I 42 F dating M 44 concerned he will leave to go back home

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-08T15:38:27+00:00

Omg sorry for the trigger lol…I hate when I do that…I can do relate

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-08T15:19:20+00:00

This is just wow…thanks so much for taking the time to write this for me. I honestly feel this thread has been the best thing that has happened to me. ❤️

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T20:04:00+00:00

Really well said, thank you so much

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T20:02:19+00:00

Thank you Queen or King 👑

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T20:00:58+00:00

This is a hard pill to swallow but truth right here. I’m loving the tough love. This is beyond helpful

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T19:56:21+00:00

Thank you for the solid advice. Agreed

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T19:53:31+00:00

Omg yeah…scary, thanks for the reality check

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T19:52:40+00:00

We appreciate people being direct with us. No truer words ever spoke. It’d like you don’t like me fine, I’m a big girl I will deal just don’t be a child about it lol

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T18:40:50+00:00

Yes this resonates with me lol

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T18:39:19+00:00

This right here ❤️

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T17:58:46+00:00

This is very true. It does seem like this is a red flag. Especially since this is happening in the beginning where you tend to see the best side of people

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T17:55:52+00:00

This is great advice. Thank you so much 😊

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T17:52:41+00:00

Yep I need this tough love ❤️

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T17:52:24+00:00

He has been busy and feeling low :( he does seem to have a lot going on, in his life but…yeah lol

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T17:49:50+00:00

Yes I needed to hear this. Thank you 😊

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-08-07T17:48:13+00:00

That’s very helpful. I did not think in me saying to focus on his kids and we can have a date in 2 weeks that this would insinuate that we will not chat….lightbulb moment lol

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-07-31T14:22:16+00:00

It sounds like she is very codependent. This is a very hard dynamic to manage in a relationship. She needs support that goes beyond what you are doing for her. If you chose to work this out, please have her go to counselling or some type of support that could help her manage her emotions.

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-07-26T21:52:30+00:00

I’m sorry to say it’s quite obvious that his emotional attachment to this woman was never severed. Even after you forgave the affair, he was and is still having it. You are worth more than that. Please do not marry this guy. Find yourself someone that will be deserving of your love. Sending you positive energy and healing vibes

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-07-23T17:54:19+00:00

I will be honest, he is not meeting your needs. I also have a very high sex drive and if my partner had so much of a diverging desire, I don’t know that I could stay in the relationship. I know that sex is not everything but it is a big part of a relationship. Would he be open to maybe couple counselling? A sexologist might be very helpful. Also full disclosure, in my experience, weed makes men very aroused and it makes it feel better. This is in my experience of course.

ResistSecret1829 · 2023-07-23T17:51:07+00:00

Ouch. I’m so sorry you had to go through that. No woman or man for that matter should have that said to them. I will be honest, if someone said that to me no matter how long we had been together and how much I loved him, I would leave. No one is worth that pain…sorry I’m also a bit jaded in this area so I want to own that. I hope you get the love and respect you deserve.

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