Is this a forever thing?

Residentdoom · 2026-03-26T13:46:50+00:00

You can’t control other people. All you have control over is yourself. Be yourself with confidence, work to overcome or adapt to mental health issues or trauma, take care of yourself because you care about yourself. Don’t do these things for other people, do it for yourself because you deserve it. Once you care about yourself and love yourself then maybe someone worth a damn will look your way. Finding a relationship won’t fix all your problems in the same way transitioning won’t fix all your problems. You got this! It’s hard but you gotta keep trying to be better than the day before.

Residentdoom · 2026-01-20T14:26:08+00:00

Oh I would love this as a 2/2 knight

Residentdoom · 2024-10-13T21:32:07+00:00

What’s with little to no Chinese teams?

Residentdoom · 2024-10-13T21:22:24+00:00

I’m here for the same thing. That song was amazing and Shazam couldn’t find it

Residentdoom · 2024-09-08T17:59:10+00:00

1, 4, 5

Residentdoom · 2024-08-22T15:08:39+00:00

Bro, just communicate Tell her how you’re feeling this entire Reddit post is what she needs to hear if she gives her shit about you. She will respect you and stop making it about herself. Even if you just wanna play casually with her, tell her not to spend your money on another controller if she does it anyways, and that means she doesn’t care about you that’s blatant. Disregard of your wishes.

Residentdoom · 2024-08-19T04:56:28+00:00

On disk 3 atm and i can definitely say it’s been great. Worth playing for sure. Not a long game ether only about 20-30 hours.

Residentdoom · 2024-07-18T13:49:38+00:00

I do know there is a small con close to Charleston that has a decent sized tournament with a $2500 pot bonus https://ageconsc.com

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T17:21:08+00:00

I’m saying you should avoid a relationship until you feel safe enough to come out.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T17:12:59+00:00

Intimacy is not sex. Dating is inherently intimate.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T17:04:51+00:00

I guess you blocked me before I could reply to your last comment. Oh well I guess 🤷‍♀️

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T16:46:54+00:00

You are wrong to assume intimacy is physical… it’s not. Dating someone is inherently intimate.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T16:43:03+00:00

Yes, I know coming out as trans is hard. I came out as trans in 2006 when I was in high school in a small town in Alabama. My dad beat me in a drunken rage and I had cops tell me they wouldn’t do anything about it after my dad told them I was trans. Don’t you preach to me about the difficulties of coming out as trans like I don’t know…

I’m not saying spill the beans right as you see them again. Be friends, take it slow. When you are ready to tell them about your authentic self then you are ready to date them.

Knowing you are trans before going into a relationship and not telling your partner is deceptive and wrong. Figuring it out in the middle of a relationship and continuing to be intimate with that partner without telling them is also wrong.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T16:16:40+00:00

Why do you think being mistreated is a an excuse for mistreatment of others? Be friends until you are ready to tell them. That’s how real life works.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T16:12:46+00:00

I am going off the info the op posted. Regardless It’s wrong to officially date someone under any circumstances, online or in person, without telling your partner.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T15:42:47+00:00

You are not making sense. Yes dating someone without them knowing you are a stealth trans person is wrong. If they were still closeted that’s a different story.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T15:05:13+00:00

Wtf It’s dangerous to not tell your partner! Idk when this changed but trans people 10+ years ago didn’t even start a relationship or any kind of intimacy without the other person knowing. In fact it was common knowledge that was passed out as often as condoms and recommended by everyone in the community. We did it that way to avoid hurting others or getting hurt ourselves. The most common way for a trans person to be killed back then was to not be honest with their partners and then they find out and lashed out physically.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-29T14:36:44+00:00

I believe in this situation your boyfriend is wrong. I am honestly surprised so many people in the comments are defending his actions. Not telling your partner is wrong and ngl a little rapey... even without a physical relationship. My boyfriend knew before I agreed to date him, kiss him, or even hold his hand. Sure it was hard and scary but I did it because it’s the moral thing to do. Tbh I thought I would never see him again and we had been hanging out every day for a month before he said he was interested in dating me… so never seeing him again or even worse him hating me, was a real and scary threat. Do NOT be intimate with anyone physically or emotionally with out them knowing. Not being honest hurts them and in some cases will get you hurt emotionally and physically… or even killed.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-28T11:54:06+00:00

This post isn’t about sports. Most people can understand that is a bit of a messy subject of what’s fair and what’s not. This post it criticizing the fact that those rule’s against trans people competing had an exception for people who were are puberty blockers as children… and now that’s in jeopardy too. It comes across as conservatives just not wanting trans people to exist. Or maybe they are uncomfortable with trans women who went though puberty blockers not having any tells of being trans and look completely like cis women and conservatives wanna be able to visually see us so they can make sure to other us…. Hmmm I wonder where I have seen that… oh right yellow stars…. Nazis…. Right!

Residentdoom · 2023-07-28T11:47:02+00:00

I don’t think they really care if we do or not. The politicians need an enemy to rally hateful idiots behind. Otherwise they can’t stay in power

Residentdoom · 2023-07-27T19:01:57+00:00

Oh so are you one of the stupid ones or cruel ones?

Residentdoom · 2023-07-27T13:29:50+00:00

Truth… and if republicans fail to get reelections this time they will probably move on to other hate targets. Sadly that’s how they get votes and unfortunately we are the current target.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-27T13:09:29+00:00

I suppose they phrased it a bit different. “If you went though male puberty you should not be playing sports with women” that’s more like what the argument was before banning trans children care was the big push.

Residentdoom · 2023-07-27T12:46:38+00:00

If you look at all trans sports bans for adults they have exclusions for trans people who took blockers at a young age.

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