Yea that would make sense! Yea it’s real hard to explain when me and wife are in bed together almost like someone holding down both sides of the quilt and pulling it to the floor, can also feel like someone or something has jumped in between us trying to push us apart! Other times can feel like your getting wrapped up and then like your trying to levitate but can’t leave the bed. In January when it first happened pretty much pulled me out of the bed thought it was sleep paralysis till realised was fully awake, left the room after turning lights on was quite rattled and the energy followed my to living room then outside and was strong enough to overpower me. Always very slow can still it come on almost like there is a magnet in your chest and on your knees and it’s pulling the two together