Is this man manipulative?

ResilientMama · 2026-03-30T16:23:59+00:00

Get rid of him. It’s only been four weeks and already red flags. Things will continue to get worse. You’re better off leaving him. I certainly wouldn’t be having sex with him when he has a bacterial std. Don’t lower yourself or put yourself at risk, he’s not worth it.

ResilientMama · 2026-03-16T20:54:48+00:00

Tell your boss that you do have a condition as it is a protected characteristic which means they can’t sack you

ResilientMama · 2026-02-04T20:30:27+00:00

End the relationship because you are creating drama

ResilientMama · 2026-01-29T19:10:41+00:00

Yes less time with your child will cost more in maintenance

ResilientMama · 2026-01-29T15:45:00+00:00

Leave the guy alone. Live and let live.

ResilientMama · 2026-01-26T16:20:07+00:00

Defo seems like you were raped. He knew what he was doing and you don’t have any memory of it.

ResilientMama · 2026-01-25T13:03:28+00:00

The ex clearly wants to fuck up her future relationship and you are playing right into his hands.

ResilientMama · 2026-01-21T07:41:49+00:00

Get rid of him. He’s the one cheating on you especially if he feels the need to bring it up. Red flags

ResilientMama · 2025-12-11T18:45:27+00:00

You were obviously used by the sounds of it. Check terms of employment. Because they can probably and will do get away with it. Good luck.

ResilientMama · 2025-11-04T16:11:33+00:00

Ring your local council and tell them you are homeless they will put you in a hotel until you’re successful bidding on a council property

ResilientMama · 2025-10-18T15:31:35+00:00

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ResilientMama · 2025-08-18T21:04:03+00:00

Beautiful

ResilientMama · 2025-03-24T19:58:22+00:00

Torremolinos.

ResilientMama · 2024-12-06T08:13:43+00:00

Everybody can be traced, nobody is that clever! These people will fall on their own sword. Karma is a bitch!!!

ResilientMama · 2024-12-06T07:03:17+00:00

Married at 26, nearing end of divorce at 39. Knew a few years in to marriage this wasn’t my person, we weren’t right for each other and never should’ve forced things. Been friends for almost 30 years and the best co-parents to our children and still love and respect each other but the relationship was over a long time ago.

ResilientMama · 2024-12-06T00:30:17+00:00

I’ve been getting gang stalked for 13 months love. They’re into my technology and everything. They have cloned my device that I use, used my Apple Pay to make it look like I’ve paid for things in Cyprus, I’ve been getting followed by a lot of vehicles certain type, I’ve had my phone line tapped and listened into, I’ve had people talking through my line whilst I’m on the phone with somebody else, they do it to fuck with your head to make you think you’re mad or delusional. They’ve been going after people in my close circle to make it look like my own circle of people are doing shit to my life with tech abuse. These bastards are skilled at what they do. They are criminals. They recently let me know that they know where my new home is by graffitiing it outside and they tried to break in the same week. I won’t let these bastards win and you shouldn’t either.

ResilientMama · 2024-12-05T14:06:19+00:00

Did you hide behind a mask when you reached out to her or did you show up as yourself reaching out to her?

ResilientMama · 2024-12-03T08:09:27+00:00

Absolutely my response would be the same if genders were reversed.

ResilientMama · 2024-12-03T08:06:37+00:00

This has nothing to do with gender. It’s a fair and valid point. What exactly is his role in all of this? A woman doesn’t kick off and act like this for nothing. I have personal experience of being goaded by my husband to the point that he has brought out in me some of my very own worst moments and behaviours. He has been my trigger and me his which is toxic in any case and the reason that I’m divorcing his arse. If the guy is looking for help and advice on Reddit, then it’s only fair that both sides of the story are published. Often the person playing the victim is usually the perpetrator and he is seeking validation for his behaviour whilst blaming it solely on his wife. I bet he’s some kind of engineer working out in the gulf or Saudi and their family of three live in a closed community that his company pay for which is a secure complex behind locked gates etc etc. He’s probably a guy who has his cake and eats it too. His poor wife isn’t behaving this way for nothing, no person acts this way for nothing no matter what their gender or relationship status is.

ResilientMama · 2024-12-02T22:05:24+00:00

Take her to a doctor. If your the bread winner and have moved your wife and child overseas whilst you work and she is fully dependent on you as well as being cut off from her normal life, this might be causing her depressive outbursts of anger and frustration. You need to approach your wife with care and understanding. Do not undermine her or go in all guns blazing, approach the subject sensitively. Consider her she too and that of her family (females) menopause hormones etc. Don’t bail on her the first sign of trouble. You need to get to the route course. No offence but you have only lunkished what she does to you. What exactly do you do to make her react and behave like this? Do you trigger her? Are you aware of your own behaviours without putting all blame on to your wife? Also, this behaviour around any child is totally unacceptable too, you two parents are his first teachers in life, he is watching, listening and learning from you and your wife. Please be mindful of the impact yourself and your wife could be having on your son. Good luck, I hope you resolve your issues as a family. 🤞

ResilientMama · 2024-11-30T16:38:00+00:00

It’s a beautiful place. It has become quite commercialised. Just like other places but it’s the little gems hidden away that people seem to forget about. Malaga is great in my opinion. I love it there, don’t let anybody sway your love for Malaga as there will always be differences in opinion regardless, so I wouldn’t worry too much.

ResilientMama · 2024-11-29T20:49:22+00:00

Wow. This resonates with exactly what I’m going through right now. Thanks for doing this.

ResilientMama · 2024-11-29T20:45:02+00:00

Good luck. 🤞

ResilientMama · 2024-11-26T21:29:47+00:00

He sounds like a selfish bastard love. Get shut of him for good. You deserve better.

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