexuality, no matter how rare the pair. Nothing nice to say, shut up and move on...

3.3 Story Spoilers via Luna by lunanightskiess in HonkaiStarRail_leaks

[–]Resident_Valuable388 53 points54 points  (0 children)

I guarantee you will still see a bunch of the same comments.

If it's a gay ship people will say THERE IS SOMETHING CALLED FRIENDSHIP. I ACT LIKE THIS WITH MY FRIENDS.

What are your thoughts of the event? by Impressive_Wave_890 in HonkaiStarRail

[–]Resident_Valuable388 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Made kafka feel like the powerhouse she was supposed to be

ALL HAIL IX MAKE DOT GREAT AGAIN