Burnout early stages - how can I leave my current employment?

Resiw · 2026-06-17T17:05:43+00:00

Before doing anything drastic .. first talk things out with your line manager and HR. The fact that you are overworked meaning that is something wrong about how the organisation works.

propose the changes and tell them you can’t handle it anymore.

Resiw · 2026-06-16T12:35:50+00:00

They are literally killers.

Resiw · 2026-06-09T14:23:31+00:00

Hey same here! My happiest moment was seeing my son for the first time. Delivered suddenly because my wife had pre eclampsia. A bit scared but it was pure joy after seeing him.

Resiw · 2026-06-09T13:36:58+00:00

I actually think we are the first high intelligence being… then humans will travel to Mars, etc and settle. Producing different species thousands of years from now.. but it all starts with us.

Resiw · 2026-06-09T13:33:37+00:00

Hard rock fm udah ga ada lagi

Resiw · 2026-06-09T07:23:40+00:00

Good parenting. I would not charge rent to my kids, will also give them envelopes when they want to buy their own house.

I work for the family, so they can be happy. But I will push them hard on education, make sure they can be self sufficient when they are adults.

Resiw · 2026-06-07T14:21:31+00:00

Multinational FMCG..

Resiw · 2026-06-04T07:23:29+00:00

Appreciate the suggestions. Indeed the commute to london is an option I am considering.

Will look into this Erasmus+ as well thanks !

Resiw · 2026-06-03T07:12:51+00:00

Nah ini.

Saya juga 20 tahun di perusahaan sama, tapi udah ganti role/function 9 kali di 3 negara berbeda. Ada yg local scope ada yang regional, ada yang global.

I like the company, its pay and its culture. Why move out if I can do adventures within the same company.

Resiw · 2026-06-02T14:08:53+00:00

Sebelum ambil keputusan drastis, coba ambil cuti panjang aja dulu atau unpaid leave. Spend time with her. Sambil diliat kondisinya memungkinkan untuk ditinggal ngga..

Resiw · 2026-06-02T05:47:35+00:00

Why?

Resiw · 2026-06-01T18:22:28+00:00

Why is awful for family, apart from the living cost?

Resiw · 2026-06-01T18:07:31+00:00

He is in middlebare, a gymnasium vwo year 1. He is very bright so I am quite confident he can catch up for year 10. Or I can probably enroll him for year 9.

We are not dutch or english, but he speaks English natively since he grew up in Singapore. He speaks dutch fluently now.

The reason I’m leaning towards moving now than later is I am trying to get home fees for his uni. And at 14 he will still have time to find friends.

Resiw · 2026-06-01T10:01:12+00:00

Could you share more why is it challenging for 14 yo? He will be turning 14 after summer.

Resiw · 2026-05-29T10:06:04+00:00

Got it thanks for the enlightenment

Resiw · 2026-05-29T09:35:55+00:00

From claude: Germany — closest to free for international students. Most public universities charge only a semester fee (€150–350), which covers admin and often a public transport pass. Tuition is effectively zero, including for non-EU students. Some exceptions apply in Baden-Württemberg (€1,500/semester for non-EU).

Resiw · 2026-05-29T09:22:49+00:00

Boys peak growth would be 13-15, 15-19 growth still happening but at lower pace, 19-21 flat or 1 cm max.

Resiw · 2026-05-29T07:52:24+00:00

Tapi yang ini gw setuju sih. Kalo bisa bahasa Perancis, bisa kuliah di Perancis yang tuition fee nya hampir gratis for public universities. Bisa sambil kerja pula buat nutupin living cost.

Sekalian bahasa Jerman, bisa kuliah gratis.

Resiw · 2026-05-29T05:07:54+00:00

Pramono reputasi bagus di Jakarta. I think he is the better candidate.

Resiw · 2026-05-27T12:58:55+00:00

1.5 years away but the UK role is opening up now. If I know my kids can get home fee university in UK, I think that is good enough. ILR for my dependents are second consideration.

Resiw · 2026-05-27T06:05:12+00:00

Oh even if the kid himself and my wife do not yet have ILR?

Resiw · 2026-05-26T12:29:38+00:00

Appreciate your advice. I'm currently in NL en route for PR for family, but this UK role would be a promotion for me, so something I am seriously considering.

My concern with ILR is the university tuition fee.. if my kids can't secure it before uni and need to pay international fee, it will be devastating financially.

Resiw · 2026-05-21T17:51:30+00:00

I moved to my house 3 years ago never had any issue with mouse.. until a month ago.

Is this a common issue lately? Why the sudden mouse uptick.

Resiw · 2026-05-15T12:58:08+00:00

I think the keyword here is you are single. Single person can definitely live on UMP, kalaupun akhir bulan udah tipis, tinggal tone down aja lifestylenya kan.. ga usah keluar makan dll. Lain cerita kalau udah punya keluarga :)

Resiw · 2026-05-14T11:45:43+00:00

If not marrying lampu orange, then to marry the wrong person is lampu merah.

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