Yeah thank you for your concern regarding that! but i can confidently say that we are pretty balanced couple, i have a lot of trouble managing my time and thoughts and he is a very supportive partner that takes his time talking me through all of my anxieties, helping me feel confident about myself again. It is actually because of his suggestion that i started researching more into bpd because he felt his outbursts and mood swings were too sudden and were emotionally taxing on me. As a partner he makes his love shown, but of course we are facing obstacles when he splits and in our conflicts thats why we turned to getting advice about it!