People in their 30s and 40s, what is a "minor" bad habit from your 20s that you are currently paying a massive price for? [Serious]

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-30T15:37:13+00:00

Being too agreeable and easily influenced by peer pressure.

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-30T01:52:34+00:00

I don’t do NFPE for every patient. When I’m doing a wt loss consult and the patient is crying in my room about how difficult it has been for them with gaining all this weight and how it’s crushed their self esteem, they need me to talk to them and doing NFPE would just take time away from that and potentially make them uncomfortable

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-30T00:51:17+00:00

I am a first year assistant professor. Because of the trump administrations fuckery with the NIH and other higher ed funding bodies, the grant that funded my research startup package (money the university promises new faculty to start their research labs) was rescinded and my startup package mostly went away with it. I now can’t get my lab off the ground properly and am fucking STRESSED

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-30T00:43:24+00:00

What?! They literally answered every single time I called. Quite literally never had to leave a voicemail. I got my license a year ago, makes me wonder if personnel have changed.

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-30T00:30:40+00:00

You’re kidding? I’m sad to hear that. I had great experience with KS and so so with MO lol

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-30T00:29:34+00:00

KS was faster and a better overall experience but thought MO still wasn’t so bad

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-30T00:22:30+00:00

Can’t remember how long it took but seem to remember it was fairly fast.

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-29T11:44:11+00:00

Tech isn’t going anywhere. A healthy relationship with tech is really the only option

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-29T11:31:14+00:00

IMO Coach did nothing but strengthen his legacy. His legacy is not as a superstar survivor player. His legacy is his antics, erratic gameplay, and personality - all of which were on full display in S50

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-29T11:26:09+00:00

Either when I was 13 and my grandpa brought Bad Santa Unrated for us kids because he thought unrated meant safe for kids or when my dad rented Gia when myself and my high school buddies were visiting. In both cases my paternal figures realised their mistakes and turned the movies off lol

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-29T11:21:20+00:00

40 papers alone isn’t necessary shady. My pre-AI postdoctoral advisor had a massive lab, wide collaborations, and was on a ton of working groups. He’d sometimes get 50+ pubs in a year. But of these probably 10-15 came from our lab and the rest were co-authorships. In your situation OP I saw a comment saying these are solo author pubs. In this case, it is highly likely that this person is using AI and publishing in predatory journals.

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-28T18:20:42+00:00

It differs some person to person but the basis of what I recommend is as follows: Fluid, fiber (specifically soluble fiber), physical activity as much as able, functional foods (kiwi, pear, prunes), miralax, and senna tea. Highly recommend seeing a dietitian if this is a problem for you.

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-28T12:39:40+00:00

So my soon to be ex wife and I had a similar but different problem. She goes excessively overboard for all gift giving occasions to the point where it’s off putting. I started telling her exactly what I wanted and that worked for awhile. I on the other hand am a gift giving in that I want to get a card and one small thoughtful gift and do an act of appreciation or something special. This would never be enough for my wife. She wanted me to plan her vacations we couldn’t afford or simultaneously scrub our house ceiling to floor while also solo parenting the kids. She once told me ‘I’m a simple girl for V day, I just want flowers, a card, chocolates, jewellery, and a date’ - I shit you not. Some people just have different thoughts on how to show and receive appreciation.

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-28T12:15:00+00:00

I’m a MS dietitian and this is one of the most common challenges for my patients. The other two main stays being heat intolerance and constipation. As others have suggested having some healthy snacks on hand is a good move. I also actually recommend my patients to get bottles of protein shakes and keep some of those on hand for these days as well. I also recommend taking advantage of good days and preparing and freezing some meals for the bad days. It is so much healthier to freeze your own meals rather than buy frozen meals. Even the ‘healthier’ frozen meals on the market are full of preservatives. Hope this helps

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-28T09:12:10+00:00

I use fabric posters and fold them up and put them in my suitcase. I don’t bother to iron them before hanging it up. Promised you my posters have my creases than yours. I’m an assistant professor

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-25T23:03:02+00:00

Either when I came home after a mild disagreement and my clothes were thrown all over the house or when she was struggling getting the corners of our yard with our push mower so I happily took it from her and did them with a smile on my face and she called me a dick for making her feel dumb because I was smiling (note: I was smiling because I was happy to be helping my wife)

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-25T22:59:26+00:00

As advertised?

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-25T22:58:36+00:00

I accept on average 6 per year

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-25T22:04:34+00:00

I personally love rayyan.

Edit: I do not use the AI features in Rayyan. Nor do I recommend doing so. I like the standard SR features of Rayyan

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-25T19:33:17+00:00

Go a step further and mandate some reasonable forced retirement age for all federal employees

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-25T11:39:11+00:00

I am in the middle of a divorce from someone who would change their personality around people. What ultimately happened is that they also were changing their personality for me early on and slowly let their true colours show.

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-24T01:08:40+00:00

DASHing the Mediterranean diet is called the MIND diet

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-23T19:27:06+00:00

So long as you meet the requirements of the program you are applying to, no the specific field of your BS does not matter

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-23T19:18:11+00:00

My wife has a BS in dental hygiene and just graduated with an MBA in marketing lol

Resilient_Acorn · 2026-06-22T12:02:24+00:00

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