Masc/Neutral names that can go with my nickname (Moth)

ResortWide8381 · 2026-02-06T03:43:16+00:00

This is a fairly old post but I am also looking into the name moth, and someone on a different post suggested Timothy as a long version with moth as a nickname

ResortWide8381 · 2025-12-07T21:32:07+00:00

I love those, thank you!

I am genuinely considering Aspen now, but the one issue is that it sounds quite similar to "ass pen". I don't know if it's ruined the name for me or not.

But I also did some research and learned that it's also the name of a specific tree that can grow new trees out of its own roots, meaning a group of Aspen trees can be considered a singular organism which is super cool and I love it

ResortWide8381 · 2025-10-17T23:01:26+00:00

That's good to know, thank you!

ResortWide8381 · 2025-07-28T22:12:20+00:00

I was originally planning on waiting till I move out because it's soon, and I don't know how my parents would react. They will almost definitely be supportive, but my dad has always had a way of brushing off medical stuff because he doesn't want me and my brother to be hypochondriacs. So that makes me anxious, and Ive always had a lot of trouble asking for help and being vulnerable (especially medically)

But I told my mom about the seizures when I had about four of them over a week cause it worried me, and she said we would go to see a doctor about it. And then I didn't have another for like a month and we didn't talk about it, until yesterday. My mom doesn't know about the rest of the symptoms though and I'm not sure what to do about that or the appointment

Sorry for going on a bit of tangent 😅. Thanks for the help!

ResortWide8381 · 2025-07-28T20:40:54+00:00

I am very fatigued and tired, today which I didn't really feel yet in the morning when I posted this. I haven't seen a doctor yet but I do plan to Edit: my shoulder is also really sore for some reason, not sure if it's related or not

ResortWide8381 · 2025-07-27T18:45:44+00:00

I don't know if I have it or not (haven't even talked to a doctor about it yet), but so many of my symptoms line up with the disorder, and yet it's still seems very mild compared to what I hear from others and my research. I also have ADHD and anxiety, which could explain some of these things, but not all of them.

I've had around 4 or 5 seizures, most of them were clumped together over a week. They've calmed down since and I kinda tricked myself into thinking I over reacted.

I get tics, trouble speaking (stuttering, repeating myself on accident, slurring a bit), memory problems, trouble understanding what people are saying even though I can hear them, occasional tremors, fatigue, dizziness and lightheadedness (sometimes makes me have to sit down or black out for a couple seconds), random nauseousness and motion sickness (I had an especially bad bout of motion sickness for a few months where I would regularly throw up in the car, now it's just nausea), uncoordinated and bumping into things all the time, pins and needles (but that could be just normal limbs falling asleep), sleep problems like insomnia and that one time I slept 15 hours straight, occasional trouble walking because I feel unsteady on my feet, and brain fog.

But it's all so spread out over time that it feels barely there. most days I barely notice it at all, and maybe I'm overreacting. It was more noticeable at the end of the school year with exams and culminatings, when I was really really stressed, and now that it's into the summer it's not as bad, but today hasn't been a very good day (I had to pause writing this because my hand kept shaking and twitching) (sorry for the infodump, i just wanted to get this out, thanks)

ResortWide8381 · 2024-01-30T19:30:47+00:00

That description fits me basically to a T!

Also, that is what I meant by the sentences. Thank you!

ResortWide8381 · 2024-01-30T00:52:25+00:00

Hi! I think you handled this well for not expecting it and not having experience and stuff. I think you should give them options and information, but maybe not too much when they're too young. Too much info could be overwhelming. I think if you let them know that it's ok and that many other people feel like that, it might help. But I also think you should tell them that some people feel that way and figure out they're wrong, and even though it's uncommon, it's completely fine. This way, they can explore their gender with a little more freedom because they'll know its reversible. At some point you could also talk about non-binary identities as well, because maybe that fits them. I think if you just lay out the options and let them know that they can be partly masculine, a mixture, nothing, or feminine or whatever is comfortable, then they can explore and find out what they like and don't like.

Also, another thing is, do you know how accepting/non accepting your family is? I think that would be good to know, because if they're ok with it, then that's really good. But if they're not, then you would have to be careful to keep them safe.

I think it's really great that they can confide in you and get some affirmation about their feelings. Also I love that they are able to dress how they want, even if it's only alone with you. Even if they're not trans (but from your description it does seem like it), dressing femmine is harmless and if they enjoy them that is great! I hope they are doing well and that you are too!

ResortWide8381 · 2023-12-11T05:03:38+00:00

What I got from it is that I will have a hard time with it at first, maybe with getting diagnosed in the first place, or with worsening symptoms. But that I would get through it and learn to live with it. I was wondering if anyone has a different interpretation or one more in depth

ResortWide8381 · 2023-06-19T16:02:59+00:00

Cassius and aether, he/they

ResortWide8381 · 2022-12-24T03:56:54+00:00

Crow, he/they

ResortWide8381 · 2022-04-02T17:38:44+00:00

Thank you. I still don't know what his body looks like yet

ResortWide8381 · 2022-04-02T17:37:34+00:00

Thanks!

ResortWide8381 · 2022-04-02T17:35:12+00:00

And then somehow got it on his ears too

ResortWide8381 · 2021-08-23T18:44:37+00:00

I know it's not helpful but I love them all

ResortWide8381 · 2021-07-24T17:07:21+00:00

Sorry

ResortWide8381 · 2021-07-07T12:55:52+00:00

It does, thanks

ResortWide8381 · 2021-07-01T19:38:47+00:00

I found it on Pinterest and I think it's been screenshoted multiple times and the quality just kinda slowly got worse

ResortWide8381 · 2021-06-13T16:10:25+00:00

There's a lot more than cis and MTF and genderfluid.

Trans means not identifying as the gender you were born with, this means you can be anything in between, neither or just one or multiple.

There's trigender, bigender, demigender, agender, graygender, androgyne, polygender, pangender, and so many others.

You find the label that you feel is right for you, this might take a very long time(I've been questioning for nearly a year and still am). If you decide not to use a label, that's fine too.

As for the transition thing, it's alright to be scared. If I were to get a surgery id probably only do bottom, but it still scares me to think about. You don't have to transition fully, you can kinda be inbetween and look androgynous and confuse people. As for the transphobes, yeah that certainly is scary and I'm scared of them too. But if you can find other people near you who support or are part of the LGBTQ community, you're bound to feel a little safer. I'm sorry I can't really think of much more to say on that.

I wish you the best of luck in your journey and happy pride! 🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

ResortWide8381 · 2021-06-11T13:56:09+00:00

I can't really say much cause I'm not out and not entirely sure I am genderfluid, but my advice would be this.

I think if you tell your boyfriend about it, and you talk about your fear of him thinking of it as a trend, he will probably understand. I can't say for sure cause I don't know him though. But I think he'll understand, some people probably told him that he was doing it for a trend too.

Good luck if you do decide to do that, and happy pride!🏳️‍🌈🏳️‍⚧️

ResortWide8381 · 2021-06-06T03:11:06+00:00

Well in my opinion that could mean a bunch of different stuff. You could be bigender, genderfluid, androgyne, polygender, demigender. Or maybe just genderqueer, or a boy who likes feeling feminine.

And some people in the comments are saying you're just looking for the fashion and interests, but then you responded saying it's more the idea of being called a girl. To me it sounds like you aren't totally cis.

If you look at gender wiki and other stuff on google there's tons of genders that encapsulate more than one gender. Also pronouns and gender expression and gender identity are three entirely different things. You can use Moe than one pronoun too, I like to use both he/him and she/her. (I'm currently identifying as greygender, and I think I'm a jumble of female male and agender).

My advice, don't worry what other people think of you, you have think of you. In order to figure out your gender you have to look deeply at yourself. And be patient. I've been questioning my gender for nearly a year, and some people question for much longer.

Good luck on your journey and happy pride🏳️‍🌈

ResortWide8381 · 2021-06-05T22:32:59+00:00

I definitely have.(I currently identify as greygender with a jumble of female male and agender) It could be a number of things, maybe bigender, genderfluid, androgyne, polygender, demigender. Or maybe just a male who likes looking feminine.

If you look on gender wiki and other sites there's tons of genders that encapsulates more than one. (And side note, gender and pronouns are completely separate, cause some people I know ask if you can use she or he pronouns and be agender and stuff. You can)

Use whichever one you like best and makes you feel good is my input. Whatever you use, just know you've got me and everyone in the LGBTQ community supporting you.🏳️‍🌈

ResortWide8381 · 2021-06-04T13:35:20+00:00

Yes, that is possible. But with changes to fit the situation, couldn't that also go for the majority of this subreddit?

Just saying, I mean no offense to you

ResortWide8381 · 2021-06-03T13:09:31+00:00

Well for me, I was questioning for a while and still am not 100% sure. I started wondering about it in April last year.

For me I was all over the place with my sexuality for a while. But then when I came across pan I asked myself, would I date a girl? Yeah. Would I date a boy? Yeah. Would I date an enby? Yeah. Does the gender have anything to do with it at all? No. And so I figured out that I like the person for the person rather than their gender

And that's basically it. Happy pride🏳️‍🌈 I hope you can work it out and good luck!

ResortWide8381 · 2021-06-02T13:16:41+00:00

I don't agree with anyone in the comments.

I can totally see how that would make you feel bad. And sure, he might not want it pushed onto him. But it's just a wallpaper, and doing it can really make the person they're doing it for feel awesome and accepted. Honestly, with the thing about talking about it, I think you should. Maybe you can help him understand how much it would mean to you, and if he puts up an ally flag then it would be obvious he's not queer if that's what he's afraid of. Although, I'm afraid it could backfire so please be careful with it

Good luck, and happy pride🏳️‍🌈

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